I’m losing it over here

People do not realize that abuse includes financial abuse which can put people in absolute ruins.

I’m probably a bad person I have stopped reaching out to like the last friend I have because this is how she’s chosen to live her life. The last time we saw each other she told me her husband was a Trumper. We’re Canadian.

I just Last year - at 57 Helped my friend - also 67 Set up the app TO THEIR BANK ACCOUNT Because she had never done that At 57 Her husband was not happy w/me And I do not give a fuck #Mm

Correct, i dont even believe in joint accounts if both are earning, a joint account should be there for the shared bills to be take from, thats it. You should have your own accounts if both are earning, end of story.

They want the days back where women couldn’t have credit cards and bank accounts, because it meant WOMEN COULDNT LEAVE

Could be financial abuse. Could be he had to start locking it bc she wouldn’t stop spending money on dumb crap. We don’t know.

You should be approaching this as controlling husband bad, rather than trad wife bad. They aren’t the same thing. I’ve known many trad wives and none had their debit cards controlled by their husbands. That’s weird.

her alternative is Get her own account , Half the Bills are due on the 1st . Or is there something we aren't hearing ?

When my mom started to recieve her OAS and CPP we went and got a personal savings account for her when she was working all of her pay was deposited into thier joint account Dad was very mad- as revenge he stopped buying her basics like clothing and toiletries + cigarettes

And I thank you for if

Just be better with money and this would not be a problem, too many of you have no control over your spending so yes, you should ask