Is this man doing the right thing ?

This man is talking plenty.. You have told her what you can afford to do, why exchange words again. Even parents with 2 biological children sometimes make this decision depend on the economy of the home. Not all your decisions as a man will go well with your wife, just do what you know is best and avoid arguments.

For me I support the guy with my full chest if I will marry a single woman her child will never be my responsibility because after training that child the father will come tomorrow and take him guy please don’t play the emotional card when it comes to a woman be factual

Funny enough, she will be collecting school fees from the real father

Me I will not have this energy to do back and forth with her oo. As far as I made my statement clear, and she's trying to argue bro I'm off. First of all, why would you even marry a single mother as a man starting life? Leave single mothers for single fathers.

If you think the guy is wrong just watch this 🤫

There's absolutely NO gain in marrying a single mother. Only fools wife them.

Omo if you didn’t want to take responsibility for the child why did you marry her?? Is it not better both the children go to public schools instead of making the other child feel less

It is wrong for the wife to impose the boys responsibility on her husband while the boys father is alive and well, especially when the man it's repeating it that he can't afford it at that moment. Goodness it's in the heart of those that naturally have it, there so many any grown adults today who have abant their parents who suffered in raising them. You no know who go bury you in your future, you don't know who will help your child in your future. But what I know is that children doesn't forget kindness made towards them and who did not, but adult do forget just as the wife has forgotten her husband's little gesture from the past. There are better ways to discuss this, Most women especially the married ones don't even like to go back to their ex's for anything especially when they are now married.

Note that she calls one child, ‘my child’ and the other child ‘your child’ but she gave birth to both of them.

Best decision the Dude made. As a Man, always make sure to put in place the gap between your wife and her child. Women forget things real quick

“Call the father” I like that line What happened to the father??

That’s the delusion of all single fuckin mothers. Call that mothafuckin deadbeat father of your child to pay for that shit!

She tell you say she get baby abi she no tell you?

@ATownhalll

cus i am sure she tell you and you accept, you don chop now, ur eye don clear

This lady is playing this single mother role very well… somebody please check…. She might be a single mother in real life.

MORAL LESSON: NEVER MARRY A SINGLE MOTHER IF SHE WAS GOOD THE CHILD'S FATHER WOULD HAVE MARRIED HER. MEN BE WISE.

A few years back, I might have not fully supported the man. But in recent times, I’ve gotten to know how ruthless women are, so first of all, I support him with my full chest 🤣 Secondly, He’s doing everything a father should do for the child and is simply saying he just can’t afford this one thing! So we can’t call himself for that! If he decides to do more than himself and send that step kid to a private school, he can goan die before his time because of stress. From another angle, if he decides to go out of his way for that step-kid and she was a girl for instance, she might grow up and decide it’s her biological father that will walk her down the aisle when she’s getting married. There is a very high possibility this same woman calling him selfish will support such a daughter and even society will call the man petty for being angry or hurt by such a decision 🤣

To save yourself all these kinds of conversations, don’t be a baby mama young lady and young man don’t marry a born one.

Notice how she never entertained the idea of calling the child’s actual father? Not even for a split second. Someone you had a whole human being with! You go think say women dey normal until them shock u!

Stay away from a single mother 👍👍. Simplicita

All baby mama are supposed to be arrested, government should build camp for them, everything they need will be inside, no one should be seen around human being.

If you think about it deeply, you’d know he is not absolutely correct nor wrong. If the father of the child is still alive, then he should take up that responsibility since the husband is already assisting in other areas. If the father is not alive, then he should try to

If the father is dead that is no no but the father is alive madam go to the father for child support

You marry a single mother at your own risk

First thing first, if you are not willing to take another man’s responsibility, don’t marry a single mum Period. Whatever going on here should have been avoided the day she told him she is a single mum, lust causes psychological blindness.. y’all should stay out of trouble pls.

Lmao - The man is talking too much. I cannot pay for two. Finish

My only problem is the fact he has to keep explaining and going back & forth with her. For me, your child is NEVER my responsibility. The highest I could do is feed the child when he comes visiting (keyword: VISITING) Every other needs should be met by the father. SIMPLE

Hey anyone here who agrees with that guy in the video is not serious. If you are going to perform your responsibility you do it openly. No one force you to marry the a single mother. And as a serious and responsible man you have to do the two. Let me tell you you will never know,

With this mentality After Everything, they will still tell the guy; “They did not force him to send the child to private school; it was his choice”. That woman is ungrateful and will still be… If the Man is taking all responsibilities including, feeding, clothing and housing; why is the biological father not pitching with school fees?! If she’s not comfortable with the arrangement, she can leave the marriage.

We have seen too many times the husband does everything and on graduation day he is sidelined for the absent baby daddy. Won't be surprised if the woman is still fvcking him. It's happened countless times. Honestly it's a thankless job unless the absent parent has passed.

Bro to bro . Don’t marrying a single mother if you cannot take care of the child to avoid all these arguments

At this point dissolve the marriage for your own safety

Emotions over logic.. A woman’s greatest weakness

This is a clear communication issue. And I think that’s where both spouses got it wrong. Forget about emotions for a minute and let’s apply logic. The said husband didn’t refuse or decline taking responsibility for the woman’s child (which he has been doing) from her previous relationship; he only categorically stated that he can’t afford to send 2 children to a private school based on his financial capacity. However he can afford to cater for one person and of course his own child (the one birthed by him and the woman) is his choice. Logically, that’s very understandable and clear. Now, here’s the issue, the response of the woman actually was insensitive and blunt. Instead of her to proffer solutions she’s there trying to guilt trip the man. That wasn’t the time to impose responsibility on the man just because he has been taking care of the child birthed out of wedlock with another man. Because the tension is already getting high and everyone is trying to defend their stance. Based on the man’s feedback and the woman’s reaction, it’s obvious that the child from the previous relationship actually has a father that’s still alive. Why isn’t he sharing or atleast taking of the responsibility of the child? Also, the said husband would have communicated better about his ability of not being able to cater for a private education for both kids. And like I said earlier on, the best thing the woman should have done was to proffer solutions on her both kids can be given a better education especially a private schooling as wanted by the husband for his own child.

Logic vs emotions. The age long battle between men and women.

The man is very wise paaaaa He should even divorce her