I’m Xhosa but I don’t know why she’s slapping him. Please explain fast 👏🏽😭

Then you are NOT XHOSA!

Zange ndaya emdanisweni that’s why 🤣🤦🏽‍♀️

Izophinda isithethise nantsi video

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Lento yenziwa ngababantu abazibiza ngoba ngamaXhosa babe bengengawo, kwa Xhosa linyala isenzo esiloluhlobo! Lemingenela yezizizwe yiyo le engcolisa isiko lethu ngosiphathela lemigqakwe yezithethe🤦‍♂️

Maybe it's a regional thing. It doesn't happen where I come from.

GBV evidence, and no one is reporting this or it because it is a male victim

Kuthea yimpama kacumse, ucumse yinto yoqaba ikrwala and it's not supposed to be a hard slap more like a teasing slap hay lembanxo it's like a suprise but soft slap normally the girl okuqabayo is usually your girlfriend so ukubethela uba udyola namadoda ngoku hay amakwenkwe.

Jesus !!😳... the way I'd slap the sh*t back out of her even the ancestors will be shocked

I've never seen this kwa Xhosa

Hayi she was over doing it naye haibo

Is this not a subtle way of introducing abuse later?

U r not Xhosa they lied to u

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Lol I take it back my lil sis also doesn't know i blame Joburg

Humiliation ritual are normal

She's installing the anger...

@LifexX1809Life I’m Swazi but I’ll tell you now,this is not Xhosa tradition.

Then You Are Not Xhosa 🤣

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They claim u are not Xhosa that time now all areas do this, umzekelo eMthatha and surroundings ayenziwa, mna ndayibona eRhini 🤷🏽‍♀️

Nam ke mntase zange ndayibona or ndayiva ndawo

Indawo nendawo bethuna inentozayo

I saw on that show called Bogadi or Magadi where in the Zulu culture the in-laws females beat up the son-in-law.woth the sticks.

Kwenziwa lanto apha kuthi Xhosas qhaa ifuna siyithethe over drinks yabooo🤣🤣

After she beats me I will marry her immediately. She’s very pretty

I don't know the tradition but I am sure it's not suppose to be a hard slap

It’s proof on how he was taught to not beat woman at the mountains

This is so normal but she’s doing too much

That's the only time she will get to fix him, after this he's gonna slap the daylights out of her🤞

Revenge in advance?

Uyamqaba. Ikhona nentlonti yode baqwabe ke. I'm surprised that people will question this but not the decos, Helicopters and breaking of expensive bottles.

"Imilimandlela engalondolozwanga iyayidala inkathazo" The damage alcohol has done to our culture hayi😭 what nonsense is this now

She's playing Mr Bones

So that he does not cheat! That slap is a reminder of what happens if he cheats on her

As long as there is alcohol, hit me all you want 🥃

Zininzi izinto ezenziwayo kwaNtu ezingafaniyo ukushiyana indawo. Kuthi akho kwalentoyoqatywa yintombazana imbola ikrwala lidibana namadoda/bafana. But kwezinye indawo iyenziwa yi girlfriend or your younger sister. But the slap was never like rhis unentlonti lo

If roles were reversed women would be spamming the TL rn saying the patriarchy institutionalizing GBV in the name of culture

Uli-Xhosa, awungomXhosa😭

Hey @SAPoliceService why do you tolerate this clear gender based violence???

It's that Mr Bones type of greeting.

Yar neh, wabona Ba4e2 this country is God's favorite Lab serious, something ain't right I can feel it. It's all jokes till one day we somehow grow wings cause all this shxt ain't for us, it's all jokes 😭