If she gives an ultimatum, it's over. Never continue such relationship.

“I don’t negotiate w/terrorist”😂😂😂

When a woman gives you an ultimatum there are always the same two options: 1/ she leaves you 2/ she loses respect for you and leaves later so might as well leave her right away

The guy is in the wrong here. If he's sleeping with her for 3 years and can't marry, she needs to walk.

Dumb fucks. What are you doing wasting a womans time. Why even be with a woman without children. Not needing a state document is one thing but man up and get them pregnant and take care of them and stop complaining about muslims breeding. Make babies bitch

Facts. Never negotiate with t*rrorists.

Marriage is hostage now? Based on his reaction, seems like he was never going to marry her. It's better she left. Now she can go find someone who wants to marry her.

She has an expiry date. She wants to have kids at 28-30 because she knows the chances of her having kids drastically reduce after 30. If she didn't give you her 20s, don't accept her in her 30s when she's just looking for a provider.

This sort of man is a King. This woman is a dumb child. Do women think the entire world revolves around them? Ultimatums don't work because a woman is desperate. A Man hates disrespect more than he likes sex. Women like this can walk away and never return. The Man is the Prize!

Cole is never going to find happiness or a wife, is he? 😂

If that's her first ultimatum after 3 years, you should forgive her. Truly, I don't see the point in waiting longer before getting married. If you're not interested in building a family, tell her that. If she chooses to leave, she'll be leaving, otherwise, she'll accept it.

If this was India, it is considered as rape by law. Man not giving consent for a long term relationship or a break up is considered as rape under the pretext of marriage in India Great Indian judiciary #JudiciaryGetWellSoon

ridiculous argument i’m a man with two daughters without using the word, ultimatum or using anger, there’s nothing wrong with a negotiation A soft “ I love you, but after February 14, if I’m not engaged, I will assume that’s not in the future” passive aggressiveness can work

3 years? That ultimatum is necessary. He kicked her our very easily. It's in her best interest to leave.

This one is filled with bs from the guy. It’s worldly, not the right approach to dealing with a woman who does desire marriage. SMH 🤦

I dont agree with This. If your living and sleeping with Her and your still not committed enough to Marry Her. Your using Her. You don't love or respect Her enough. I mean, Why buy the cow, when you get Free Milk. This AI Dude is selfish and She wants real ❤️ & commitment.

There’s another side to this, women will often ask early whether a man wants marriage or kids in the future and if it’s been three years or more together without even a timeline update they’ve a right to ask questions or to feel lied to.

I dont know about yall. You need Jesus or something. I've been married to the same woman for 25 years. It a 100 and 100. Not 50/50. She sacrificed her career for our family and I sacrificed my body and mind to make sure she and my kids were taken care of.

As I said, "I'd rather die alone by myself than die alone with you."

Dating for marriage is actually perfectly reasonable. We are not Peter Pan. We do not have forever. The guy was absolutely doing her a favour. Although it’s best to discuss goals when you start dating.

Exactly! Well done Bro...

I do not take ultimatums from anyone. Women, family, bosses, the kit or kaboodle.

Exactly - show any girl that does that the door, no questions asked

Bros lips: 💋

Move on

Eh, marriage is not an ultimatum. The only thing she did wrong was being with a guy who had no desire to marry in the first place.

This is a Manipulation Tactic, i don't negotiate with Terrorists............ Better an empty house than a home held HOSTAGE.. Never accept an Ultimatum

This is stupid, if he didn’t want to commit then don’t waste her time from the beginning

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I’d say years they start to have a point but if it’s a big blow out they do realize tradition her parents pay for the wedding yours the honeymoon lol 😂 facts bitches be crazy

Why is he turning gay

He should marry her or break it. Not fair to string her along in her fertile years. Tick tock chap.

Three years and no ring? Ultimatum or not, SHE'S 100% RIGHT TO LEAVE. She's on the clock and doesn't need someone wasting her precious time. If you don't know within the first year, she *should absolutely without a single doubt* dump you for someone ready to wife her.

When these discussions come up, I generally take the side of women. Because, they have a biological timeclock, men don't. What do you expect them to do?! Also, Women and Men should abstain from living or having sex together until a marriage commitment is made.