Lobaba is spitting facts only 🤌🤌🤌

This is true our fathers failed us and nathi we are doing the same to our sons its a vicious circle 😭

Eish 🤦🤦

Ubaba uNdabe was on Inanda fm 10 years ago,talking religion, life and other things...I've never missed his show in the morning on a sunday. He has traveled as well.. 👌

He's so well spoken 🤌🤌

ubaba uNdaba told u Msekeku truth and he hated him😂😂

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He cooked my gender.

Nailed it 🤌🤌

One thing ill tell you about this gentleman, he is well versed. These are things and topics we should be engaging on more often than least. Bayanhlanhlatha abanye ozakwethu and it's painful to watch. 🤞

Lol, engaging in this specific topic will never happen because women are the problem in relationships not men, it's daddy issues when a woman grew up without a father but not so much for a man that grew up with no father.

I won't defend anything, i grewup without both parents but i didn't turnout to be a piece of shit. Suffice it to say i still believe if i had both mom and dad i would've been a spoilt brats who might have amounted to nothing. But I've accomplished alot without having both. Still a good father, husband, brother and friend to my close friends. Yet again asifani.

Exactly, some would have used the way you grew up as an excuse not to have anything in life or to have a family of their own so it's all ultimately an individual choice as to how we want to live our lives 🤞🤞

You are 👌

I don’t agree with this old man, you can’t tell a Man how to treat a woman…..women are too much complex to tell man how be a great husband…

Fathers are failing their sons regularly in SA. Some don’t even show up some are just there at home, no engagement with the boys. How then do we expect better family men

All facts...

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he is talking directly to me i am not marriage material

Bab’Ndabe is so well articulated and wise.

Very

Fact that can't be disputed.

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I enjoyed this conversation, we can learn a lot

True

Kuyiqiniso elimsulwa yaz, obaba bethu bahluleka kusihlenga besinike iziyalo eziwotjo nokusidodisa, namuhla sekuhluleka thina ebantwaneni bethu, abanye odadewethu bajlulekile mendweni, kabashadile bazele imibalabala yezibongo kungenxa yobaba bethu bahluleka kukhulisa thina🤔🤔🤔

Ubab Ndabe always carries stones for those hiding in the bushes 🤭🤭🤭

There are more Fathers than there are Dads so just by that statistic, you can easily conclude that it’s true that the majority of young men are not marriage material

They still won't take his advices

Lol you know them very well, we are the only problem here

@teffo_ME Lol and you’ll be surprised as majita we do talk about this a lot, we know and admit di flop tsa rona.

@teffo_ME Oh really, you mean y'all even admit gore a le di husband material?

@teffo_ME We do admit when we’re not ready, “husband material” is about being ready to commit, men are always honest to themselves.

@teffo_ME Lol, you didn't listen to that clip I can hear by your response

Shu that's deep and most of us guys, see it too late that haykona, we are not marriage material,kuske kushube.

If he must buy you through lobola, it's only him who has a right to set standards and specifications for a good wife. Untill the culture of buying people is abolished, men's voices will always hold more weight.

Mthombeni will disagree 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

A lot of things goes the same way to both genders, but our societies have made it a norm to make most negatives to be directed to females. In actual fact the most people who ain't shit are males, Men.

Truth 🙌🏾🙌🏾

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Still this conversation it shift a liability to men sometimes fact doesn't consider nature of men

Oh he ate 😭❤️❤️

Fun fact: 57% divorces are initiated by women in South Africa, women are wreaking their own homes, not men

Realizing this while you are already married is even worse.

Marriage material for men? What nonsense.

Wagadla straight lobaba!! 🤌🏽😫❤️💯🔥🔥🔥

Ngimthandani🫡

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“Bab’Ndabe ungalali” 🔥

Facts

Knowing of self is important

Speaks well this hommie

He definitely speaking facts.

Lalela, 🤞👑🙌

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