In conclusion: Don’t be a Step Father.

Genetics don't give you authority or the right to be a father, this is why courts always consider women first than giving a man first rights, simple fact that a father's role or presence can change but mothers won't, there are stepfathers who do a better job raising kids.

In some instances there are stepfathers i know who actually did a good job being the father of that child who's not his genetics. I mean Teko Modise turned ok 👍 with a step father in his life

Well there are lots of step fathers who have gained total authority of the child courtesy of failure by the biological father to execute his full duties . So he is right but what he is explaining doesn’t apply to totally absent fathers

Bullshit I'm a step father and we hv 3 kids of our own, so I HV 4 kids in total, there other child knows I'm not her biological father , the guy comes sometimes when he wants to see his child...The most important thing is that your wife/gf must respect you and set boundaries

You wouldn't understand if you were raised by one

Being a Step Father is a thankless job.

No that’s not true, the one that takes care of the child and is responsible for the child is the one having Authority over the child, biological parent doesn’t mean much

Stop with this lying. If you are married to the mother it gives you authority. There's a line you say during marriage "what's yours is mine, what's mine is yours ". That binds the children of the woman to the man

The problem only comes if you have expectations

No authority nor obligation 😂😂

Unamanga lobaba

Bullshit

I found it very queer and even unfair on me to be a step-father. I refused.

@grok please put the gentlemen comment in words.

The best thing to do in this situation is to be friends with the childs father as a stepfather that way there will be a healthy working relationship between all parties involved because one thing you won't aviod is women having children and all these women have children.

Truth

He is so wrong on this one

I will always honor my father.

Where can one see the full video?

Kunjalo wena Advocate. 💯🤞🏾

Same as single father's, they have to acquire inherent parental, rights

Only matured MEN will understand him. Speaking from the position of a stepfather.

NaseBahyibhelini ubu stepfather after kwehla iNgelosi u Gabriel ....awuthj ngithule

😂😂😂😂ai this is the last he must give us advice

Wa the bitter truth