Ive hit breaking point

@RedWaveCrewHP @OG_Wick0 Rarely want hug strangers, but this post hit my heart😞 Stay strong, friend… we shall see our Fathers again… I’m convinced that they’re looking after us still 🫶🏻 Big Hug💛

I had this with my daughters, then more recently with my nephews. We saw a marked difference in the boys behaviour after I took them to a prison museum, explained that children over the age of 10 are criminally responsible. One thing i also told them all, if they injure their sibling, and that sibling needs A&E, the staff will call the police and there is nothing mum or dad can do to stop it. It’s so soul destroying but they have to know that there are sometimes severe consequences for such behaviour. Bless you.

@RedWaveCrewHP Sit your husband down. Tell him you are going away for a while. Have your bags packed. Call the children in and tell them Daddy is in charge because you are not going to be home for a while. Then leave. Tough love. Your husband needs a reality check.

Oh girl… first, you do NOT look old 🤯 second, I completely understand how tough it is being a mother. No man will ever understand just how in tune we are to our childrens emotions both positive and negative, you are doing the right thing by taking space and sitting with your OWN feelings. 🥰 I’m so sorry you feel alone, your dad sounds like the kindest most gorgeous man!! I promise you’re not alone, my kids are only little, but my word… they test the boundaries of my patience and sanity regularly! 🥴 send prayers and love and positive energy your way! 🙏

@RedWaveCrewHP My sister and I were just talking about this. You have to make yourself a priority. No one else is going to. You have to do it.

@RedWaveCrewHP What you are talking about here is a struggle sooooo many of us women struggle with. We are expected to be everything for everyone whilst we are nothing for ourselves. You are not alone, we are here with you

@RedWaveCrewHP THIS IS NOT GOOD YOUR ON BURN OUT EMOTIONALLY AND NEED SUPPORT AND IF YOUR HUSBAND WONT GIVE THAT TO YOU THEN YOU NEED TO SPEAK TO YOUR GP TO SEE IF HE CAN GET YOU SOME SUPPORT FOR YOU AND BEHAIVOUR THERAPY FOR YOUR SON BECAUSE IF YOU LET THIS STRESS CONTINUE YOU WILL BREAK DOWN

@RedWaveCrewHP U need to get a good friend and have your time and chill while kids at school ..and give hubby a clip round the ear 😎

@RedWaveCrewHP Love from across the ocean. I’d say you’re not alone but I know that sounds like bullshit. Tell your dad I said “hi”. I have great respect for great dads 💕 I miss mine too

@RedWaveCrewHP Mother up! The lot of you! Woman the fuck up! You wanted children now get on with it. Your man doesn't want to walk in the door to your nattering poor me bullshit.

@RedWaveCrewHP I felt this in my soul. I was absolutely in her same situation and I finally found peace after the divorce and that’s sad. When you have a partner in life that doesn’t help you actually share in the home responsibilities you don’t have a partner

@RedWaveCrewHP My dad died two months ago, and this really hit me hard. I had the same kind of dad.

@RedWaveCrewHP Your "mental load" is not your children's problem. Your son is not your father. You're the parent. Grow up.

@RedWaveCrewHP Stay strong and go see your dad more often. Look how this visit has calmed your soul. When I am in troubled, I do the same.

@RedWaveCrewHP Go be a mother and stop fkn moaning

@RedWaveCrewHP I’m 71 sometimes I go to the cemetery where my mam and dads ashes are scattered and sit on the bench and talk, people will say where you been I will tell them they say why, answer they listen nobody else will. Then they tell me why they look for me and then I do it for them .

@RedWaveCrewHP I hope my two daughters talk about me like this mission accomplished ❤️

@RedWaveCrewHP Hi darling, I understand, truly I do. My advice is to eat carnivore. Heavy on the fat. When I started that, within 2 weeks I could manage better, I'm 3 years in and it's really good. I started to understand that no-one was coming to save me. I started being my own best friend

@RedWaveCrewHP I am right there with you, my parents are dead and I am still taking care of everyone else too. I see you and pray for you my soul sister! 🧑

@RedWaveCrewHP then i checked its a south asia account

@RedWaveCrewHP YOUR SON NEEDS URGENT HELP AND SO DO YOU I HOPE YOU GET HELP VIA GP ASAP I REALLY DO WISH YOU ALL THE VERY BEST PLEASE GET HELP PS SENDING YOU A MASSIVE HUG

More than 40 years ago, the man of the house had complete control over the family home. Today, however, women demand equal rights and full involvement in decision-making. When a man tries to offer his input, he is often dismissed and overruled, leading to frustration and a sense of defeat. As a result, he may lose interest in maintaining harmony in the home. Meanwhile, the woman strives to be kind rather than firm, which makes her less effective at disciplining the children. Consequently, the children may lose respect for her authority. Over time, this situation can take a toll on the woman's mental health. While I’m not suggesting we revert to the norms of a century ago, I do believe that women should show more respect for men’s decisions in the family home. Doing so could alleviate some of the mental burden that women carry.

@RedWaveCrewHP Take his toys away. Take his bedroom door off the hinges. Tell him if he wants to earn his crap back fine. Tell the 8 year old to leave him alone or you’ll do the same to him. Get tuff mom. You’re the adult

@RedWaveCrewHP @Tallie_1968 Your kids need disciplining. Now you are upset and run away. Still time to discipline them. They have no right to upset you.

@RedWaveCrewHP The mental load isn’t your husband’s or your teen son’s job to fix. You’re the adult and the parent. Your son’s brain is rewiring. He needs a calm, steady mom right now, not your emotional weight. Missing your dad is valid, but he can’t be your replacement. Step up and lead.

@RedWaveCrewHP U need sleep, have the kids stay with a sitter or their dad. Tell them you have work training and go stay at a hotel for a weekend just you no one else and recoup.

@RedWaveCrewHP Your husband is shite. He's a poor leader of your family. However, his failure to parent your children means you have to step up. Handle your 13 year old yourself. Put the fear of God into him or he'll continue to spiral out of control and will turn out like his father.

@RedWaveCrewHP I felt so sorry for her…but she’s 32????

@RedWaveCrewHP Girl, sending you love and hugs… parenting is hard, but when they bring you home grand babies it will all be worth it … tomorrow’s another day and you’ll be great xx

@RedWaveCrewHP This hit me hard. Both of my parents no longer here. The struggle can be hard. If your parents are still here , visit, hug them and tell them how much you love them ❤️

@RedWaveCrewHP I don’t think I’ll ever be able to wrap my head round why people post their personal issues on social media!!!

@RedWaveCrewHP Bless you. But hey, you are stronger than this.

@RedWaveCrewHP You need someone to talk too , it’s a lonely place even when your in company , good Luck hope you get sorted , and there is always light at the end of. Remember that.

@RedWaveCrewHP The only person who is going to look after you and look out for you is you. Same for everyone. Start fixing your life, it doesn't sound like it's much fun.

@RedWaveCrewHP You chose to have kids which means you chose to have someone to look after. Yes your fella should look after you but you can't say you look after everyone else then bring the kids into it.