He really said 'no second date' for the most insane reason ever 💀

@MrWhiteMAGA Unpopular opinion but he’s right. She wore a hoodie on the first date. Not even low effort, but no effort whatsoever. Red flag.

@Azariel91 If she doesn’t care about the first date, why should he care about a second?

Looks like they are just at a coffee shop for a DAYTIME date. This is obviously not a 9pm reservation at Nobu. The guy sounds like some beta-male anyway but a date should be to get to know someone. She dodged a bullet if he's that ridiculously critical & superficial.

Things that never happened.

I agree with him. It doesn't matter where they went to eat, she made no effort to look any different than she would if she was going to Walmart.

Hoodie is the new Sweat pants

Why is she filming herself while on a date with bro? She is either the dumbest bitch on the planet or this is staged and fake af. Either way, she’s a train wreck and deserves it. Haha.

I wouldn't have worn a hoodie, but she's drinking from a plastic cup, clearly not a high end restaurant. He should have taken her somewhere nice, and mentioned the dress code. And who films themselves rejecting someone over the way they dressed? Kind of mean & dorky.

Not an insane reason

This "guy" get off on blindsiding women Who is he kidding.... Women are not his thing His comment was unnecessary & MEAN She seems like a lovely girl He is NOT a nice guy.

If they were really vibing he wouldn't have cared if she was in sack cloth and ashes

If a man cares at all about what you are wearing, that's not a man that you would ever want to spend any time with. He's clearly a waste of YOUR time.

I think that this is staged, or otherwise he’d have probably cited the phone being set up and recording but… If this were real, he asked her to a place with plastic to-go type cups so don’t get on a high horse and expect a girl to put on her best attire when you asked her to meet you in a shopping mall food court.

"It's not your personality, it's your face and the shape of your body."

I mean, obviously this is a click bait skit, but the reasoning the man explains is rock solid. She’s already overweight, and dressing down on a first date, he could just expect more of the same forever from her, more dressing down, more weight gain, unless he wants to put in the intellectual labor to keep her motivated to do better, or he could just move on and cut his losses. Which is what he’s doing. And good for him. That was the right call. It’s unfair for women to expect men to put in intellectual labor 100% of the time to keep a woman up to his standards. At some point he has to cut his losses or she has to step up.

Why is she recording this? Probably because it never happened.

He’s not into her and he’s grasping at straws for an excuse.

sounds completly reasonable to me! You look like a slob. then drinking (anything) while on Face time proves you do not know how to be a lady. You might check out Melania Trump if you want to know how to behave around real men.

This is staged. Also, of course you dont weat a giant sweatshirt on a first date. 🙄

Why would you want a woman to wear designer bullshit on a first date? A woman who shows up in casual clothes isn't selling anything but herself. She's giving you an honest idea of who she is most of the time. That's the best kind of honesty you can get. I appreciate honesty. She's not trying to manipulate me with bells and whistle nonsense.

No thats a valid reason. Buy a nice blouse at the thrift store if you are too poor to buy a cute outfit.

That dude's an asshole. It's clearly a daytime coffee or lunch date . Granted she's casual, but they're at some fast food joint - was she supposed to show up in a ball gown dripping jewels ? He pays $25 bucks for lunch and SHE'S not making an effort ? What a dick.😑

Being nice... He just didn't want to say you're too fat.

@NowPammsy Unpopular opinion… Slouchwear is not for a “first date” - it says you didn’t take the date seriously🤷‍♀️ But then, arguing about it…👀😔 It’s a first date… let it go. No biggy

If you want a woman to make the effort to dress up, take her on a date where drinks are served in a glass, not a plastic cup! I wouldn't put on a dress to go to some cheap $10 restaurant either. Do you have any idea how much it costs to dry-clean a little black dress?

Staged

Well at least he was honest. I think it's stupid but she's probably the one dodging the bullet.

She’s filming herself or he’s filming her? Fake af

Fake. Everything on X is fake today. Why do I keep coming to this godforsaken website?

Why do young men think being a dick is cool? Be polite. End the date amicably and just don't ask her for a second date.

I took a woman out and spent a boatload on dinner. She didn't dress up, but I didn't care, we still hooked up.

Probably staged, but... She's drinking from a plastic cup, so a hoodie is probably appropriate attire. If he wanted her to dress up, he should have picked a better restaurant.

judging by the window dressings, looks like a tiki bar or something. a casual date hence casual clothing. maybe he thought she would wear a hula skirt 😂 want nice clothing, take her to a nice restaurant.

There is nothing wrong with this. He wants a more feminine woman.