I can’t wait to hear some thoughts on this

I also just think figuring out if you’re a sub in it for a D/s dynamic or a content/session buyer is something not a lot of subs put thought into. But I also think findom on here is vastly over saturated with girls who could care less about findom but just want free money

10000% I’m constantly told I’m not like other dommes cause I spend so much time chatting and hanging out with my subs

Appreciate someone saying this out loud🙌

I’m always the one for that 😋

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louder babe !

I'll give you something to sit on....

I think 99.9% are here to chase their own desire

Exactly! On both sides sadly

Yep 100% on both sides

no notes sis you nailed every point. you're right

I hate findom and see it as a other aspect of the modern grift economy BUT...All these arguments also apply to the entire Female Led / Female Supremacy space... I actually just went off about this in the comments elsewhere Somehow even Matriarchy kink is defined by Patriarchy

Your premise is the assumption that findom is a same or a one size fits all. No it is not.

I’m confused how you came to that conclusion

it’s the unique relationship between subs and dommes that keeps it sustained. Most dommes think you have to submit regardless just cause you’re a sub. No. There’s stuff some subs like and some subs hate. You may be attractive enough to get the sub but not smart enough to keep em.