How I’m raising my kids to be competent decision makers.

Step one at our house is letting them pick dinner and then making them eat it.

You lost me when you said a**hole kids in first 10 sec..

Makes sense but dropping an iPhone and having it break can happen to the best of us even with a decent case, not sure there is as much of valuable learning lesson on that one. Unless they were doing it repeatedly. I’d separate lack of responsibility vs a simple accident.