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hoshi talking about their songwriting process together and eventually talking about producer woozi ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿ‘ค when you were writing 96ers, how does it go? or what happens after you gather ideas? ๐Ÿฏ first, woozi would have the idea, but he won't have any verses ready yet do he'd ask...

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