How do you feel about this?

I understand it’s their culture but it seems inappropriate and it borderlines harassment… it would be interesting to hear from the Zulu women how this makes them feel. Perhaps it’s acceptable to them

this is harassment. next

Harrassment.

This abuse. Physical handling someone without their will is unacceptable. If it’s African then it’s a foolish behaviour.

Don’t know what they’re saying but This angers me .. They like dogs on heat . Imagine them seeing their daughter one day being treated like this by men like these!!!

South african culture is immersed with violence agsinst women.

Abuse. Harassment.

There’s nothing to feel amabhungu ayashela

Abusive & intrusive! Women are not commodities! They have a right to choose a partner!

This is not the way to do this, there's a genuine way of approaching intombi...lava they are sick

abuse.

this is the mentality guys from kasi grow with, always forcing, then leads to GBV useless culture

Where the snakes 🐍 that normally plague KZN when is times like these. Le re ke sa kotame leZulu e be e moloma marete a. 🚮

NginguMzulu impela but in 2025 this is nonsense.

He even has a gun visible.

A Zulu gent once did this to me at the garage and I was a bit tipsy that day so I knelt down with him 😭

Thts all they know bo Bafo!!!

Ndinga bavukuza ngale plastic isesandleni

African men becoming american men is sad to see

“ukuthwala” in our Zulu Nation used to happen this way 💔💔💔Truly, our women ancestors suffered by being carried away into any man’s house - right from the streets - without any consent 😭😭😭 We have a lot to celebrate this women’s month 🇿🇦🙏

Outdated and massive disrespect to personal space. Don’t @ about culture as this is harassment and has no place in a modern world. You do this to my daughter uyophambana nemvula ithi yehla wena ube unyuka.

Looks perfectly normal to me. She's dressed for cock. She found it.

The beating the future has for you ,once you agree 😂

That's forcing matters Why are they ganging up on her 🚮🚮🚮 a man shela alone

Idiots

I once cried neh 😭💔 they eventually let me go

This is sickening. It's sad that no one stood up for her in the community. I can hear the voice of a grown woman. Couldn't she step in? Maybe they are known thugs. I also see someone asked that amaZulu comment because we might possibly find this to be ok. No! it is harassment!

He needs to be kicked on his face

Isn’t courtship supposed to be gentle and respectful? Maybe the Zulu ladies can tell us how they feel about this method of courtship before we say it’s inappropriate.

This is sickening. Mkhwanazi must visit these boys.

There is a delicate balance to culture and modernization.. if you look at it in modern ways , it’s harassment but culturally all men are entitled to shoot their shot just enough for it not to feel like a hostage situation.. she was stopped for less than 2 minutes.. so it’s fine .. she obviously felt offended because she didn’t like the guys, but would have been a different story if she was interested. She is dressed in a cultural attire she doesn’t understand much about I’d also assume..

Mina ngamshaya ubhuti okwakuthiwa uMqombothi ebambe udadewethu, kangiwathandi amanyala in the name of ukweshela. Use your words

This is just barbaric. And the women in the background encouraging this nonsense?