How many men felt this?

Hug him back. Kiss him back. Tell him you love him. You never know if it’s the last time. Trust me.

Best response award goes to you!

The moment your man stops hugging you, smacking your butt, or grabbing you the relationship is already dying. Ladies, be present. Those little, physical moments are how many men show love and connection. Appreciate them while they’re still happening.

The feminine toxicity that has been adopted by many also impacted my wife. The last straw for me was being told that giving her a kiss, even in the cheek when she was angry was me "raping her face". Absolutely nothing left in the tank at this point.

Probably a stupid skit but this is how a marriage dies.

You have to understand this isn’t a one off where the guy lost his mind out of nowhere. It’s most likely months of small rejections that quietly accumulate . There’s a tipping point though that can come at a moment when nothing important really happened, just like this one.

Why men don't share their feelings....

Women- First several months: he can’t keep his hands off me. I love it A few years later: he’s always touching/ groping me. It’s annoying A few years later: he doesn’t touch me like he used to. What’s wrong with him? A few months later: he doesn’t talk to me anymore. He sleeps in another room. He’s an asshole A month later: I’m filing for divorce. I don’t feel loved.

In a couple of years she will be divorced... Still blaming the husband because he will have moved on and found someone that treats him right and she will be running through a bunch situationships with man that will happily have sex with her but give her nothing of what she had from a living husband. And making videos wondering where all the good men gone.

This happened to me a bunch of times before I stopped initiating physical affection. It was too painful for me. She wasn’t even as nice as “you’re being annoying”. It was more like GET OFF ME, LEAVE ME ALONE, GET AWAY FROM ME, DON’T TOUCH ME, GET YOUR HANDS OFF ME RIGHT NOW, GO AWAY, like I’m disgusting or repulsive to her. It wasnt even when she was busy with anything, just sitting on the couch or in bed, or passing each other in the hallway. I wasn’t even groping or trying to have sex, I just wanted to be close and feel love. That was one of the hardest things for me because it’s in my nature to be affectionate that way, and she acted like she liked it before we married. She basically switched to ‘never touch me’ mode as soon as we said “I do”. Years later she complained like “you never touch me” as if she just forgot that she yelled at me for touching or hugging or trying to hold hands with her so many times over years and years that I just didn’t want to do it anymore.

To all the comments about "She doing the dishes" if washing a plate is more important than affection, your a moron. Stop washing the plate, put your wet soapy hands on him and enjoy the affection. My god chores are not important when compared to the person you claim to love.

I went through this exact scenario with my wife about a year ago. Handled it the same way. Fixed real quick.

Death by a thousand cuts.

She was doing the damn dishes. Why do men always seem to want to snuggle when we’re up to our elbows in dish water!? It’s like a freaking magnet! No! Just No! It isn’t personal. We are working! You want her to respond? Go take over the dishes or offer to dry and put them away!

This is why we don't talk and start spending time alone.

No woman has ever reacted to me putting my arms around her that way. Screaming, pepper spray, restraining orders, sure. But I've never been called annoying.

I am shocked at how many women in the comments consider a man hugging and trying to cuddle his wife "gropping"

He’s been so dramatic!! That’s ridiculous… we don’t always want to be groped especially while trying to get crap done.

Maybe not to this extent, but this is quite accurate on many levels..

Stop making Tik Toks like a homo and get a side piece

I was gonna reply that he’s being a little too sensitive until I come to the comments and see all the women being straight bitches about it. Now I hope he cheats on her with a 22 year old.

I would very much rather my husband be that way with me than with any other woman. He’s showing his desire for me when I’m at my most mundane. That’s a W! I’ve been married 10 years and going strong because I appreciate and respect him doing this, and I get the world in return.

I could be in the middle of defusing a nuclear bomb and still drop what I’m doing if my wife gives me a reach-around.

This is childish behaviour. She’s allowed to feel annoyed when she’s in the middle of something and you interrupt her. You’re allowed to be hurt she rejected you. It’s unreasonable to expect your desires to align at every instant. Have an adult conversation about it.

They want the fun, spontaneous, loving guy on their own time. When they don’t want it, they make you feel bad for being exactly what they fell in love with in the first place.

Gosh.. she should be hugging him back & maybe dance in the kitchen together?? The dishes will be there later. People need to lighten up and have some fun. Appreciate your man.

Not the way to handle it. He should have gone out to do something fun without her. No explanation, no whining. Just withdraw attention.

The comments from the women on here. LoL 😂 I can see how many of them will dye alone, and blame somebody else.

My guess is that's a skit. In the real world she's cheating. Her subsequent reactions are concern that she may not get what she wants.

Males really think they’re entitled to a woman’s body whenever they feel like it. She’s doing the fckin dishes and he wants to grope her and then get all pouty and passive aggressive . Withholding affection because it’s not on his terms.

That shit happens all the time. It’s basically a lack of respect from the wife.

Experience... if you go to hug her and she flinches or acts disturbed...leave her.

About as many times as women have. Been married 51 years and I can tell you it works both ways. Get the fuck over it. 😂

The male ego is so fragile. Get over yourself. Sometimes y’all are annoying, and sometimes I’m annoying too. I’m not going to get but hurt about it when you aren’t feeling it. I’m just going to keep it pushing

That is a grown man having a temper tantrum. You want her to go to your job and try that while you are working? Or watching a game? Or working on your car? Don't pout because she's not in the mood or mindset for it. It's not just a switch we can flip to get there.

Nah when they wanna play with you turn around and play back. Eventually it's all laughs and build the love and bond better. I don't get women who treat their spouses so bad