If a guy is willing to wait, it is because he cannot afford not to. It is survivorship bias reframed as control narrative. The reality is most guys leave because you ain’t that hot compared to his other options - or you are not that pleasant to be with.... The ones who leave after cracking can afford not to have you around (other options). Otherwise he leaves beforehand.show more

Women have to reframe the narrative so they can have some sort of leverage for the next relationship even after they don't get what they want. What she was missing in her video was she gave everything to a man that was way way above her league(that other women like to have sex with too) what he wanted and thought that was going to keep him around.

The low IQ determinism of supply/demand or “keeping him/her on the chase” is a problem of rejecting sovereignty and projecting one’s own insentient preoccupation with good feelings unto everyone else. The men she selects are these types of goons because she’s a goonette.

If you think you have to manipulate desire through scarcity, you don’t believe in agency, yours or theirs, and the chaos you experience is largely self-selected. Agency is often a byproduct of options.

If a girl makes me wait but she let another guy hit it, im done

She always had.

If he really likes you, he’ll stick around. If a guy does a pump and dump, he never liked you in the first place.

Irrespective of when she gives it up.

@Coalminecancary Wrong, it only works if I dont have to wait.

@Coalminecancary U did no even understand my reply

Hit by Date 2, or its not going to work Only do a 3rd date if she goes way out of her way to initiate it AND you pullback for a full week This rule is 95% accurate

Waiting isn't virtue. It's leverage, or the lack of it. Men with options don't negotiate desire. They choose. When a man stays without enthusiasm, It's rarely restraint, it's scarcity.

I would wait, hit it out of spite and still leave.

It can be fun indeed.

Sorry if a girl uses the word “crack”, I’m already out. Then add on this girl just screams someone who goes to therapy and regurgitates everything her therapist says as gospel. Hearing both sexes talk about relationships nowadays online is so painful. It’s people trying to make it sound like a business deal, while clearly being ignorant of that topic. Or people regurgitating what therapist and other e girls say as gospel. Dating scene nowadays is so fucked

She's psychoanalyzing, not surviving post-nut clarity 😂 Gotta give a man a reason to stick around beyond sex.

Guys listen, if you ever find your self waiting for a girl, because she needs space and everything she tells you, just leave, you are not the priority, and just by waiting you show her you are fucking disposable, thing is you dont want to chase women for “love” because they truly are not capable of it… only your mothers and dogs can do it unconditionally

She let me hit twice, said it was the best she ever had and then went cold on me. Lmao who tf understands them.

Here's a hint to the women: have a personality & interests & none of this bullshit matters ..

It's not just options, there's also a false advertising and buyers remorse element. A variety of post sex aesthetic reasons exist why dudes eject post coitus. No dude leaves a good looking woman after good sex, but if your carriage turns into a pumpkin in the morning, well then.

Matriarchal sludge. She claims science to mask the con. "Chase mode" is just a predatory leash. Your prolactin spikes doesn't kill love, it reveals the void in her where you'd otherwise find a soul. Once she yields, the chameleon's colors fade. Men, she treats you like a dog for a treat. Stop begging. Break the loop.

Why does she look like she got dookie on her face 💩

I walk away when the woman does the you have to wait and go on more dates dance. I would only consider if I have a roster and she’s exceptional beauty wise and has other value to me long term. But I will be vocal about this roster until she decides to move forward

This guy was great in hocus pocus

She's basically saying what women need to bring nonsexual qualities to the table but framing it with "men suck" verbage so the girlies don't get mad. Women always shoot themselves on the foot.

She must be terrible in bed!

At least she’s honest enough not to wear makeup

She’s only half wrong. If a man vibes with a woman, he can hit the first night and still want her. Without vibing, dating is a chore to get sex - especially with high maintenance chicks. Trick is: Know if he REALLY likes you. Easier said than done, but that’s the winning move.

Women choose Chads 90% of the time, which means Chad has access to 90% of women. Which means Chad has OPTIONS. Chad isn't ever going to settle down.

I didn’t know it was possible to find a more whorish way of saying it but “crack” makes me nauseous

Maybe the reason he stopped liking you is because you’re a pain in the ass. Take some accountability for yourself. After this happened to you, Time after Time, it should have dawned on you.

The nails tell me everything I need to know

Nah it’s just post nut clarity he never like you to begin with

This is cope/copium for explaining why, in her experience, she was able to fuck guys way out of her league who understandably didn’t want more or seconds.

Lol that only worked like 20 years ago. Dudes today could easily cheat if you “make them wait” consequences of the “independent sleep with as many guys” effect is that he can be one of those many guys.

This ai?

If a man doesn't want a future with you, it doesn't matter if you are the most beautiful person In the world he really doesn't care. The illusion of the future keeps him around, remove the curtains he cares Less.Some men can't survive without relationships they adapt by staying.

No heterosexual man is liking a girl less for banging on night one, that’s the best you can do

It’s like food, you only really care about food when your appetite is strong, once you eat too much, the appetite is gone, or worse, there’s repulsion at the idea of food. It’s the same kind of thing.

Accurate

@grok who is this woman