I absolutely love this video. The obsession with content creation and aesthetics is killing gatherings.

@AccordingToLee We just need less content creators in general. Like everybody cannot be a star. Please. Rest!

@AccordingToLee This “ aesthetic “ days used to be PLANNED. Now the girls want it every single time when we hang out. Like wtf

It’s become an expectation that it’s going to be an aesthetic day every single day.

@AccordingToLee I feel like this is a woman issue

@AccordingToLee My 2 cents is that people didn't actually know how to gather in the first place. A lot of the folks patronizing these spaces don't have friends they do things with hence the assumption that aesthetics = quality. This sadly betrays a much deeper problem of absence of close ties.

@AccordingToLee It really is who u hang out with because my friends don’t give af about their social media profile or anything dumb like that lol

@AccordingToLee Girl, me and my cousin went out to eat and naturally no phones out. No, let’s take a picture. None of that shit just vibes and good conversation. Eating our favorite food. Mind you she’s a Scorpio stellium and Im a 8H stellium so we like to keep it sacred.

@AccordingToLee The color matching charcuterie boards is where I knew we lost the plot. Then I started getting wedding invites where we all had to wear black in June.

@AccordingToLee What if I’m a Virgo and I just need it to be perfect without even trying 😩

Baby… I’m a Virgo too but it doesn’t need to be perfect.

@AccordingToLee It’s me .. I’m the problem 😩😩😩

@AccordingToLee True, it’s exhausting . I’m told to Not wear this or that, dress down, then people act like they never saw a plated meal, moving glasses, plates in the middle of dinner. Can you move over, 10 minute Photo shoot, not present. The moment of commune is broken. Then silence

@AccordingToLee I especially hate the neutral color themed party with the weird dj and everyone dances and stands alone

@AccordingToLee Lol i don't gather for aesthetics so this is very foreign to me 🤣🤣😭

@AccordingToLee Yesss like I’m so sick of everyone being the same I miss authenticity!! Nobody is fun anymore

@AccordingToLee i was asked to take pictures at a family funeral and i felt so bleak because i wanted to be still and present but couldn’t because of “content”

@AccordingToLee everything is a photo op…

@AccordingToLee Yup

@AccordingToLee People are not opening up their homes to visit

@AccordingToLee Its been like this for almost 15 yrs lol groundbreaking realization

@AccordingToLee Shoot bring back rent parties. They were a little before my adult age time. But dang bring them back!

@AccordingToLee the ‘people’ are ruining your gathering

@AccordingToLee This is why I decline invitations.

@AccordingToLee @SoyyMilk2 I agree with this. If I’m inviting you to my home for Easter dinner, I have done everything. Your job is to show up and have a good time. But I don’t want my people worrying about what to wear or bring just to sit at my house.

@AccordingToLee Everyone is competing with the rich

@AccordingToLee @BrianMcLight She nailed it

@AccordingToLee People really don’t live in the moment anymoreeee

@AccordingToLee @alexandriagreen .

@AccordingToLee TRUE!

@AccordingToLee So right.

@AccordingToLee SO done with the nail and hand gestures from so-called influencers with "grand life thoughts"

@AccordingToLee She’s right !

@AccordingToLee Me looking at this planning my coloured snacks 🙃