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Sir Prince (OG Cruz)8 months ago

Ignorance lives in all of us, but openness, positivity, and awareness turn differences into harmony. Growth begins when we learn to share space with understanding.

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Seth Meister⚡️ - Invictus🏴‍☠️8 months ago

Message is💯spot on.

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logicallamb (a PureBlood unrulyewe)8 months ago

As my kidlets grew up, I repeated, over and over, "It's not what you say. It's how you say it." Makes all the difference in the world.

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Better Men8 months ago

You’re doing well on that

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Sovereign Wolf | Expat Consultant8 months ago

This is why the "microagression" doctrine is so toxic, and causes drama where none need be.

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Aquarius-ing8 months ago

@driannavaldivia Beautiful…starts with being present while listening! I love her smile. She’s truly unencumbered by assumptions. I wish this for myself!

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Redhead Ranting™8 months ago

Well said.

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alise8 months ago

Please can she teach a whole class? So many people need this perspective.

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6h0st8 months ago

Most people don't understand this!!! Most people need to be educated on this!!!

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Better Men8 months ago

Facts 💯

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Yabanci Damat8 months ago

OP:

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Trent8 months ago

everyone knows this but alot of people just choose to be assholes anyway

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Brandon@InTexas8 months ago

This is not taught in schools and it should be.

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Mel Dee8 months ago

This can be an issue for autistic people; it can be difficult when they say exactly what they meant and neurotypicals are trying to “read” more than that because they have a different language if you like.. tone or facial expressions don’t always line up with intent. 1/2

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~ Expletive Deleted ~8 months ago

I feel like Gen X figured this out in First Grade.

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Pontus Wellgraf8 months ago

THIS is absolutely incredible Imagine if every human on earth could watch this little minute of video and knowledge Oh would the world be a better place with more understanding and less immediate anger and fighting

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Marquita Herald8 months ago

So true! Years ago before our first trip to Europe friends suggested avoiding France - "people are so rude!" But our experience was the opposite. We met many wonderful locals and loved our time there so much we extended and did an unscripted road trip - highlight of the trip!

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Jim Murphy8 months ago

Right on, more please. 🙏

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Better Men8 months ago

Got you 👍🏽

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snowchild8 months ago

Bless her heart for this message.

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Danyol8 months ago

I can't handle this level of rationality in 2026

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mifune8 months ago

People of my (geriatric millennial) generation mostly regard this as commonsense… or nah? Lol I do anyway. Good messages.

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Denise DeArman8 months ago

Every word of that was filled with wisdom.

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NP8 months ago

So beautifully eloquently conveyed. Thank you 🙏

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gerry🗯8 months ago

This is, "How to human, for preschoolers". I'm saddened the comments section finds this to be great advice instead of cringe and patronizing. I guess this stuff is no longer obvious? Who poisoned the food and gave everybody brain damage?

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AggregateGains8 months ago

Is there the IG copy of this I would like to share there

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Minty Fresh8 months ago

Best wisdom on the internet this year…

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RNMENTERPRISES.eth8 months ago

Wow.. this could fix the entire generation if they could only truly hear and understand.

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0xAtreyu | Derive XYZ8 months ago

Elite mindset

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Tri_and_go8 months ago

We are not allowed to show curiosity towards each other anymore. To ask anyone where they are from leads to the risk of being labelled a racist, rather than seeing it as an opportunity to understand that person’s background, whether they are from London or Lagos

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SageAgainsttheMachine8 months ago

intent matters 100%. i say this all the time.

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Zaheer998 months ago

Words 💯

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H at large 💜🤍💚8 months ago

Some people go out expecting and even wanting to be offended, and they see it everywhere. This is brilliant advice but I fear the people who need it are the same ones that won’t understand it.

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Rebecca V. Proud American 🇺🇸8 months ago

Beautiful! ❤️🙏

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YH8 months ago

How old is this lady? Because qe all know damn well 😂 that the older woman at SIXTY years old is a Gen-X er who damn near seen everything there is to see. And I don't believe it 😂😂😂. Give me a centennial or an 80 years old and I'll MAYBE --

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Lindsey Ann8 months ago

The problem is, it takes a certain level of intelligence, and discernment, to distinguish between the two, and some groups of people don’t seem to have those prerequisites.

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