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It's not always productive to focus on winning arguments. Learn Esther Perel’s approach to having a dialogue, not a debate.

Dr Ola Brown

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Motunrayo1 year ago

@EstherPerel She explains it quite well

Vance Ginn1 year ago

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Michael Makinde1 year ago

@EstherPerel This is profound. In both method, you're trying to make a point. The method you choose determines if you'll win the fellow over.

alwaysmoses1 year ago

@EstherPerel Listened to her a few times..she is good

Michael Nwaehiodo1 year ago

@EstherPerel On default, we want to argue, not dialogue.

Oluṣọla Ọṣibẹluwo1 year ago

@EstherPerel Love Esther

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