Is this a safe space?

For clarity:

you a fan of space music?

DEVIANT !!!!!!!!! ILL SAY IT

Loooooook don’t make these folks get on my back about their party! I didn’t say Deviant 😂🤣

I did

"I don't want to generalize" and proceeds to make generalizations. Also, just name it. Don't throw rocks and hide your hand.

Too busy worried about what others think of you will ruin your life. Go to the events and if you have boundaries then let them be known. It’s really that simple.

Well don’t go.

Oooooo y’all so hateful in these comments. SAD 😔….. news flash people wanna just enjoy the environment and music and not be touched. Keep ya hands to ya self

Honestly those types of events have existed in the gay community before the gen Z gays were even born so it ain’t some strange new thing that’s being pushed So yeah just gotta move around from them if that ain’t your thing

It’s like going to a crowded club and complaining about loud music n people bumping into him.

then don't go?

You gone have to name drop something cus it was giving “saying a bunch of nothing”

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I don’t think anything is wrong with what you said. I agree , it’s fine to do what they do but don’t assume other people are comfortable. Some of these comments show how some people in the community are ok with boundaries getting crossed on others. Yuck!

You needed all those cuts and notes just to say that?!?!?!

Every space isnt for everyone, definitely go where you feel comfortable.

OMG I finally found my gay spirit animal cuz....same!!!

I feel seen!!! 100% relatable

You made a whole think piece when the option is to stay at home??? Or go places that “welcome” you

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Respecting boundaries and consent is non-negotiable. But if you’re calling out unsafe behavior in gay spaces, you gotta name the parties or cities. Otherwise, it just sounds like a vague warning. Not victim shaming, just saying: clarity = accountability.

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I just don’t go to any gay events. Best decision is to stay home.

I’m 100% with you! It’s like a Colt Atlanta people think I’m an asshole. They assume I have an ego and that I’m better than them just because I have standards.

this is why we grow a pair and go to the straight clubs