Lemme leave this here……..

@Mlu___N2 Cut them off at 29, and its been peaceful. No one is asking for money. You don't even need to cut them off. The moment you say you "dont have" they cut you off🤣

@Mlu___N2 I understand her and She is right. Some family members calls / text you because they want something from you.

@Mlu___N2 I did cut a lot at 35, & it’s so peaceful, earlier this month I decided to cut of my sisters, whenever they had something they will come running to me, uma be right they forgot about me jerr, I’m tired 🥱

@Mlu___N2 Family is family, you help out when you can. You don't get tired. Might not receive money back but through the eyes of God nama Dlozi, u are not a fool. Do not expect rewards when that is your calling

@Mlu___N2 Truth is ppl who do good hardly ever get good done to'em. Do good anyway

@Mlu___N2 No need to cut them but learn to say "NO"

@Mlu___N2 Then people tell us black tax is a privilege and something we must do. Ko wena not all of us

@Mlu___N2 Once u stop giving them family money they cut u automatically off

@Mlu___N2 I understand this 🤞🤞 and it will bring you peace

@Mlu___N2 I think it depends on who those members are. Distant relatives I understand but your close relatives you can never do that. What happens when the tables turn and you can no longer provide for your self

@Mlu___N2 Stopping giving doesn’t meant cut though.. at the same time.. you can go a long time without any communication and still not cut anything.. anyway, what’s the obsession with cutting..

@Mlu___N2 Ohh well, what if she might need them in future , gape life has this tendency of turning like a car wheels .

@Mlu___N2 I can relate. And let me tell you guys something, you arent missing out on anything. Once they are out of your life, there isn't a void- you're actually free and living an authentic life. We hoard things but we also hoard some family and friends- stop that!

@Mlu___N2 Yeah, be selfishanyana. People don't always reciprocate.

@Mlu___N2 I learned “No” and there was peace

@Mlu___N2 Doing something for people with expectations kfana nokuth you not helping you just investing

@Mlu___N2 If we're being realistic, our families aren't all wealthy and we should be able to assist where we can.

@Mlu___N2 I knew I was in the sunken place when my cousin asked me for airtime after I was admitted into hospital with kidney failure. Girl didn't even ask why are you in hospital, bathini? Is it bad? Just airtime🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Mlu___N2 I'm also focusing on my family and I have cut off people who don't care about me

@Mlu___N2 Giving is an act of love, an act of kindness, generosity. Giving with specific expectations is mean, you are giving an obligation.

@Mlu___N2 Cutting people off is just extreme toxic,I don't really believe in.Maybe Just stop being AVAILABLE willingly,be scares and find something to keep busy.Once you start valuing your time,especially how people waste it nje. You'll solve 80% of your current problems.Value your time.

@Mlu___N2 Why is there a dumb gambling sticker on this video? Jeeez

@Mlu___N2 Spitting facts. It’s rude to never check up on someone but when you need money or help they are the first person to call. Cut cut cut

@Mlu___N2 From the onset it has to be each to thier own because yiu realise you were alone all along

@Mlu___N2 inkinga ukuthi uyabala and futhi why afaka abantwana bakhe endabeni zingaba funi"its about time" naye usile lo sis🤞🏾😅

@Mlu___N2 I decided last month, I have been played for far too long

@Mlu___N2 My Peace cost me my people but that was a bill I was prepared to pay.

@Mlu___N2 It will never be me, I'd never cut my family off. I might learn to say no to some of the things they always want but it will never come to a point of me cutting them off. My family will always be part of me and I'm nothing without them

@Mlu___N2 Now we hear another "immediate effect" definition. We are getting Mchununized and Shadracked

@Mlu___N2 The conversation I had with a 2000s was our pay day and we were talking about family respoes. I told hm the honest truth it's good 2 provide 4 the 1 wl stop u bt wen u nid 2 stop u'l know. you go thr stress, depression,♥️attack.

@Mlu___N2 How do I do that though? Hai ke imetswe shem. Worse when you include side chicks on top of that. You just never look forward to month end.

@Mlu___N2 Worst part is when they disrespect you 💔

@Mlu___N2 and it’s totally okay bandla

@Mlu___N2 I know wht she is talking about.

@Mlu___N2 I can relate.