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If a guy is willing to wait, it is because he cannot afford not to. It is survivorship bias reframed as control narrative. The reality is most guys leave because you ain’t that hot compared to his other options - or you are not that pleasant to be with....

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NEGRO LUFFY7 months ago

Women have to reframe the narrative so they can have some sort of leverage for the next relationship even after they don't get what they want. What she was missing in her video was she gave everything to a man that was way way above her league(that other women like to have sex with too) what he wanted and thought that was going to keep him around.

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Based Therapist | Marchese Methods7 months ago

The low IQ determinism of supply/demand or “keeping him/her on the chase” is a problem of rejecting sovereignty and projecting one’s own insentient preoccupation with good feelings unto everyone else. The men she selects are these types of goons because she’s a goonette.

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French OG | Your Dating and Relationship Guide7 months ago

If you think you have to manipulate desire through scarcity, you don’t believe in agency, yours or theirs, and the chaos you experience is largely self-selected. Agency is often a byproduct of options.

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FT7 months ago

If a girl makes me wait but she let another guy hit it, im done

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French OG | Your Dating and Relationship Guide7 months ago

She always had.

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Wandering Asshole7 months ago

If he really likes you, he’ll stick around. If a guy does a pump and dump, he never liked you in the first place.

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French OG | Your Dating and Relationship Guide7 months ago

Irrespective of when she gives it up.

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justman7 months ago

@Coalminecancary Wrong, it only works if I dont have to wait.

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French OG | Your Dating and Relationship Guide7 months ago

@Coalminecancary U did no even understand my reply

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Jack7 months ago

Hit by Date 2, or its not going to work Only do a 3rd date if she goes way out of her way to initiate it AND you pullback for a full week This rule is 95% accurate

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⚔️VeeryanX7 months ago

Waiting isn't virtue. It's leverage, or the lack of it. Men with options don't negotiate desire. They choose. When a man stays without enthusiasm, It's rarely restraint, it's scarcity.

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smartus logicus7 months ago

I would wait, hit it out of spite and still leave.

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French OG | Your Dating and Relationship Guide7 months ago

It can be fun indeed.

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Lowest Common Idiots7 months ago

Sorry if a girl uses the word “crack”, I’m already out. Then add on this girl just screams someone who goes to therapy and regurgitates everything her therapist says as gospel. Hearing both sexes talk about relationships nowadays online is so painful. It’s people trying to make it sound like a business deal, while clearly being ignorant of that topic. Or people regurgitating what therapist and other e girls say as gospel. Dating scene nowadays is so fucked

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McRight7 months ago

She's psychoanalyzing, not surviving post-nut clarity 😂 Gotta give a man a reason to stick around beyond sex.

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Ghost of Sparta7 months ago

Guys listen, if you ever find your self waiting for a girl, because she needs space and everything she tells you, just leave, you are not the priority, and just by waiting you show her you are fucking disposable, thing is you dont want to chase women for “love” because they truly are not capable of it… only your mothers and dogs can do it unconditionally

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Seb7 months ago

She let me hit twice, said it was the best she ever had and then went cold on me. Lmao who tf understands them.

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Michael O'Hogan7 months ago

Here's a hint to the women: have a personality & interests & none of this bullshit matters ..

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RedPillOrangeCoin7 months ago

It's not just options, there's also a false advertising and buyers remorse element. A variety of post sex aesthetic reasons exist why dudes eject post coitus. No dude leaves a good looking woman after good sex, but if your carriage turns into a pumpkin in the morning, well then.

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ColdHard_Truth7 months ago

Matriarchal sludge. She claims science to mask the con. "Chase mode" is just a predatory leash. Your prolactin spikes doesn't kill love, it reveals the void in her where you'd otherwise find a soul. Once she yields, the chameleon's colors fade. Men, she treats you like a dog for a treat. Stop begging. Break the loop.

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DiegoTrombon7 months ago

Why does she look like she got dookie on her face 💩

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jimmy7 months ago

I walk away when the woman does the you have to wait and go on more dates dance. I would only consider if I have a roster and she’s exceptional beauty wise and has other value to me long term. But I will be vocal about this roster until she decides to move forward

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Pixel Pirate X7 months ago

This guy was great in hocus pocus

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Derick J. Springsteen7 months ago

She's basically saying what women need to bring nonsexual qualities to the table but framing it with "men suck" verbage so the girlies don't get mad. Women always shoot themselves on the foot.

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Trainer T7 months ago

She must be terrible in bed!

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Zander Martin7 months ago

At least she’s honest enough not to wear makeup

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CounterSignal7 months ago

She’s only half wrong. If a man vibes with a woman, he can hit the first night and still want her. Without vibing, dating is a chore to get sex - especially with high maintenance chicks. Trick is: Know if he REALLY likes you. Easier said than done, but that’s the winning move.

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Reaver7 months ago

Women choose Chads 90% of the time, which means Chad has access to 90% of women. Which means Chad has OPTIONS. Chad isn't ever going to settle down.

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Bobby7 months ago

I didn’t know it was possible to find a more whorish way of saying it but “crack” makes me nauseous

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HappyinAZ7 months ago

Maybe the reason he stopped liking you is because you’re a pain in the ass. Take some accountability for yourself. After this happened to you, Time after Time, it should have dawned on you.

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man on a rock7 months ago

The nails tell me everything I need to know

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LazyKiryu7 months ago

Nah it’s just post nut clarity he never like you to begin with

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Harry Pinto7 months ago

This is cope/copium for explaining why, in her experience, she was able to fuck guys way out of her league who understandably didn’t want more or seconds.

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HeyWood_JaBlomi7 months ago

Lol that only worked like 20 years ago. Dudes today could easily cheat if you “make them wait” consequences of the “independent sleep with as many guys” effect is that he can be one of those many guys.

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Ebony Ass and Facial Collection7 months ago

This ai?

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Vii Pii En7 months ago

If a man doesn't want a future with you, it doesn't matter if you are the most beautiful person In the world he really doesn't care. The illusion of the future keeps him around, remove the curtains he cares Less.Some men can't survive without relationships they adapt by staying.

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Richie Kaminski7 months ago

No heterosexual man is liking a girl less for banging on night one, that’s the best you can do

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Z4K7 months ago

It’s like food, you only really care about food when your appetite is strong, once you eat too much, the appetite is gone, or worse, there’s repulsion at the idea of food. It’s the same kind of thing.

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Tu Vecino Opresor5 months ago

Accurate

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--7 months ago

@grok who is this woman

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