Is it always like this in Marriage?

The part that hit the hardest is when he said “when you get married, you give up the I’s for ‘us’!”

Exactly That’s the biggest sacrifice in marriage, at that point, it’s not just about you anymore

Certain discussions need to be had before getting married, ambition and time management are one of the most important ones, views on feminism and masculinity is also very important.

Even with the discussion at the initial start , you can still see them deviate from the agreement and when you confront them, they will try to blackmail you emotionally

@its___ayo if u r not man enough and know what you want… women will twist everything you’ve talked about and make u think u r the stupid one, gaslight u & make u think u r asking for too much… Women are the most rebellious creation and they don’t know what they want.

@its___ayo They are way too manipulative

@its___ayo You can say that again bro… A lady once told me, he can make reality become a lie, it’s just a matter of doing it till she believes in it… That day my heart cut & that was the origin of how I fear woman & don’t listen to what they say but their actions…

@its___ayo Na their emotions you’ve got to listen to & once uve seen what u need… don’t try to correct them cos they won’t listen, they’ll just do it for a while and go back to that habit you corrected them for… U r not a therapist bro, u can never teach them how to be a wife… move on!

@its___ayo This ‘move on’ hurts a lot when you really really love and have deep feelings for them

The whole time, she was fucking another man 🤣🤣🤣🤣🌪️

And pretending to be busy with career

Gents, don’t deal with women who value their careers over the family. Women unfortunately don’t look at it the same way men do. And if she prioritizes work, it going to eventually lead to really bad outcomes for you.

A very good advise here Men do this mistakes all the time and they are always at the receiving end of the outcome

He gotta code switch his whole flow. For us not to hear Madea.

He tried to be smart

He told her to keep her voice down then proceeds to yell. 😂

He doesn’t want to wake their child up

This is why we don’t want women having a career they end up like this masculine af annoying af

Some will go as far as giving themselves man’s title immediately

🎬 Why did I Get Married?

That’s usually how it goes when she’s the one cheating she finds a little teeny winky entrance way to accuse you with something to hide her guilt

They always have a way of making things about themselves and drop the whole blame on the man

Unfortunately, that’s very true nobody else matters not us not the children just their feelings and that’s it and maybe their friends

This really hurts so bad, man

She constantly deflects the issues and has the needs to right. She doesn't want to be married, she wants to be the boss

She’s simply selfish and doesn’t care about someone else

See both of my parents worked, my mom made more than my dad and my dad didn’t care. They were both home for dinner at the end of the day, both helped raise us 3 kids. Both shared the load of house work. It can be done folks.

It’s very possible when one do not start feeling too important than another

Exactly. When you’re in it for the family, not just yourself. Like marriage is a partnership. Do what’s best for the family not just yourself.

Don’t marry a woman who is more interested in a career than her husband and children. This woman is a one sided coin. Heads on bothe side . No left Orr right. Just center.

Selfishness and Ego is her major problem here

@bmartin1979 That's literally in a woman's DNA

@bmartin1979 A very bad DNA at that

I hella feel bad for him, dude specifically explained every thing he didn't like about her actions and all she got was “My job is better than yours and you're jealous” … shid id throw the phone too

He was never valued in that relationship

Yea that movie just irritates me period

This happens more than y'all know.......I was so happy when he moved out......women with big jobs damn near always try to justify their lack of with their man and then try to make the man the issue.....

She’s just trying to cover up her cheating life

What they say about two captains not being on the same ship. Society never favors a man whose wife is the bread winner. He'll be seen as weakl!ng and a c0ward

A woman can be a breadwinner and also respect her husband, here’s an individual problem

Yes, I forgot to mention she was rubbing it in his face. And I never said a woman can't be, only that her man will never be regarded as expected in society

Yeah true That’s why as a man, try your best no matter how hard to be in control of your family in all aspect

💯 👍

Men always want to be a provider that when a woman is successful than him, it always became an issue especially with their ego. That's how life is.... but their are time that there are men who's okay with having a succesful wife.. I hope all women who are succesful finds that

The man here does not have a problem with her success but how she neglects the family

I keep hearing Madea!

Tyler Perry played this part well i think

Yeah

If it’s that important, I’m cutting hours at work No one has better complain when there’s less money though

Are you speaking on behalf of the woman?

On behalf of anyone who is a breadwinner and is getting spoken to like this

When he get mad you can hear the Madea start to come out

How he threw that phone was so feminine😂😂

He wasn’t ready for the action 😂

Marriage is the biggest and oldest scam on human history

It favors a lot of people though

what movie is this big bro?

‘Why did I get married’

In Africa we solved this problem by allowing men to marry many wives

@daddyk254 Competition stops something like this

She was the one cheating

That’s why she’s covering it up indirectly

Cheaters are always over sensitive

That’s their defense ‘See them before they see you’

Fb???

Done

All that movement to throw the phone 😂🤣😂🤣😂

Man was just confused

I thought I heard madea a lil when he said what u mean all of a sudden !! Lol

This is why I’ll never get married.

Marriage is very sweet, never rule it out

No! Good marriages don’t sell movie tickets

I would have left too. The argument was reasonable from both sides until she brought up how well her career is going compared to his.

She shouldn’t have gone that side

Yes yes it can be

BTW she cheated on him ....she's a bad person

Had an old white lady walk up to me at moes as I’m enjoying my burrito and she says that I look like Tyler Perry and just walks off

For one she was cheating, for two he didn’t bring up his jealously for her career or job just that he wants her to spend more time with him and her daughter, yet she still made it about success and her job smfh

That's women for you