i hate when women make me agree with men bc he lowkey right af 😭

😂😂 buddy wrong as hell. Calling your girl insecure cuz u cheated is diabolical. And top tier gaslighting

lol he right though!! once you say you forgive and move forward, you gotta let that shit go

She never said she forgave him. The mutual agreement was they was gone work thru it. And in the video she clearly ain’t with it. He not right😂🤦🏽‍♂️

@spicebae_ Working through it is a path to forgiveness bro. You can’t heal if you’re constantly reminded of one wounds. If it’s too much… hes right move around.

@spicebae_ That’s a different conversation.. words mean things.. “bro”.. they can be on the path to forgiveness but she clearly hasn’t forgiven him. As men we gotta do better 🤦🏽‍♂️

@spicebae_ We do however you’re grown. If a woman cheated on you would you stay? Probably not. Why? Cause you know you haven’t forgiven them. Holding something over someone’s head that you chose to still be part of is emotional manipulation. “Bro”

@spicebae_ Me leaving and me forgiving do not go hand in hand. U can indeed have 1 without the other. So bad example. But have at it tho my guy💯

Agreeing with him on what? I know this sarcasm cause ain’t no way

The cut from “you act insecure as hell” to “okay yeah i cheated once” lmao 🤣 I swear some really men lack be common sense & loove to play double standard..

Bitch agreeing with this nigga for what? He’s wrong and ur a bird brain

How is he right? HOW? “Why u acting so insecure, after I cheat and give u a reason to be” is insane. Tell me how he right.

All imma say is if you say u forgive him. and y’all supposed to be working on the relationship, don’t be talm bout you gonna cheat next. Because what’s the point of u saying u forgive me. Minus well just break up or just shut up.

Ian gone lie even if you forgive the cheating forgiveness itself is still a process and it can take days weeks or months hell maybe even a year or two to gain that trust back and fully forgive you can’t just fuck somebody over like that and think just cause you said I’m sorry that it’s okay now and everything cool.

This is quite literally why you don’t forgive your person for cheating if you GENUINELY don’t see yourself moving past it. like you’re insecure rightfully so bc they broke your trust but there’s no point in staying. shit takes like that 2 years to rebuild w no mistakes.

Excuse me?? From this conversation you seriously think thats a golden nigga she sitting next to that deserves all that forgiveness?? lmaooo

Either forgive it or leave his ass. Don’t stay and make him suffer. It is a waste of time. He’s right. You can both be single and happy.

Agree with him? He cheated and expects her to feel “secure” automatically because he promised to do better. Life doesn’t work like that. But what I will say is if she knew she couldn’t get over it, she should’ve left him before they even got to this point

You trynna trigger me? Bcz wth is there to agree with

she said she was going to cheat too in response to him calling her insecure. in other words maybe after being violated aswell he would better understand the behavior that follows. the men are responding to that part because oh yes let’s make the woman her own issue per usual

Exactly. Cause staying with a cheater means you accept and are okay with what they’re doing. Just leave if u can’t forget it.

That’s the thing though, u be wanting to stay cuz u ain’t the one that fucked the relationship up by cheating, but the trust is broken. So it’s best to leave but the reality of the situation is, it’s more than likely gonna happen again with the next one. Gotta learn to be ok w/it

I don't understand that if you felt the need to cheat why you still trying to be with her. Obviously you don't really want to be with her so let it go.I truly never understand the point of cheating other than to be a selfish jackass trying to see what you can get over on a person

I don’t condone cheating, but if you forgave that person/stayed, you gave up the right to hold it over their head. Either stay and work through it or leave because the hurt is too deep. But don’t stay and still throw it in someone’s face. At that point you’re in the wrong

You a slow dumb stupid bitch if u agree

Even if she forgave him, she still going to have the trauma it gave her, most of yall don't understand how it emotionally effects someone. It takes time, it dont change over night not in 3mos not in 6mos sometimes it can take a few years to heal from it.

He magically sees the trauma in being cheated on but expecting grace and second chances for his cheating. I hate men like this fr… Logic = 0

If you gone do all this why tf go back to someone that cheated 🤦🏾‍♂️

I mean she had a point , Cause & Effect .

See, this is why I cant be with anyone after they cheat bcs its unforgettable. Imma turn into inspector gadget. My peace, comfort, security, & protection will be no longer. My respect for him would decrease bcs he displayed no decernment, discipline, love, or care for me. I cant.

Exactly bc if you’re gonna stay then gtf over it😭 all that extra arguing and shit is pointless. Trust broken move on

The day everyone has “cheating” as a deal breaker is the day I think things will get better. Don’t do that “let’s work it out” shit cause 9/10 that shit ain’t gonna work out

What the hell do yall think “work through it means”?!? Its not blanket forgiveness, you gotta rebuild trust. Thats alot of question answering and tough conversations. If your behavior aint changed you’re triggering the same wound. She should cheat and he should KTSE.

2 thing can b true, You don’t get to break the trust she did have in you & choose when she gets over it but at the same time don’t stay with resentment…. It’ll never work 🤷🏽‍♀️💯

You a bird .. he didn’t say anything that makes him right

I cheat on you,you catch me don matter if you forgive me..am not trusting your ass either moving forward

How tf do you agree with HIM??

Tbh he’s right. I don’t understand why women won’t leave the men who cheat on them but then complain about the men cheating while staying in the relationship. Either stay in this circus, accept it and shut up or leave. It’s really that simple. Stfu and let us live

Women stay typically cuz they wanna get them back and make it hurt lol. Which makes them even worse. Either forgive or move on. But I get it. Cheating is super foul and people handle it differently