I no know when water run down for my eye while watching this video 🙂‍↔️💔

Omo choose yourself o,while still caring for others..

@0laribiwa Always

Take time for your self, check you health physical and mental and pls don’t put unnecessary pressure on yourself. Coz , when you die people will move on faster than you can say JACK ROBINSON. Lastly, friends and family should be understanding of you when you can not meet up to their expectations. May his soul RIP

So true

This is me saying “I don’t want to fail everyone bcos of the love I have got for them”. I hope I don’t end this way soon.

Dear men, Help from choice, not pressure

This year I intend to block my billers one by one. If you check my account statement, na so so transfer I dey do. The only credit alert you will find is my salary. Argh!!!

Omo e no easy gan, I dey always put my family first before myself sometimes… even when I say make I do for myself e dey hard to do for myself when family no get💔

It is not even your responsibility to be the good person to everyone Don’t carry the weight of the world on your fragile shoulders, they will move on. Live for yourself, enjoy your life and don’t feel guilty about it

The day you die, life goes on. The people you’re breaking your back for will move on. Always take a break. Don’t give what you don’t have. Choose yourself first. We are not promised tomorrow.

This is so deep!! 💔

You’re the most important person in your life, never forget that💯📝

Take care of yourself kings. The world will move on quickly when you die

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One person go collect him wife like that

And family will move on after his burial, if his wife is not that old, she will remarry, life goes on, love friends, family, but don't love them more than yourself, I always help people, even though if I don't have I will borrow, but I discover people take advantage of me

I hear the man in the video is also no longer with us. May his soul find rest

One unfortunate being would still call him " absentee father"

Whatever we do should have limit and choose yourself first

Loving and taking care of yourself will never be overemphasized . Now the people he toiled night and day for will move on

Many men put unnecessary pressures on themselves because they don't want their family to see you as failure. You don't have to prove anything to anybody. Who will be poor is already decided, who will be rich is already decided. You are not where you are because you aren't working hard enough. It is your destiny playing out. Just enjoy yourself while you are at it.

Walahi no one wants to fail his or her family 🤦‍♂️

Omo this thing is just natural in men when work enter body u no go even remember say you never chop

The weight that a man carries sometimes is the weight of sacrifice. Sacrificing yourself for everyone else before even remembering that you’re the most important person in your life. Those people you’re sacrificing yourself for because you don’t want to let them down because you think they don’t have anyone else to ask for help, the day you d13 is the day that they’ll turn to another person for help. Problem no dey finish, take sometime out to rest and enjoy the little pleasures of this life. Problem sef dey k!ll pesin.

my god

It's you or you

Try to dey enjoy your life ..

Omo na why I don give myself 1 week break from work oo.. make I no kpai.. all the people calling me for help will continue living if I go.. so I need to also take good care of myself.

I'll this again, "I'm a man, I'm a Man", pls dead that mentality, everybody will be fine, with or without you, live your best life, take good care of yourself selfishly, eat the best meals ur money can afford, travel and have fun. Remember, no one really cares, if u die, they'll cook and eat during ur burial, ur wife will move on with other men, ur kids will take another man as a father figure, it's not really worth this whole thing. Be selfishly selfish to the ends of the world. Everyone will be fine.

This is the life of many people abroad. Stuck trying to validate themselves.

This is very deep and it’s so sad to watch 😩

Put yourself first, no matter what.

They keep calling day and night asking for help with their children tuition, feeding, accommodation, car repairs, medicals and every other thing under the sun. No matter how much or how frequently you give, they keep coming back like bees. Some even waste the money you give on things you dare not spend on. The day you turn them down they badmouth you forgetting all you have been giving. They turn themselves to a cross that you have to carry in life, and if you die in the process they forget you and move on to another victim.

My takeaway from this: 1: PUT YOURSELF FIRST. 2: DONT OVERDO 3: don’t ever compromise your health, wellbeing for others 4: everybody will be ok with or without you 5: PUT YOURSELF FIRST.