How to Fix Modern Marriage (Potentially NSFW Advice)

A corporate attorney once told me "Partnerships are poison!" To be successful, one partner needs to be designated the final authority otherwise it can turn into a big mess.

The entire system enforces a dynamic where men cannot lead. This was the plot of feminism carried out over generations. Men have no real leverage anymore and women spot this from an early age. You may have a stern voice but what can you back it up with? She has a mob she can call

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Good stuff Josh. This seems like a fitting post to share related to what you are touching on here. -R

omfg

I relate. My most recent ex was an ABSOLUTE daddy’s girl and could not stand being told no. I had the impression that the only guy she could have a good relationship with was an effeminate man. But I also think that she was orbiting me. Maybe not enough, I’m not sure. You seem like a solid guy.

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Thanks joshua. I definitely married a girl dad wife who's mom passed 9 years ago. We've been together for 6 years, explains exactly what we've been arguing about since our baby in dec. but even more so since she went back to work at the end of may. She's 3 years younger than me.

What is to be done?

I've been advocating for moving away from her hometown for years. Her dad still has her childhood home here and i know that is a problem. I've also had her block her brother-in-law to her older sister because they were just communicating inappropriately as far as her sister and him just hating me for shitposting online without ever knowing me personally. I asked my wife's hand in marriage when we just found ount she was pregnant. Her sister saw me post a ring on here and forced my engagement plans. Then she spoiled the pregnancy announcement to her dad because my wife couldn't stand up to her. She's a combination of contradictions. Prideful and childish. Stong independent woman but literally never has been and still isn't. Likes the idea of being a stay at home mom but views her nusring career as her 'identity'. Wants me to care more but rejects my information about baby or relationships. I'm not hopeless

Amazing. The people need more of this

God HATES divorce

I came close circa 2009.

to what

End my life.

woman trouble will do that to a bloke glad you stayed