I heaved a sigh

People don’t realize just how messed up cheating really is. So when I see people try to normalize or gloss over it, it infuriates me—especially hearing nonsense like “men are built that way” or “all men cheat.” No, you’re not “built that way”; you just lack discipline. And no, not all men cheat. Everyone has the potential to cheat, and it hurts like hell. Find a partner who’s good and disciplined, and if cheating is a deal breaker, stick to it. Don’t let damaged people gaslight you into thinking it’s normal—it’s not.

Nah, after cheating it’s quiet for me. My last partner looked me in my eyes and said “I would leave before I ever cheat on you” and then proceeds to cheat. I look at him now like a stranger.. everything hes ever said to me I feel like was a lie so.. there will be no try again.

This is why I know I couldn't stay with someone who I caught cheating on me, because it would emotionally destroy me. The constant overthinking and questioning would drive me crazy. Naw, I would have to cut my losses and call it done.

Cheaters are mostly narcissist psychopaths and selfish. Staying only gives them time and the opportunity to even blame you for their infidelity which eventually will fxck you up completely.

Thank you for describing in words what I could never articulate.

"Love and history is one of the biggest blinders." Complicated...

What if the spouse refuses to let go of the hurt. Is it okay to help him and end it

In the Bible, sexual immorality is the only justifiable reason for a divorce.

Dam

Wow!