I HATE BEING A SINGLE MOM 💔👇

Majority of you Black American women are single moms by choice, You sisters get rid of y'all baby fathers before they are even born , and when the father tries to be there y'all make it so hard on the man to have a relationship with their children be real ....

Females put themselves in these type of situations then play the victim, 9/10 times it’s a man in the background trying to a be a father to his child(ren), but she won’t let him. How about don’t open your legs up to a man who isn’t your husband, problem solved! 🤷🏾‍♂️💯

I promise you ladies if you do more gagging, than you do nagging you will have a father for those kids 😆

Well wtf do you do/say to the kids when you’re upset? That’s the real question here.

A lot of “single moms” make themselves single moms, they break up their families and then run to the internet to play victim. It’s not every case but my oldest child’s mom did this to herself and hates me for it 😂😂😂

The problem is the illusion of to many options… women think a king is coming to save them so they don’t want to settle and build with one man

She really had NO clue that her baby daddy wasn’t shit before they started screwing? 🤔

No, you do not black women in the 80s maybe even the 70s held the 60s had it way worse than you this generation y’all are too damn weak. You don’t know how to be strong. Y’all sit up there. Y’all had these damn kids take care of them shut the hell up and stop coming to the Internet, complaining about stuff go to your boyfriend or baby daddy who you be dealing with and tell him this other than that, you acting weak

STOP having sex with men who don't want you, be more responsible. It's time to start accepting accountability. STOP having babies to trap a man.

No one forced her to be a single mom. Hopefully young women see this and listen to what she is saying. It's hard being a single mom but it's worse being the child of a single mom.

She don't sound like she's taking any kind of accountability to me 🤧

Single FAT moms most definitely have it the worst!!!

Sigh and you ignored all the prior single moms that said this long before the internet existed and y’all still continue this generational trend. We tried to tell you but you grown 🤷🏾‍♂️

Nobody’s saying you can’t be stressed or tired as a parent but you don’t get to emotionally lash out at the kids. It’s not their fault.

Lady, the truth is that many of you chose this situation. Of course, in public, you will deny this and revert to blaming others and introducing race as one of a number of reasons why you are in the position that you find yourself. However, you see any child that you have as belonging to you. You relegate men to bit part actors in a film script written and produced by you. You slept with men, generally speaking, that showed zero commitment to you. I can feel the intense emotion of what you are saying and I feel great sympathy for your situation. This though is not a racial issue. Stop it. It is though a morality issue. Fix that and then the issue of black single mothers disappears within a generation. 🤷🏽‍♂️

Here’s a hint: If he doesn’t want to marry you, don’t have his kids. Another hint: Stop thinking you have to have a baby every time you get a new boyfriend. It didn’t work with the first 3 or 4 and it won’t make the new one want to hang around either.

So you create your situation only to complain about it later

It’s been known for over 40 years, about the hardships of single motherhood. You would think a woman would take EVERY precaution to not become one.🤷🏾‍♂️

Don't be upset with your kids because it's not their fault you're a single mother it's your fault you're the one who chose to have these kids with a bum ass mother f***** what does that make you

Abortion was a big option but you refuse. Now don’t complaint

Bruh… she gonna be single forever. Let the congregation please advise her as to why.

Why are women still having children after seeing this

This is deeper than not having the father around it’s the mentality of being a mother. I think that went over some people’s head in the comments

sound like a Drake song remix 😩

And I feel sorry for any woman that was made single because she’s a widow or she’s divorced because of domestic violence, but a lot of women are choosing to put themselves in this position and then they’re mad at the world for the bed that they laid in.

Everyone's fault but hers. The septal ring says it all!

This is why I don’t want kids and never will. I’m 30 y/o and childless. Imma keep it that way.

What’s the point of that nose ring.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE i cannot stress this enough if you are a woman and choose to have sex pleaseeeee get on birth control and track when you ovulate!!! im telling you it is NEVER worth it to not take preventative measures PLEASEEEEE

Stop sleeping with guys you know won’t stay! It really isn’t that hard

Why are you single???????

I’m almost certain that man told her he didn’t want that baby

keep your legs closed

Imagine hearing that voice in your ear everyday ew I see why whoever that guy was left and i guarantee she fought tooth and nail for full custody now she “upset” 😆