IMMEDIATE DIVORCE

The first update was a big relief!

Not over reacting at all that is very cruel and calculated jealousy sometimes happens but that is unforgivable it will never be the same again

That’s evil. He should divorce her IMMEDIATELY.

Noooo, this is the most selfish vindictive thing I have ever heard, and I have heard some crazy stuff. Your wife has to be next level deplorable to do this to your daughter. This is literally psychotic. There is no justification and no excuse. No trust left. None.

YOU ARE NOT THE ASSHOLE, THAT WAS ALL YOUR DAUGHTER HAD LEFT OF HER MOTHER HOW CAN SHE NOT SEE HOW FAR AHE OVER STEPPED AND ALL YOUR FRIENDS TELLING YOU TO GET OVER IT NEED TO MIND THEIR BUSINESS, THEY THINK ITS CAUSE UR SAD NOT EVEN THINKING ABOUT YOUR DAUGHTER, SMFH DISGUSTING

I would be ENRAGED and demand her to find them at the dump grounds. Stupid whore throwing away those tapes is evil. Leave her

Divorce. She has no respect for him, his things, or what he may need. She also wrecked his daughter as well. No way I could stay married to someone like that. She just forced her will and didn't care about the damage she did. Screw her.

That's absolutely divorce worthy. I can understand her being a little jealous of her stepdaughter's mother after raising her for years and seeing her husband still misses her. But destroying those tapes is just evil.

Wendy is a monster. Not a human

Disgusting. Wendy's got to go ✋🏾 her insecure ass needs therapy

Yeah this is an Immediate Divorce. Cannot Reconcile this at all. Wendy is vile and vindictive. No self-esteem and hurt this man and his daughter.

If he stays w/Wendy (which he shouldn't) I hope daughter never finds out what that bitch did to her It would be horrible for Chloe to learn of this betrayal, basically lose a 2nd mom AND also have to maintain a relationship with her?

So she had them in her car waiting for trash day?!?!? Even when she saw he was heartbroken and how much pain she caused she didn’t offer them back but instead used friends and family to try to manipulate him? Ummm she needs to GO.

That's why Wendy was a divorcée

I would be going to jail 🤷🏻‍♀️

A. No right to tell him to move on B. The tapes weren’t as much for him, but were for his daughter who never got to meet her own mother An absolutely disgusting and deplorable action to throw them away like that

Now that woman is going to have another divorce

If she could she would throw away the daughter too. The fact he hasn't called the divorce lawyer by now shows why she was comfortable enough to throw it away.

And the divorce came out of nowhere

That was an act of calculated malice. I would never be able to look at her the same. It would be over.

divorce. No respect for her husband. No respect for his wife who died. Really: instant divorce.

My mother died over ten years ago, and i'm beginning to forget the sound of her voice.And there's nothing more heartbreaking

Ditch the bitch. She knew what she was doing. She knew it was a betrayal. She didn't do it for you to move on, she did it for her own ego. If she can't see what a huge issue it is, she's a soulless homunculus that is going to suck you dry. Cut the parasite off before it kills you

Damn… I woulda called my sister to whoop her ass

That’s evil

Drive her ungrateful ass down to the dump, and force her to dig for the tapes. Then once she's found the tapes, leave her jealous ass there at the dump. Go home and change the locks, then file for divorce.

If our mutual friends started telling me to get over it they'd become ex friends in a hearbeat

If it was videos of his ex, maybe. It was videos of the girl's mother, her dead mother. Divorce this woman. There's no undoing this.

You are the asshole for keeping those videos from your daughter her whole life. She should have grown up with them. Then this wouldn't matter. For this reason, I think this story is made up

"I threw them away." I'm a widower. "Don't ever talk to me again except through the divorce attorney I'm hiring right now. Pack a bag and get out."

F that. Why is she still there. That was 100% premeditated when she asked where they were she knew exactly what she was doing with them.

I would tell her to get out of my house and come back with those tapes and if you don’t come back with the tapes, don’t come back at all

Hell tf no don't touch none of my shit at all unless you get my consent....aint nobody gonna force me to throw nothing out IDGAF.....this would of ended in a divorce if this were me

I would say, you better go to the landfill or find those videos within 72 hours or we are divorcing. Regardless, I'm divorcing after for such an ahole move.

Divorce is the only answer