It’s really just a preference thing. There’s not really a good immoral argument from those ladies.

Even in your 30’s it’s still weird because where are you even in the situation to even talk to a 18 or 19 year old that’s my first question.

Y’all say it’s weird without giving good reasons why lol. You act like 18/19 year olds don’t go outside. You can see them at stores, at your job, at sporting events, social events, and etc. What’s exactly immoral about it?

@BallersWrld93 If you’re 30+, your life should be completely different than an 18 year old. Maturity, experience, goals, etc. the reason it’s immoral is at that age they are still impressionable and can be groomed and taken advantage of. Imagine 18 year old you vs now

A 30+ year old woman can be groomed & taken advantage of… Manipulation has no age limit… Your life can be completely different than someone your own age as well. Maturity, goals, & experience all depends on the person. It’s case by case. None of what you said is a good immoral argument because it can be applied to woman of all ages.

@xwheresjohnnyx @BallersWrld93 If you think it’s ok to date 18 year olds simply because “it’s legal” you are exactly who they made the laws for. Because if law makers decided you know what 15 year olds are “adults” you’d date them as well. Sick shit.

@xwheresjohnnyx @BallersWrld93 The legal age of consent is like 16 in 30 states. I don’t agree with that at all so my stance is not strictly because it’s legal. It’s because at 18 you’re physically an adult and can do everything outside of drinking & renting cars which aren’t necessities.

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Idgaf any nigga wanting a 18-22 year old at 30 plus ts weird ghe 🤣

Elaborate on how it’s weird.

The same way it would be weird if it were an 18yr old trying to do this with a 9yr old there just isn’t nearly enough in common and the maturity levels of them need to be very off to even find a platonic relationship make sense idk how that doesn’t happen as a 28+ dating 18

Bad comparison. A 18 year old is an adult. A 9 year old is a child.

Why would u date someone who cant legally drink

I wouldn’t, but it’s not because they can’t drink alcohol. I barely drink alcohol. It’s not a necessity in life to drink liquor. I just don’t prefer dating women that young. It’s nothing immoral about that age gap on its face. She can be old enough to drink liquor and still be immature, stupid, and emotionally unstable. Those things aren’t strictly tied to her age or whether she drinks.

I was just saying I don’t care about drinking at all . I was just comparing

It’s weird because 18 year olds typically have less adult life experience and are far more vulnerable to emotional and mental manipulation then older women tend to be So wtf is a old ass nigga fw an 18 year old for Hope this helps

That’s not weird that’s life. Any person you meet in life can have those things over you regardless of age. It’s women in their 30s vulnerable to manipulation. When you say experience do you mean like being in multiple relationships? Because outside of that nothing can prepare you for dealing with another human being than dealing with another human being. You’re taking a risk with whoever you date. I wouldn’t date no 18 year old but that’s just my preference. It’s no good immoral argument for it on its face. In order for it to be weird I would have to know what the intentions are by the man or the woman. You can’t just automatically assume he’s a creep for dating another young woman on its face.

I mean experience as in work experience, taxes, religious experiences, relationships, college, etc.. there’s for more than just relationships to experience that older adults get a chance to engage with and learn from in order to mature from

And that mf in the video isn’t looking to marry no 18 year old let’s be honest he likely has lustful intentions. Most of these manisphere red-pill mfs do So yea imma bet he’s weird

Idc that by law 18 and 19 are considered adults they still kids at the end of the day they still teenagers that still developing still growing and for anymore over 30 is looked at as a predator preying on the innocence of a teenager

That is the view of a lot of people but that don’t mean it’s true. A 30 year old man can prey on a 18 year old woman, a 25 year old woman, a 45 year old woman, and a 55 year old woman. Be predatory & manipulative has no age limit. A 18 year old is an adult that can do everything someone in their 20s can do outside of drinking & renting cars which aren’t necessities. There’s no good immoral argument on its face to say a 18 year old can’t mess with a 30 year old.

@fiercesapphire How do you prey on an adult?

@fiercesapphire The word prey doesn’t only apply to children or minors. It refers to someone who deliberately targets another person to exploit, manipulate, abuse, or take advantage of them. Men prey on grown women of all ages all the time.

Idk bruh. I guess you can argue it's not immoral but when you have options the 18 year old isn't necessary. To each their own

It’s not about a 18 year old being a necessity. It’s about is there something wrong with it on its face. There’s no good argument against it other than preference. I personally wouldn’t date a 18/19 year old but that’s just my preference. I don’t think it’s nothing wrong with men doing that though.

Like i said, to each their own. In my experience it's easy to say no to women. So I see it as someone who doesn't have many opinions. Thats just me though. Maybe the nigga got 5 25 year old baddies and chose the 18 year old. It may not be wrong but I still look at it funny .

And that’s fine Yaya. That’s just your preference and it’s fair. But this whole thing is about that age gap being immoral or not. A lot of people have a hard time seeing things objectively if it’s not their taste. I just don’t think men should automatically be called creeps & weird for this if nobody can provide good immoral arguments against it.

