I repeat I do not want a struggling relationship.

And what if you meet someone who is willing to hear what you’re interests are? And if they’d be glad to assist you in achieving just so you are able to provide for yourself? I mean sometimes god bless us through others ey, 🙏🥺🕯️

If its just help without “you owe me back” or “he is what he is today because of ME” then cool

When I said i knew that would be the case, but honestly not all guys are like that, I mean if you meet someone who has pure intentions about you and wants the best for you, they will never do that not even in the middle of an argument, yazi mina I have these two exes of mine neh

I just dont want a struggling relationship .

I hear you and fully I understand shame, mara if you are with someone who doesn’t make the relationship feels like a struggle? And actually acknowledge and appreciate the little efforts made?🤷🏽‍♂️

You still dont get it and its okay.

Lawl make me get it?

Also if I don’t it’s okay maybe but efforts shouldn’t be regarded as a struggle 😥🥺

When u tell people that this opens you up to disrespect and somewhat being controlled bathi im overthinking things 😂

@LesleyMicc55865 Hi

@LesleyMicc55865 Hi

My crush😍

True

This makes sense.

Thanks 🙏

A word

I hear you. But Ooh your eyes and teeth !! 😘😍

🙏🙏❤️

Sharing the same sentiments, relationships are expensive yhoo. In my next life I'll date my neighbor🤞😭

Lol why neighbour

Lol I won't spend a penny when I wanna see him. I'll just walk to his place, we walk to mall, we walk to the parking etc.😂❤️

Loool

Love is great, but we both need to have money. A relationship shouldn’t feel like a financial rescue mission.

That’s basically what I said 👌👌

Yeah neh

Yep

Hope it includes being celibate and practicing abstinence while you’re in your waiting period 😂😂

Start an only fans nana.

How much are you making?

R45k/pm, I have a full time job.

@TsongaBoii Are you being serious

@JoburgTop I doubt its the truth

It makes sense.however, people are programed differently, explains the outcome.

💯🎯

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I get your point of view and I feel the same truly, I do believe inlove but am so unlucky cause everyone I met so far used me for their financial support. Angimuhle that time my worry is with time looks change no matter how many cosmetic surgery you can get.

Were you aware of the “used”? Or you thought you were just helping them nje

I was purely inlove, little did I know am just an ATM cause every time we talked they ask money in the end of the conversation. I honestly wonder what happened to True LOVE nje

It does exist You just need to state your intentions before committing to something you not sure of

Hmm i think you are a complicated pearson love is not about money by the way unless you mean business.

Cute eyes