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I have a friend I know someone There are some guys, that can I know someone willing to do so so so It’s always a third person never them

If you believe that story is real and you have convinced yourself that this actually happened. Congratulations, I have 10 plots of land for you in Lekki going for 1 million naira per plot.

Ladies, climb down from the “rich husband” tree. This economy isn’t supporting that fantasy. 😂 Only a small % can live that lifestyle…check the stats before the delusion carries you.

Well, you live in a third world country where unemployment rate is high and labour is cheap asf. Literally everything she’s outsourcing she’s pays peanuts for. If the salary of those house helps/ drivers too big 30k. I don’t blame you, I blame the system.

One thing i don't understand is being a Muslim and a Feminist. Like look at afghan women can't even go to school. I really don't understand Muslim Feminist.

Misogynist men full here abeg, I am a man and married if I have my ways I will outsource everything for my wife, that’s why I help in the kitchen

We all live like kings in our heads. Survival skill is necessary, everybody should know how to do things for basic survival just incase they’d need it. If you ever marry a deadbeat, just know you have extra weight on you. This goes to both genders btw.

Outsourcing dey sweet when you are paying a pittance to the people who take up these jobs. If you pay Driver - 200k House help - 200k Cleaner - 200k Drycleaning - 250k Chef - 300k. Nobody go tell you to learn to do some of the shit yourself.

Delusion will be the bane of the existence of many Nigerian women. The speaker didn’t use her own mother as example of who outsourced everything but chose to use “a friend” or is her mother not a woman too? (That’s if this conversation ever happened). In all these,she didn’t tell us if her friend’s mum is the man of the home,how the marriage is or they’re just keeping up appearances by living together. Many of them will either end up being the breadwinners since they like outsourcing or stay deluded. What’s the ratio of rich men that can afford outsourcing to regular legitimate income earners who can afford the basics in Nigeria? These girls never learn !

That is why there has to be a bill of rights for domestic workers, if the woman was paying hourly in hundreds of thousands she would do most of those things herself. They just enjoy cheap labour period.

Omo! If you no get money for this life, E go be like say you assist people come this life because life go taya you.

One drunk man, they say is..............

The biggest hurt you can cause yourself is marrying a person blind to reality of life, a major cause of modern day divorce. Anyone with this mentality will pack their bags & leave at the slightest inconvenience, "life is about ups & downs" doesn't concern them, just straight up delusions only. It's even more silly, because they are the type that hope you stand by them in trying times, block heads think life challenges only revolve around money. If you call a person a loser because of money, they are free to call you a loser when you fall sick or hit any situation beyond your control... Aura 🤝 Aura.

In as much as I love the idea of outsourcing, Not knowing how to run basic life skills is stupid , I don’t know how tush you try to appear, this take is just daft and shows lack of proper exposure

Good not everyone must slave away. If you have the money to outsource things to make your life easier by all means do. There’s no reward for suffering. If it’s laundry Cooking Cleaning Driving There are people you can pay to get these things done.

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If you have money to outsource everything, please do it for yourself and your wife. The issue is wanting to pay for everything to be done for you while you are struggling financially. School fees can’t be a problem for you and you are paying someone for basic house chores

Feminist take it easy: 1st. Driver is not outsourcing 2nd: You visited on a special day and many do that. 3rd: You visited, but you can’t know what happens everyday. Packaging 4th: Do the man have other wives ? 5th: Commitment after sex and who to marry is dictated by Men.

Genuinely confused as to why this conversation is being turned to one solely about outsourcing labour and abandoning the whole point of the convo which is her checking herself in real time on her display of internal misogyny .Almost feels deliberate

“Is she marrying a loser” Nne you go marry that your daughter o

She knows someone But its never her and her family

“Is she marrying a loser?” Nah, she’s just betting her entire future on finding a unicorn in a country where 1 in 3 young men can’t even find a job. By all means outsource the cooking and cleaning, but let’s not pretend “my husband will hire people” is a personality or a plan. Rich men have options too, and most of them didn’t get rich marrying liabilities who can’t boil water.

I no argue say these things no possible, but one thing wey dey always muzz me na Muslim feminist 😂😂😂, like how does it work?😂

Loool. I love that Hauwa is self aware enough to know that she has internalised misogyny. Many of us have as well and we just refuse to accept that fact.

did she outsource childbirth too?

The worst mistake anyone can make is marrying someone who refuses to face the realities of life. This mindset is one of the biggest drivers of modern-day divorce. People like this bail out at the first hint of discomfort. The idea that life has ups and downs doesn’t apply to them, they live in pure fantasy. What makes it even more ridiculous is that they expect loyalty, patience, and support when they hit tough times… yet they crumble when it’s your turn. To them, every life challenge begins and ends with money. But here’s the truth: If someone calls you a “failure” just because of money, then they should be ready to be called a “failure” when sickness or any situation beyond their control hits them. Energy meets energy. Aura meets aura.

So a woman choosing to be responsible toward a responsible man by keeping the home is now seen as slavery? That’s what you get when a woman raise a child alone .

Imagine suggesting a man is a loser if he doesn't have the means to outsource everything in life for your comfort. I pity this generation.

It’s not a flex to not know how to do domestic work. Besides, this kind of outsourcing is only possible in a country like Nigeria, where domestic workers are treated and paid like slaves. Go and find out if any of your friends in the US or UK outsource the things you listed.

They're always eager to outsource. You'd think they'd be "outsourcing" with their own money. You can't do sh*t, can't afford to pay by yourself to have someone else do it and you're not a loser but when a man doesn't want to pay for your outsourcing, he's the loser? Ok, noted

Lagos gals will always try to talk like they have sense. What do you mean by outsource driver? Do you even know the meaning of outsource.

I hope she also outsources such things when she’s abroad too? You exploit cheap labour here and say it’s outsourcing.

This is why many people would tell you that Nigeria is sweet if you have money The sweetness doesn't go beyond paying domestic staff 30k and playing loud music in their 20-year old Camry Ask them why they don't "outsource" abroad

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