Does this line of thinking apply to age of consent laws across the board? Russel Brand slept with a 16 year old legally. So does the law make it moral or do WE make it moral?

No. A 16 year old is not an adult… At 18 you can vote, work full time jobs, be in the military, buy a house, sue someone, sign contracts, and make your own medical decisions. There’s a clear distinction… but to answer your question the law & common sense makes it immoral to mess with a 16 year old as a grown man.

She was no good for you at 17 years old 364 days but now at 18 she is? Y’all be predators. No man that is 30+ should be dating anyone who can’t even purchase liquor or rent a car. A child still. You suppose to be starting families not robbing the cradle

You can do the same with a 20 year 364 days, 25 year old 364 days, and 29 year old 364 days. At some point common sense has to kick in with that logic. Liquor & renting cars aren’t real dealbreakers. Neither is necessary in life. At 18 you can vote, fight for your country, buy/own property, travel the world, and make your own medical decisions. 18 year olds can start families and they’re adults. You made no immoral arguments against the age gap. 🫩 You just call people predators because they’re doing something that’s not your preference without any proof that they’re actually are. That’s dangerous & ignorant…

The difference those ages are not coming from being a kid. Someone turning 21 (still too young) has had a chance to experience some adulthood. A person turning 18 is wildly different intellectually, emotionally, experience than a 30 year old. It screams I can manipulate easier.

You’re assuming experience, intellect, & emotional stability differs from 18-early 20s. It’s all case by case. All that stuff is not directly tied to age. Especially not from 18-25. Manipulation is not directly tied to age. It all depends on the person. It may be easier it may be not. Adults get fooled all the time by ain’t shit men and it’s the same vice versa. You & others are just apart of selective outrage.

The United States makes it legal to date women at 18, India makes it legal to date them at 12. The human species is confused asf. Just because its man made laws tells our civilization its legal don't make it fucking right. If im 30.. I'm not looking for a 18 year old gf! Shit just wouldn't feel right.

I wouldn’t date a 18 year old either but that’s just because of my preference not because I find something immoral with it on its face. There’s a big distinction between a 18 year old & 12 year old… Common sense has to kick in at some point.

Bro, the women are right and you should be ashamed of yourself agreeing with this dumb shit. I’m 44 ain’t nothing me and an 18 year old have to talk about. For me to even entertain you, you have to be in your mid thirties. Preference to be a creep. Dude said it’s preference smh.

You know you and another 44 year old woman can have nothing to talk about either. Same with a 34 year old, 24 year old, or a 54 year old. It all case by case and depends on the woman. Yall throw this creep word around without giving any good reasons why it’s creepy. Being a creep has no age limit…

He didn’t even say 21 but a 18 year old can’t even gamble or get drunk or even have a drink

Gambling & getting drunk aren’t necessities in life. You don’t need those things at all to live a life as an adult.

Sooooooooooo uuuummmmmm If the legal age was younger ... would he b ok with that???

It actually is younger in a lot of states and I’m not okay with it. It’s 16 in over 30 states and I don’t think that’s right. So it’s not just about legal age of consent for me. But I would never date a 18/19 year old because it’s not my preference. But just because I don’t prefer it don’t mean I think it’s automatically immoral for men that do. It all depends on the man/woman.

Lady the only way to make a man understand is taking women out the equation because they feel women are sub human now ask him is it ok for a 37 year old man to date an 18 year old boy and see what they say

I don’t see what’s hard to understand. This has nothing to do with being sub human. This is about whether the age gap is automatically immoral or not. On its face it’s not and no one can provide good objective arguments to dispute it. It’s all case by case. And I wouldn’t have a problem on its face for a 18 year old boy messing with a 37 year old man. I don’t even see how homosexuality would change minds.

Men will say anything to justify this 16 is actually the legal age for some state even as low as 9 does your theory it’s legal still works for you in these situations?

My argument for it isn’t just based on legal age of consent. I personally wouldn’t date any legal teenager because that’s not my preference. I don’t find anything immoral about it though. That’s the whole point… A 18 year old is physically an adult. She or he can do everything an adult can that’s necessary to live an independent life. Make an objective argument on why it’s immoral.

Trifling. You can’t even get drinks with a 18 year old. At that age, the only thing stopping you from dating someone younger, is the law. If you’ll dat an 18 year old, you’d date a 17 year old smh

Drinking alcohol is not a necessity in life. The legal age of consent is 16 in multiple states and hardly anyone participating in this convo would agree with men dating 16 year olds. So it’s not just a law thing. A 18 year old is a young adult and can do everything a 30 year man can do outside of drinking & renting cars.

@TimDonaghyBetz Okay so let’s go from a different angle then. you have a kid, she turns 18, you find out she dating a 29 year old. You can’t tell me that you’d be like oh okay cool. It only makes sense the way you put it because it benefits you. No real father is thinking that’s fine.

