is this true?

Ugh theater kids.

yeah thats wild, have you heard this yet?

It is true and it's beautiful. Women will shame you for having healthy male friendships.

Why does she sexualize spotters lmao

Cozy, you could fix her 💯💯💯

Women think of gyms as nightclubs. They think of it in exactly the same social dynamic.

"And this other time, at band camp."

Must be a Seattle gym

I'm not sure about the whole vanity angle, but you do normally want a spotter if you're going up in weight on reps or trying to max. The encouragement part is there, but you're not going to tongue-kiss the dude for doing a great job at making sure you do not break a clavicle or blow your knees out. Well, some might, and that's fine I guess. Whatever floats your boat.