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They are calling her selfish but, in the same breath saying they want kids to carry their legacy. Lol.

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She’s allowed to be selfish and not want kids for all her reasons and valid points. She shouldn’t be made to be wrong for her opinion.

she’s so right, i don’t disagree, your life is average, yall have nothing to yall name but want to bring kids into the world to carry what legacy? what are you carrying over? a name? The kid comes into the world with a broken family and struggling to make ends meet. she’s right

I respect people who don’t want to have kids versus people that have kids and can’t even provide the child a better life than what they had. 💯💯💯

she's absolutely 100% correct. that's the crazy thing.

She made valid points if we’re being honest. Ask random people why they want kids and you’d hear the most selfish reasons. To each their own.

Idc what nobody says I fully agree with her. Bringing kids and shit into this world talking about a legacy. Legacy is having them first already set to be something or take over something and that’s rarely the case. It’s selfish to have all these kids and turn around and struggle

Well, she’s right can’t go against her everything she was saying. Makes a lot of sense. A lot of people having kids just having kids and don’t have no future for there kids.

This the conversation I’ve been having with my parents since ive been grown & on my own smh.

I’d just say okay and keep it trucking.