Ladies come this side.

I agree with her it needs to happen both ways.

Thank you. Both parties need to bring all those things.

Amen

People often overlook the fact that financial strain is a major reason marriages fail. I hear her point, though it can easily be misunderstood as wanting someone wealthy.

I also understand her but both parties need to do the same.

Very true..both parties need to provide those things

I hear her but in reality not many can get to do this

@TholisoN True. But if we are being honest. Your partner's financial behaviour can either build or destroy you.

Some agree because it's coming from their gender but if it was the other way round they say man must provide

I can tell by how she speaks that she has her life together 🤣

😂That's what I picked up. She has her life in order.

Does she know that we have 5 bank accounts and will only provide the Capitec one 🤣🤣 Credit record means nothing too. You can forge these documents very quickly. You can even do it on ChatGPT

@SdonaG Hah 😳. Please forge a Doctorate for me😭😂

I had to blur out the name of the university, logo and signatures but it took less than 2 minutes to do this 😂😂

@SdonaG @destiny_ndlovu 😂😂😂😂. MIE checks solve this issue.😂😂

@destiny_ndlovu Most of the time they don’t run any background checks 🤣 Also, you only use these certificates in government jobs 💅🏾

Great idea but let's be honest which guy will do this? Losing my financial privacy because ndifuna ukukutshata better siyeke 👏 I'm not marrying someone in the royal family kaloku.

We should be bringing that to an unused pitch. Not a playground where Ronaldo's and Messis have scored so many hattricks

Now ask her her body count because we also need to know about her behaviors

Since we get married to a person’s behaviour, we also need to see clinic and hospital records, maybe abortions and ARV’s will appear on the records

Does she know a thing called prenup? Out of community of property? Is she engaged or married yet

She’s not even being facetious . Listen to what she says … so important .. you marrying into that persons behaviour !!! Well said .

At 65 she’ll still be looking for marriage

Does this girl know a guy can provide all these things and to the eye he may qualify to her and only her but in reality that dude could have R0.00 in his bank account. She's gonna get scammed, she wants shortcuts in relationships/marriage. Marry the one you love, grow together.

She is cooking that’s how it should be

@mphodmoloto I’m here

I think the law is failing us..it’s supposed to make the disclosure as a prerequisite for marriage contract so that a person can decide ..Because as soon as you sign his debts tha je his becomes yours and all his dishonesty becomes yours.. The law is lacking..

That’s a fair ask as long as this comes from both parties. Whilst at it, please add a full medical report, psychometric tests

If this is coming from a man then “wooooh offensive they just girls”🙄🙄

By the time you get married to someone - you’d obviously be very aware of most if not all his financial situation. And he wouldn’t have had to submit all these documents like he’s applying for a lease. Why she trying to sound smart with this dumb shxt?🤣

This is so elitist. Money is not even 20%of what makes a marriage. That is why baniganda.That's why cheating is rampant , ignore all the red flags and make your decision on a payslip. Nidakiwe strue... inflated egos with a thick make up! bullshit. Women must never rule,ayikho le

She should simply go to the newspapers. Pay for a slot and state her prerequisites for a suitor ( since it’s a job employment) nonsense. Over thinking and over rating themselves. Any guy who submits himself to this nonsense is a sissy ! Rubbish !!! Are you a job or a mortgage loan ?? Utter nonsense.

Absolute rubbish ! Then when they in their 40s they start crying to bed

I support this

Lets not get married, you stay at your own place and i stay at mine then we chow each other big time…nothing to lose

Valid. Provided both parties do the same. Financial transparency is crucial in marriage

Agreeing to marry someone whose habits and lifestyle you don't know, is where the problem is. Not income and spending habits.

Y do people act as though they wake up everyday and have strangers knock on their doors and offer marriage, obviously before you get married to someone you would’ve understood their finances. 😭🤦🏽

@VillageGuluva If you’re marrying someone who’s NOT a stranger this will come naturally, if you’re marrying umageza this will come as a REQUIREMENT 🤣

Ask "my brother earn R21 500.00 a month but he wants to by his dream car new which is a Polo GTI. The installment is R11 474 pm and he is asking if he should buy it but i don't know the answer, what should i tell him? " Trust me, this is a real life problem that will tell you....

kanti aksajolwa yini so you can see their behaviour

But why all that if we marrying in Out of Community of Property without Accrual? Women like to sound oke with stupidity.

Ok, the question i pose to her is, why only person has to provide that, why not both of you provide the payslips/bank statements and ICT reports?