Husband freaks out over grocery bill, does this seem rational?

Guy is seriously stressed and this is about more than just a $150 grocery store run. Still no reason to swear in front of children and definitely no reason for her to embarrass him on social media.

@TaraBull I know what you're saying. That said, the fact she's video recording him as soon as he comes in and she's cool as a cucumber, tells me that she's a master gaslighter and he's probably at his wit's end, and probably financially stretched to the absolute max.

Those kids are the victims. That guy needs his ass kicked.

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1. Shouldn’t do that infront of kids 2. He just bought groceries and that’s his 150$ she spent most likely 3. How does food get old in the fridge ? Not eating it

I just spent $15 on chicken another 15 on beef, and $12 of ground beef, about $20 and vegetables and fruits that I am nicely cutting up right now. I make my own bread with literally two dollars, I also got some rice and spices! I also Gardner my own peppers and cilantro. So no one needs $11 apple juice, stick to water. I'm with the husband on this! He has had enough. This is my food for a full week and some more.

You are a keeper

“It’s old because you didn’t fucking eat it.” I’m siding with the guy on this one.

She is a demon. I can feel it.

Guy is being ignored on money stress. He'll be dead soon at that rate.

We dunno the whole story but this man looks COKED out

This guy is fucked. His wife doesn’t respect him, his time or his energy. And then embarrasses him to get clout on social media. Marriage was done a long time ago. He’s only staying for the kids meanwhile she has no problem blowing up their private life for clicks and likes.

This is a man at his limits. He's probably working his ass off so she can stay home and watch the kids. He just wants to make ends meet and feel less pressure on himself. Instead of understanding she films it and creates this conflict. Divorce looks good here.

Unspoken: "I'm worried about how I'm going to pay all the bills this month." "Not my problem. Go vent somewhere else."

This is a red flag divorced her immediately. Posting personal videos with your kids on the Internet. Horrible life partner. 👋

I hope that's AI. That's a lot of abuse to mom and kids. She needs to get TF out!

Some people should simply not be married.

Doesn't seem like a healthy relationship

First and foremost, the second kids are involved, everybody needs to knock it off: lower your voices, no swearing, and just stop. Children are in the room. I can't even get past that to care about anything else.🤯😳🫣🤬

His point is rational. Her attitude is poor. His handling of things is poor.

Imo, he is frustrated, yes, but not wrong. Marriage is supposed to be a team effort. Working together to get what you need while still working towards your financial goals. Not two independent actors working to oppose each other. Especially so you can send it out to the world for click attention. Hope the clicks will be a comfort when your marriage falls apart and the kids don't get to live with both parents anymore. Just my 2 cents.

She films him, and then posts it.... wouldn't want to be married to her. Would you?

They are not arguing about groceries. 🤔

“Its old because you didn’t f*cking eat it!” Kinda cooked 😤

150 for food. Wait till he sees the child support payment.

He doesn't sound rational. Because he is a victim of Emotional and economic abuse. This is a very common thing. An abuser wouldn't scream "I DON'T CARE!" if he's being recorded. They would hate their public fake persona to be damaged. She's the abuser, not the survivor.

Everyone saying she's a manipulator because she's talking calmly and filmed him. Maybe she's doing that after a dozen of these types of interactions. Maybe she told him she's filming so he doesn't take his violence further.

We need more context , based on just this it looks like she is a gaslighter and gives no shit about the family budget.

Bro, divorce her and live a happy life.

He just spent $150 the day before. Then she went and spent another $150. Maybe that was all the money in their acct & now they can’t pay other bills or afford gas in their car. I’m not gonna judge. Financial stress is the worst. Especially when your spouse doesn’t care about it

A lot of posts point out the stress fathers are under due to inflation. But "I eat salad". It goes off in minutes. It contains bugger-all nutrition. It's expensive and pointless. "I eat salad" is military-grade provocation and you can hear that she knows that. Then she uploads.