How the avoidant, anxious & secure person responds.

The avoidant person prefers not to waste their time addressing issues over and over without any changes. Especially when you’ve crossed one of their boundaries

I don’t believe your theory because in different situations avoidant people are people with clear intentions and states where they are at stating and how committed they want to be and then watch carful if you deviate from what you had said they will avoid you period and they gone

Maybe i don’t much, but yall don’t understand this morden psychology as much as you preach it. There is no situation that happens in isolation without any context. 1 person can have all those reactions depending on the situation and context

I don't agree with this. The avoidant person is more likely to match ones words, personality and actions together. Any inconsistency per time concerning a matter makes them ghost either on the issue or the individual generally while letting the individual know why they quit

@beekmanplace78 Lmao. I wish I could tag this bastard. Fucking bloody narcissist. I know I’m an anxious person and I’ve grown and learned overtime but you see that avoidant person, they’ll always be a narcissist! Always!!!!

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Thank you for this lesson! SOOOO important!!!

Bro just explained my lifestyle with my two women… Yeah that’s how it is. Got fed up of the anxious one. Always walking on eggshells for no reason 🤧…

You chose peace

Because I have fearful avoidance, which is its own kind of hell, I realized all of it came down to my anxiety and how I handle uncertainty The first thing a dysregulated nervous system is trained to do is scan for threats and then we look for a solution to eliminate the potential threat in hopes that we avoid pain You don’t really know that’s what’s going on until you sit with your reactions and reflect on it Catching the pattern as it’s unfolding is what came next and then reacting differently

Idk — I think I’m all three fr 😭 but honestly I think it’s more so my healed self going back with my unhealed self and my secure self has to constant desire my anxious self 😩

What mistake had I ever done in my past life that God gave me an avoidant man to like 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩 If only I knew all this before he walked away honestly I would've presented a different version of mine 🤦

Abeg abeg abeg😮‍💨🥱

The secure person is the calm simp, the avoidant protects self and gets more game. The anxious is damaged and a nuisance

What if you’re at peace and just not interested in replying

It does not always work... Some people like to stay in their bubble...🧐

These are great examples!

i am all threee wtf

I am anxious attachment. But I can also respond to the final 2 situations like a secure person.

Relationship has now become mathematics.

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