I need a man to answer the damn question!!!!!

Nobody wants to feel like they’re being used. Especially when we just met. We don’t mind doing things or providing for women that we love. Yes, maintain your own lifestyle is attractive, but begging and we just met makes you look chaotic and unorganized. Red flag!

A woman who makes money wouldn’t ask for things like this lol so you should date women who make enough money to cover basic life expenses lol that’s all I’m saying I think A LOT of the women who ask actually do need the money lol

And I agree. Date women who can maintain that. But some women will try you just because they like to play games. If she can spend your money instead of her own…she gone run game on niggas that allow her to. But, they do be broke.

@wwaytooyoung ………i don’t care how much she makes. that doesn’t mean she needs to be begging lol. pay your bills the same way you were paying them before you met me , that’s all.

They are reacting defensively, using the wrong terminology:

Wtf??! How about .. Tell ah nigga you broke asf and if he gon fuck with you , he gone need to come up off some ends.. When a job that you pick should cover your expenses. Why do women have no shame?

?? not caring about WHAT/HOW MUCH a woman makes ≠ rely on another ADULT for having means of their own or becoming a dependent.. does that make sense? because apparently they believe because we honestly do NOT care HOW MUCH they make, to them that means “oh i don’t have to have it then, cool” & then become dependent upon another adult, aiding into poor behaviors. it’s getting scary how much they are believing their own ideologies should be adopted #scaryhours

I know for a fact, that a lot of the women who ask for petty shit like $40 or they phone bill paid ACTUALLY do need it! They aren’t using you, they are struggling and figure if you wanna fuck wit her, that you’ll do it

We don't care how much money yall make cuz yall don't share or spend any of it on us relationship or not. Women are selfish shallow, stupid and materialistic

She has to be an functional adult.

Being broke and being a gold digger are two different things.

Whether women make money or don't make money they will STILL ask a man for money 😭. A lot of women don't like spending their own money consistently. When a man says he doesn't care he is talking about being attracted to her.

Why should men care, when you just contradicted yourself by saying "if you're materialistic you should want a man with money" then also said "but you should have your own money" so whether women have money or not y'all still want men's money, then asked why we don't care?

Stop trying to play mind games…We don’t care how much money you make we care about how much money you try to take from us…Simple Because we can’t just shit stacks a man gotta grind for his💯

A lot of you hoes got money and still beg men know your not gonna use your money on him so THATS why most don’t care

The majority of women would prefer not to pay any bills! If she doesn’t want to contribute to household bills then who cares what she makes! This is why her pay doesn’t matter but the reasons men ask…. That’s a different thing😂😂

Men don't care about how much money a woman make because a woman don't make money to share with a man. Women make money for self. Men make money for the house (everyone in the house).

I do care what a woman makes & has if she is seeking to be in a relationship that leads to marriage with me. Marriage is a business merger. So we would then be merging our incomes, and splitting them if we part ways. I don’t ever see myself dating a broke woman again like before.

We dont care in the sense of that’s not what’s makes a man attractive to a woman. Most men not looking look to fuck with a woman because of her money like women do men. So we do care just not in the same way you women do.

DON'T KNOW ABOUT THE OTHER FELLAS JUST FUCK N SUCK EVERYTHING WILL BE COOL N FUCK HOW MUCH A WOMAN MAKES 🤷🤷🤷🤷

These are two different arguments being forced into one to make a strawman

See this right here is a warped mentality 😂😂😂 Men do not care how much a bitch makes because it doesn't benefit us but no man wants a leech or liability 😂

Lady there is no logic in this. Men don’t care about your finances and when some women come to men begging and saying that you NEED to pay x,y, and z to date me then don’t be surprised when they walk away and want nothing to do with you. The investment is not worth the headache🙅🏽‍♂️

Nah she right. And I’m going to put it this way. A woman can’t even come around me. Matter. Fact. NO ONE. Can come around me and they don’t have their own ambition to be something greater.

Most people talk in circles and contradict themselves which is why they’re lonely, and miserable. They ain’t getting no where in dating because they’re going in the same circle. It’s like men who don’t want women with high body counts but the same doesn’t go for them.

You comparing two different tbibgs how we see it. Nobody wants a broke woman aleays begging like atleast show up with ya basic stuff. And when we say we dont care about how much she makes thats not referring to broke women that referring to women who have money believing thats th

The issue isn’t how much a woman makes. A woman making 50k a year can have her shit together, never begging and a woman who makes 100k a year can still be living beyond her means, paycheck to paycheck, while also being a begging ass woman too. Begging from day 1 is the problem

This is a grown ass woman saying this dumbass shit

You can't ask me for things you can't provide for yourself. You're comparing a Woman to a girl. The last part you tried to speed through was the logic .You should be able to take care of yourself way before I come in your life.

A healthy dynamic relies on mutual effort and reciprocal investment. When one person is placed in the position of financial provider right out of the gate while the other acts as a beneficiary, it creates an uneven dynamic.

I do care and I want yall to pay bills . I have three properties. I’ll be damned if I let some chick just come laying around my 💩 for free

Instead of evaluating compatibility, values, or mutual attraction, the interaction becomes an evaluation of access in exchange for assistance.

We won't not date you because of your money bracket. That is a you thing to be petty about. Y'all want to be provided for, before the check gets to the table If dudes treated yall in your money bracket, a lot of y'all would be single. We're not your wallet. Date your range then.

You’re saying two different things. 1. Most of us don’t care what yall make, you have a job and that’s something. 2. We are not your fathers, why are you asking for rent or cell phone money soon after exchanging numbers. We are grown. You pay your bills and I pay mine. #nuffsaid

Even if the financial need is genuine, placing financial demands on a new romantic contact blurs the line between a authentic relationship and financial opportunism.

People put a value on themselves that is higher than reality. They think they should attract a higher quality but consistently attract beggars. So their market value in the dating world is beggar quality of women/men and they need to accept that or elevate themselves. This goes for both genders. Dating is easy but people say it's not because they can't attract the man/woman that is on a level they can't obtain.