he's not working 16 hours a day

I wouldn’t say anything. I’d just leave. Divorce him and walk away. Let that receptionist have him if he prefers her cooking and companionship with her. Leave him. No words. No hate just walk away.

That man is absolutely being unfaithful

@TGSChristina You need help.

@susylicious2023 So you support cheating?

@Artimus_Knight @susylicious2023 He works 16 hours per day and still goes home waiting an hour for his wife to prepare a meal what time would he have to cheat? I doubt he’s doing 16 hours of work on 4 hours of sleep

@TGSChristina @Artimus_Knight @susylicious2023 Thats if he is even working those 16 hours. Cheaters can and WILL be creative for a quick fuck. It doesnt always have to be planned out when the wife isnt around. Emotional cheating is still cheating She is being the perfect wife, and he wants to complain to ANOTHER woman bout it

@2smggg @TGSChristina @susylicious2023 Buddy if over thinking was an Olympic sport you’d be a gold medalist

I was cheated on so many times I gave up love all together. You can do everything out of the book on being a good girlfriend to someone and they will end up cheating on you. Even if you change your life style to match theirs. A real man won’t look at other women at all. Not even friendships. They focus only on their woman and find different ways to please her and there are guys out there that do that. But in my experience, men as well as women will cheat and a cheater is a cheater. No forgiveness. Period.

He doesn't want to tell you that you're cooking f****** sucks 😂

the husband is the problem, not the other woman. the husband is the one who is committed to you, owes you loyatly, she owes you nothing. if he hadn't opened that door for her to become involved, she wouldn't be

All men should understand, going to another woman to discuss problems in your relationship NEVER ends well. Idc how long you've been friends, or even if you're related to the other female!! It doesn't end well. Keep your problems at home and deal with them.

This is just crazy my wife would have clawed my eyes out and hers we just as well be fu!king because no one would have been able to convince her that we wasn’t and this is the same for her husband there’s more than just talking going on.

It's always a coworker

Women make things more difficult than it needs to be. Start preparing and cooking 45 minutes earlier. That would leave him 15 minutes to settle in and eat. It is abusive to withhold from a spouse.

The husband is the problem, not the woman

If your answer to a problem is to be abusive in return, it will be your reaction that gets the attention. Grow up, Susan.

@susylicious2023 It’s really simple. The husband was at fault first. Having another woman’s number, communicating with her and having her cook for you, then lying about. The wife is at fault if she got abusive as a response instead of remedying the problem by cooking earlier. Problem solved!

@susylicious2023 People can fight to be right or fight to be happy. Rarely will someone be both, Idris. He did wrong things, the right response is NOT in withholding care, and support. If he had done that, women would have pitchforks in hand. Both need to be accountable for their actions.

@susylicious2023 I agree with you.

@Raven_Madd @susylicious2023 The first issue is that the woman comes home later than the husband from work. Kelley omits that fact. The husband chose to go outside of his marriage to discuss his problems and with another woman who is crossing boundaries and clearly knows that. Her point is moot

@1stCaliph @susylicious2023 I honestly didn’t catch that detail, Martha. There was no malice on my part.

What sort of shift goes on for 16hrs Even a full day care shift goes from 7am to 11pm that’s not 16hrs. Make una take am easy ooo

Check his paystub to see if those 16 hour days are there...

She's going to push him right into the arms of the receptionist. Yes. It's weird. The husband should know it's wrong. But punishing him like that is a gift to the receptionist.

She's only married 3 1/2 years. You hit the problem head on and get therapy or else get out of your marriage. If he's waiting an hour for a meal after 16 hours it may be a bigger issue. She'll probably love having to work 2-3 jobs to support herself

If she was trying to help YOU, she would have made enough for BOTH of you.

Yeah no lie I thought this beautiful young lady was a selfish b!!!! But glad I’ll listen to the whole story! I’m on her side ! Some dudes just ruins good thing

But how would she know that, if he wasn’t telling her that. This is 💯 on the husband, he should have turned it down, I bet she thinks he’s single

Interesting 🤔. So her solution to punish him for accepting meals from another woman is to stop making meals for him? Yea, that'll teach him. That "work wife" is about to be his "new wife" as soon as his divorce is finalized. 😆

Thats called an emotional affair, and I would absolutely stop everything if my husband did that shit!

Sounds like he has a work wife and she cooks better than you

Maybe if her husband didn’t leave all of the domestication up to her, the laundry, cleaning, etc, and helped out, he could get his meals on time. But she works too, so he has to wait! Also, he should just admit that he doesn’t like his wife’s cooking.

Husband is disrespectful as hell for “confiding” in that woman at work. Instead of helping his wife out at home some days with housework so it can get food on the table faster he’s at work gossiping like some woman. Even if she made him food him taking it and bringing it home day after day is the problem. He has zero respect for his wife. Kmt.

Imagine complaining about the time it takes someone to cook for you 😂 simply go fuck yourself if you complain about meals being made for you

Fuck the left overs, he’s texting another woman. Just leave, he’s just another cheater.

How’s your man working 16hrs a day and you still gotta work lol

I can completely understand. You deserve better than that. There's more going on than talking.

Cooking is a love language in my culture. I mean, we choose a wife based off of that factor, if she can cook or not. Women find it extremely offensive when someone outside the relationship cooks for their partner. Gents understand this.

She also thought it would be helpful to suck her husband's weiner.

Are his arms painted on? As a grown man he should be able to care for himself

These female rage post are exhausting and we’re getting one side of the story, spare me your blind support of this narcissistic.

Yo silly adjust your dinner start time! Have it ready when he comes home! There fixed it! If you realize he has to wait 30-1hr to eat! Make it earlier! If he works 16 hrs that leaves just 8 hrs left! Plan ahead! Crockpot?

The very first time he came home w cooked foods in diff containers would have been when u needed to really talk to him heart to heart but it sounds like u guys had one of those kind of things where u just let shit slide until too late. Bad relationship.

Fuck him

30 mins to an hour after getting home??? No wonder she was cooking for him. Why wasnt it done and waiting for him with a beverage?

What amazes me is that she went to confront the other woman and not laying down the law and telling him no more “goodies” from this woman. Lay the blame where it belongs - with HIM. However, have dinner ready within 20 minutes of him getting home. Later interferes with him getting adequate sleep. Better yet, send an entire meal with him to work then have a light meal ready when he gets home.

I want an update....

Yeh he ain't working 16 hour days, hes working 8 plus a side piece

He crossed the line whenever he complained about you to another female. He likely crossed the line whenever he traded phone numbers with her if it was outside of a work, chat, girl I would not be calling him my husband anymore he would be my ex.

@grok summarize what she is saying because I can’t stand to hear her yapping on and on. And tell me if her husband now has a legitimate reason to leave her because she’s so fucking annoying.

You mean ex husband.