I don’t know mhen… what are your thoughts???

What does he do with Mom to make wife feel neglected. Possibly just in-law jealousy. Let him lose the job, the house, etc but be home more; then she’s back at the mic complaining that her husband has lost his motivation and purpose.

Kitta, I love you.. but you're lord and wrong on this. 1st of all, the wife sounds a bit immature. Women feel neglected effectively getting treated right, we need more context. 2ndly, black women lead the country in walking away from men.

She isn't wrong. Those kind of males don't understand the purposes of having a women in your life . A good women is an gain.

All talk until the carpet gets pulled!! We ALL know yall wouldn’t say or feel that way once the $$ stop flowing!!

How many women is gonna stand by you when u lose ur job and not shame/talk down on u... That's just a lie and she should just speak for herself and not other women.... Man needs to understand there's nothing like balance bcos that's a setup and no man can never satisfy a woman!

Favor does not…. I REPEAT, FAVOR DOES NOT COME FROM YOUR WIFE!!!!!! Favor comes from the LORD, only!!!!!!!!

Why is she so loud on the 0.00002 % of women who will stand behind you when you lose your job?....Jesus fucking christ, pipe down. Yall "hoes ain't loyal" and you know this

The problem with this conversation is the woman is projecting. The lady who asked the question wasn't being neglected, she just wasn't "feeling" like number one. Which is not really a problem cos she confirms her husband is a good man. The woman that answered went to hell.

Notice how they didnt Clap at all when dude was speaking facts women always do that goofy ass shit

She’s 100% correct.

Dude spoke for less than a minute in the video and made better sense than the lady. Ya'll want your man to be a certain way but will turn on him when he does. You forget what led you to this man in the first place.

She is right, 100%. I don't often agree with women and their views. But on this i do. Make her your priority, if she is the right one, she will back you and be the backbone of everything else that you got going on, your career, business, relations with mum and relatives.

All that sounds great at the end...but life comes at you hard, its never BALANCED!! Women live in this fantasy world where a man isn't shit if he can't drop everything for her feelings...its childish.

“Men need to do this and do that”, that’s not helping her with her answer at all. The real answer would have been telling her an appropriate way to bring up the concern to her partner of 15 years. This was a question for the men, to put them in the shoes of a man that had a wife that felt like that, towards them.🤦‍♂️ I’m not saying she didn’t state facts, but that did not help, I’m sorry, a few handclaps, that’s about it.

She’s not lying

Let's take a step back, she said I feel, making judgements based on feelings is not the right representation of things. The question should be that she should bring examples that made her feel that way, and better still, call the husband before creating chaos in her marriage

Prioritize her over my career so when she up & leave i’m assed out ? Fuck up! Blind leading the blind , just because the crowd started cheering don’t mean she right 🤣🤣

See them laughing and cheering. You want a successful man which is probably 10 percent out of the 100 percent and you still need his time while he remains successful. Then go look for a man out of the remaining 90 percent that are not all about success. You know what you picked. You stick with it. Life is not a bed of roses. Time as they say is money. You can’t get love and money. A successful man first has to put love and women by the side to even become successful cause it’s a distraction. It’s always easy for them to say “ find a balance” You become the man in the relationship and let me see you find the balance.

What is this chick talking about? She sounds like a damn fool. You can’t satisfy these women the moment you start working less then she’s gonna be dissatisfied with the material things. There ain’t no balance possible.

That woman is wise af. I know she happily married. Beautiful chocolate smart woman.

In a perfect world, Kitty is 💯 Career: provides the lifestyle she lives in. Ambition is a time thief-most don't want to accept that. Mom: is there with/without career. She's there even when wife isn't. Wife: delicate line she walks, they're other avenues where she can be A1.

“Prioritize your wife” means romance for most women, the man’s purpose and what he wants to do is irrelevant. Even with what she explains it shows they know jerk shit about men cause they can’t even support you by stepping back and letting you do your thing🚮

I don’t understand what her issue is if she stayed married for 15 yrs knowing what she knows. It wasn’t an issue in the beginning so what’s the issue now? She could have been left…

First off the first lady us gorgeous lastly this is why i say we need to unplug these dam podcasts microphones cause what

Who the fuck are these ppl and why should their opinions matter

WHAT!?!? When his career is up or not flourishing anymore, the chances of her leaving vs him leaving are multiplied considerably. What’s crazier is this whole crowd eruption came from this woman saying her husband is damn near perfect, but she needs more. Never satisfied.

Only women thinks she’s correct! And only women were clapping 👏🏾. This should let yall know do not listen to them!!! Stay on purpose if she doesn’t like it she’s needs to sit back and do what a wife does. Be silent and play your role!!!

I wholeheartedly agree with her

There’s absolutely no guarantee a man’s wife will stay when a man’s career is gone, finances are one of the main reasons women file for divorce in the first place.

No krazy lady , favor comes from God.

What’s the link for this on YouTube

She just said a whole bunch of bullshit ngl

I think the real issue for me is agency and respect. When someone says a man is “blessed because of” a woman, it can sound affirming, but it also shifts the focus in a way that feels off. If a man said he married a woman mainly to receive a blessing from God and not because of who she is, most people would see that as transactional and disrespectful. People frame marriage like this all the time but it’s often framed that way because of an agenda, that men benefit from marriage the most or that men are the only benefactor of marriage. I believe purpose comes before partnership. God gave me direction and calling before I met anyone, and that doesn’t change because I’m in a relationship. A partner can absolutely be a blessing, but they shouldn’t be treated as the source of my purpose or favor. For me, the goal is balance two whole people walking together, supporting each other’s purpose, not replacing it.

Girl bye she always goes overboard