It's what it is. End.

This is unrelated Agba. But I got my long awaited blue tick today😁

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I agree. I have always been of the opinion that the most dangerous phase of a man and woman's relationship is the "season of great lack" for the man. That season determines the future of that union/relationship. "He made money and abandoned me." Na lie, rewind the cassette and look properly again. Not too many women scale through that season successfully. Them too dey talk and behave anyhow.

Facts. Provision & financial security is where a man finds respect. A man who has wisdom knows RESPECT is more important than LOVE. You put those you respect ABOVE you, but, those you love BESIDE you. Who a woman RESPECTS, she would VALUE, but who she LOVES, she can BETRAY.

The truth can only be ignored by those who choose to, and that could lead to many complications and utter disrespect. A man must always provide for his family as that is his primary responsibility.

This is the natural order which at least 90% of us can attest to. The problem with today's world is, people want to make some major changes in the natural order.

I just wanna be a responsible man with a wife that knows what she's supposed to do as my wife and partner in this life

This generation and the ones to come will be proud of you. 💯

I’ve seen this played out, the man loses his Authority, he loses his grip naturally. That’s when I decided this will never be me. So help me God 🙏

Very true She might not complain, but she takes records of everything, and it'll be used against you. Brace up and take up your responsibility as the man of the home. So it's best to provide according to your means rather than being relaxed because you've got a supportive wife.

A man who has lost the ability to provide for his family, it's only a matter of time before he loses his voice in his house.

50:50 men be waking up sad this morning. 😂

My question is what of the man that provides for the family and at the end of the day the children he works his ass out for abandoned him at old age and concentrate fully on the mother

an undiluted truth he shared here, both genders have a role to play and when it is interswitched it has its side effects.

But one question i want to ask Agba, does this also play out in relationship too? Because most girls now expect men to start playing these roles in relationships and think you’ll not be a good husband if you don’t.

I have heard this a million times, a man should provide financially and mentally - what is in marriage for a man? I guess the only thing in marriage for a married man is CARE; like cook and do his laundry but most women nowadays don't wanna do that, they called it slavery.

when i first saw the video on instagram agba you're the first person to cross my mind, Make person no go underestimate influence you get on this app.

Yes It's what it is

The advice is spot on but the biblical context is error.

Very short but deep Good morning sir.

This is true 💯 A man needs to step up as the head of the house, but they are times when a woman steps up but it should not be for a.long time Women are not necessarily built to be providers of the family when a man is present except if he isn't (dead or separated)

Another validation of Agba teaching if you like don't listen. Good morning Agba and complement of the season sir.

It's not a small thing oo. We move, regardless 🚶🚶

Yes it's

Provision is man's essential responsibility to his family. Women can't handle this role, that's why they react unfriendly when they fade up. We can't really blame them though 😔

Una Dey use money buy love. Who wan vex make e vex. She’s a human like you in 2026, she probably earns more than you but you are basing your respect on your providing!! She will provide & take the kids if you weren’t there. So let her contribute equally to the family

Basically just a long term pristitute that you are financing? Because olosho can bill you once or twice a week but the bill you are carrying for your wife is financial, emotional & more + headache 247. You might aswell get a woman to give you kids, pay her off and have women!!

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It's what it is

Agba, do you sometimes wish it wasn't like this? I do wish women's nature was a bit not like this.

Happy birthday to me ! @jon_d_doe

In other words, when a married man is going through financial difficulties in his marriage it is best he divorces the wife, find a way to get back up and then go back to his wife. These people have destroyed more marriages than the devil himself

Good morning Sir and happy new year inadvance

This man spits facts 🔥