@TrustMyEars I can’t believe how many pdf’s are in these comments smh

Your brain is not fully developed until the age of 25. Some things can be legal but still wrong morally

People still be mentally teenagers way past 25. A 18 year old is a young adult. If it’s wrong morally provide objective reasons first that outside of preference. You will soon find there is none on its face. It’s all case by case…

The reason you shouldn’t date a girl who was 18 being 30+ is bc you have nothing in common with that person and you will always be an “old fuck” to them and they are most likely dating you for money.

That could be the reason… or it could be a genuine link up. Commonality is not strictly age based. Neither is tricking. You never know the intentions of these men & women until you engage with them.

It’s not the age that bothers me it’s more so what a person that age looks like an 18-19 year-old even some 22-year-olds look like children still… Any full grown man who is attracted to another person that looks like a child is questionable to me

Legally not wrong but morally wrong

It can be morally wrong depending on the individuals involved but just in general it’s not. It can be just as normal as a 25 year old messing with a 21 year old. It’s 2 adults…

These the 🥷🏾s y’all claim are experts at talking to women? Bruh is 18. If he’d talk to an 18-year-old, he’d talk to a 17-year-old too. 🤦🏾‍♂️

Bruh, why you trying to justify a 30 yr old man dating an 18 yr old. At 30, you should be in a different phase in life. Just know, you being looked at differently… Ijs

I ain’t trying, I am justifying it. But only on its face. At 30 you don’t know what phase in life you’ll be in. We’re all not the same. You never know what phase the person you’re going to date is in until you actually engage with them. I’m fine with being looked at different by the narrow minded. It’s life…

Can’t justify that bc in most eyes, they still kids at 18. Hints the teen! In no sit should a 30 yr old man be involved with an 18 yr old. WE as black men shouldn’t justify this behavior nor should we normalize it. We need to protect our girls more! Sorry can give any leeway here

Let be real…What’s the reason you would want to date an 18 year old at 30?

Lets… I wouldn’t date a 18 year old. And for any man that would we don’t know their reasons. We don’t know the exact reason why a man would date someone 10 years younger or 10 years older. It’s all depends on the man’s intentions in which we don’t know. They could be a pervert preying on young girls, they could be a good christian man that values her prime years, they could be a man that just so happens to meet her randomly and they have good chemistry, they could be a man out of options and he thinks a younger woman might give him a better chance. You never know… It all depends on the person.

The second part is definitely false and shows mental control of someone younger. As a grown man vibing with a teenager, means he lacks mental depth. A person almost half his age he should nurture not sexualize. My question again is what can an 18 year old do for a 30 year old?

Nah, that 18-21 range is iffy if you’re a lot order. Their day to day lives wouldn’t match up with mine. The conversations would be dull. 22+ is cool with me though. Most people are out of college by then

Day to day lives not matching up with yours is not a good immoral argument to shun age gap relationships. You’re assuming the conversations would be dull. Convos can be dull with women of all ages.

Revere it. Is it ok for a 30 year old woman to date an 18 year old man?

Yes. On its face there’s nothing immoral about that either.

If the legal age was 11, you’d date an 11 year old? How can a man in his 30/40s and up have anything in common with an 18 years?!?!

No. The legal age of consent is 16 in like 30 states and I wouldn’t do that either. I wouldn’t date a 18 year old. Commonality is not strictly age based. You never know what you can have in common with another person until you engage with them.

Ask them hoes how old was that guy that drove them around while they was in high school while he was in college 😂😂😂

Weird they all love a sugar daddy though

It’s wrong because, older women that destroyed their families and marriages need love too and if everyone dates younger women; eventually they age out. 🤣

Any many that says this would 100% date a child if it was legal

First of all why would you wanna date someone you can’t take to a club, bar or a lounge with, 18 year olds can’t even get into adult spots unless they’re faking ID’s

Women can never make sound arguments to this. It’s only it’s weird or gives you an ick. End of the day they are adult so adults can consensually date whoever they want to. Age doesn’t matter at all. If it’s legal then it’s fine

Nigga just weird trying to used voting and shit to justify his perverted/ped behavior.

She got him on the question about if would allow his daughter to date a 30 year old

No she didn’t lol. First of all she shouldn’t be answering questions with questions. He wants the ladies to provide immoral reasons for it being wrong and they couldn’t. I personally wouldn’t want my daughter at 18 to automatically get with a 30 year old but that’s just my preference. I have no immoral reason to say that it’s wrong.

Its a logic vs feeling argument... People say its wrong cause it "feels" wrong.. but logically.... whats wrong with it..

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There is absolutely no way I would date today’s 18 year-old woman. I won’t even date today’s 30 year-old woman because there’s no difference in the two they’re both mentally immature. They both think that they are owed to something specifically because they are female. Ever a man lands in 18 year-old he deserves everything he gets from that 18-year-old and vice versa.

Honestly in 2026 who gives af what women think or have to say. As you can see in the video 99% of their thought processes are purely emotional.

She legal it’s going down idgaf about none this bird talk these hoes was young once and talked to older men. Now that they’re old they don’t want older men to talk to younger women tale as old as time.