i don’t see nothing wrong with the question that was asked????

yeah, now THIS ate.🤭

I DONT WANNA WASTE MY TIME, ANSWER THE FUCKIN QUESTION

EXACTLY!!! we need to KNOW!!

Me a twerking top, newly vers

Most people don’t like to say bottom publicly

you don’t think he was a top?

Soon as he said “I know people gonna say imma bottom imma bottom because I don’t answer…” I fell out because he know that’s exactly what that mean😂.

@livingthroughJ Lmaaaaooooo he doesn’t have to necessarily be a bottom tho🤣 But he also KNEW not to say top and tbh….I LOVE IT THERE iykyk

@livingthroughJ We don’t know so please explain 👀lol

@Trebstar718 right????

I just feel like there are a plenty of other questions to ask someone when you first meet them instead of their sexual position.

when i first meet them i’m asking the question. no need to waste anymore time or anymore energy.

Sex is probably the only important part of your relationships and that’s fine for you.

not only….but it IS!

That explains a lot actually. Yay you

@livingthroughJ What your saying sound’s great but is stupid and irresponsible. sex is an important part of any romantic relationship. There is no point in continuing a relationship if you’re sexually incompatible. Trying to focus on a bonds sounds great and “mature” but in the end foolish

@livingthroughJ lol you sound dumb but okay

Only bottoms who don’t like being called bottoms react like this tops loud n proud but I think they don’t wanna be too open wit it

I feel like it’s an important question, because I’m never dating a full Top I don’t care how fine or rich he is. I’m not going to waste our time trying to make the other change I’m not doing it and it’s important to know these things before dating.

If you’re on a dating show, it’s a fair question to ask based on compatibility. And if a person makes assumptions based on your role then that’s for y’all to discuss. There’s no need for two people to be walking off the show as a match, just to find out they are both bottoms.

Tired of gays pretending like making sure basic sexual compatibility is present before moving further is such an offense.

He couldn’t just say he was verse?…

He’s a bottom and he just didn’t want everyone to pop their balloons. All of that was unnecessary 🤭🤷🏾‍♂️

This is why vers men aggravate me 🗣️B!TCH ANSWER THE QUESTION‼️‼️‼️ we are not HETEROSEXUALS we don’t have ASSIGNED ROLES AT BIRTH🤣 girl I’m not about to be fighting with u over the last douche bottle bc u wanted to cosplay as a HETEROSEXUAL couple🤣🥴

I never understand why people hate that question?!? If I am seriously considering to date u, yes I need to know ur sexual role. Sexual compatibility absolutely matters . . .

Imagine after 2 months of yal talking and doing nothing sexually yal find out yall both bottoms lmaoo.

Yall be too ready to waste people’s time lol. Either we’re sexually compatible or we aren’t. If there’s more to the explanation than just a title then get to it AND QUICKLY

I get both sides …

i talked to a nigga for 8 months before i realized we weren’t sexually compatible. asking this would’ve saved so much time tbh

So let me get this straight for the sensitive people who are against this question... if we 3 weeks in and we never asked the question and we both end up being Bottoms... what the fuck is next move? Genuinely asking and would love replies. Maybe, we all should be verse then.

Wait hollonnn I kinda see where he’s coming from but like I also see the other man’s pov

Nothing wrong with the question at all. Niggas like him be trying to be “so woke”. WE ARE MEN! Sexual someone has to do the bending. The guy with the ballon needed to know.

How uou get mad when someone ask you in a very polite and nice way whether you a top or a bottom😭

As a man that is turned on by another man in general. Personally, don’t ask me this as an icebreaker. Because if im truly attracted to you— that doesn’t matter. People gotta learn to be attracted to the whole person. Time is never wasted on something real; partner or friend.

Honestly, the only people that get “offended” or “dislike” that question are bottoms that hate to admit they’re a bottom. It’s okay niece…

Honestly. I prefer to top but every now and then I get the urge to bottom. If I meet a guy and he’s a strict top, it’s not going to work because I’m not willing to put out every single time we want to have sex

There wasn’t anything wrong with it, the gays love wasting people’s time. It also is rooted in misogyny because they have shame about being a bottom or bottoming. Just be upfront and if you aren’t compatible you can still be friends if you get along.

Lowkey think gay people box themselves in when they ask that cookie cutter question. That’s like if a straight person asked do you prefer anal or oral sex. That’s should’ve been a conversation naturally led up to.

Hes a bttm

It’s really not that fucking deep. And should have not been a reason to cancel him. He could have expressed how he felt and still continued to move around and got to know other interests about one another. I’m tired of our community 🙄.

Please don’t waste my fucking time. I fell in love with a bottom before… and I almost burned all this shit down!!

I don’t either so it leads me to believe that he either gets asked that a lot or he doesn’t like the reaction he gets when answering the question truthfully

gays will let one inconvenience start a series of overthinking and tossing out think pieces 😭😭😭

Nothing wrong at all. Idk why they act like that’s such a problematic question. Who wants to waste their time? Just answer or whisper it in their ear if you don’t want the world to know.

Good question, WRONG setting. Don’t ask me no shit like that on a tv show .. what’s next, u wanna ask how big it is for a public audience ?? it’s ok for some questions to between two ppl. Yall weird

There’s literally nothing wrong with the question. Ppl want to add complexities to a very basic question. We can get into all the DOs and Don’ts later but I need to know if you like to be poked in your bootyhole or not.