I believed that if I loved hard enough people would eventually choose accountability over excuses. I was WRONG. The moment I stopped accepting manipulation, stopped explaining myself, and started choosing peace, everything changed. I became impossible to control. #MikeLamar

There is something this video forgot to mention. Narcissists usually can’t put themselves in someone else’s shoes. Which is why it is so easy for them to abuse and manipulate the other person. They are too infatuated with themselves to truly understand others and feel empathy.

If you have God, you can’t be destroyed by the narcissist.

Don’t be a super empath 🫠 Read Paul Bloom’s Against Empathy and save yourself some years.

“empaths” aren’t rare. what they actually are is codependents, and they’re the quickest to be discarded by narcs. and those people aren’t the ones narcs never get over- their favorite supply is BPD. And the BPD ends up ruining their life like they do, which is why they never get over it. The whole thing is a circus show.

The number of narcissists watching this who think they are super empaths must be WILD.

@jackduval this is rare. cos it takes a long time for empath to heal and becomes unbreakable. Twin flames (divine feminine) go thru accelerated soul growth process and really deep healing, that's the difference. Spirituality is the only way for real empaths. Awakening.

This resonates with me from my narcissistic lawyer ex wife. When they lose you they try to crush your entire life. It didn't work.

I hope this is true. I’m 10 years “healed and moved on” but still, there’s a tiny voice in my heart that whispers, once in a great while, “I hope some day he regrets it.” I fully understand that day may never come, but I hope karma doesn’t lose his address 😂

Why is this describing my last relationship. Don't see meeee

My older sister. Took me sixty years to figure it out. 😔

I was this super empath with my ex husband. To this day he asks our daughter about me.

Not crediting creators when you post their shit is lame

i made that mistake too 🫡 i’m in recovery ❤️‍🩹 for it thanks for your testimony

I have PTSD from the narcissist that broke me.

I guess everyone who watches this will say they are the super empath lol… The world isn’t made up of these extremes. Most relationships consist of two people who both have narcissistic traits and room for improvement doing their best but falling short.

So… do we send this to all the narcissists?

I used to hold up my hand and say “mirror” literally and figuratively. That’s the point here and it is on point. Once you realize and see these people for who they really are, there is no going back. They know it, they hate it, they don’t know what to do with it, or with you ! :) You don’t lose yourself at all. You become a better, stronger, more enlightened version of yourself. You lose respect. You “lose” them ! Or more accurately, they lose you… *You may be surprised to find, the cliche “kids and dogs know” is beyond true. Innately they know, they see, they get it, and most often much more so and much earlier than you do. Give them time, give them your time… You want them to deviate not emulate. They will and will become an even better version of you… *silver lining ❤️

I was wondering why I stayed. I always stayed after the trauma I stayed. Now I am away from him. And I don't think about him just the good memories I have when he was nice. Now I am getting over it. And I am never looking back. Thank you for this 👍

In my experience they didn't destroy me but me walking away & slaming & locking the door destroyed them. Many times I thought I was too lost to get up again but that spirt deep inside me never seems to die no matter how hard it gets beat down.Every event somehow makes me stronger

Here’s some stats for the keen reader, based on a large group data studies across the board: - 10-15% of population are empaths. - 1% extreme empaths. - 1-2% psychopaths. - 1-2% narcissists. - 1.4-2% BPD. The real people in danger are the normies and normal empaths, extreme empaths are the perfect stereo type of (capable of worst but chooses peace). Many who’ve watched the Avatar series and understands the philosophy behind the red and white lotus society’s might get the hint. Stay safe out there folks 🎩.

Highly recommend this book 📕

This is all I was watching after I lost my bitch

This was about my life with my ex. 😔😠

Yeaaaaaah……. My wife is the super empath. I was a rolling stone all my life. I even tried to roll from her. She wasn’t going for it. She knows everything about me. It’s been 9 years now. She saved my life. I’m super narcissistic. She has sooooo much patience. I’d be dead or in prison without her. I can’t type enough here to let you truly understand why she is for me. If you come across a girl that’s got everything you need, don’t lose her.

I always say “I am kind until I am not.” Agree narcissist’s do not stop even when there is nothing left. They always think they are superior, but without true love. That’s when the empath has to walk, for their own survival. Pattern always repeats with a narcissist. Stay safe they will not stop until you are almost dead.

If anything, the narc is both predator and prey. They preyed on their own future happiness and sanity.

“ destroyed” … based on this it seems it’s the narcissist that’s destroyed… but even a “ teaching” narcissist tries to still try and insult and say it was the empath… I see you propaganda.

Well crap. I was hoping. Because this means they might show back up

what is the channel for this video? I want to follow it.

I don't buy it. This seems like wishful thinking from "victms" to try to rationalize some meaning out of it. Get over it and stop thinking about them.

I’m not sticking around when I see red flags that’s not healthy in itself. I see people for exactly who they are and I believe them. Most people don’t change

That is a very good explanation of what happens when you divorce a narcissist!! He did everything with his second wife that I wanted him to do! Because “he didn’t want to make the same mistake again!” They are horrible people. Pay attention to the telltale signs!!

Firstly I find the label “super empath” magical thinking and a narcissistic way of self expression. Secondly by this term you are actually defining a codependent personality type who gives the narcissist the opportunity to reenact separation from their internal mother object.

I'm the super empath they didn't see coming