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Man married for 24 years with zero physical intimacy asks Dr. John Delony what to do. Caller: “My wife and I have been married for 24 years, and there’s no physical touch between us at all. I’ve given her space for years because of her trauma and health issues,... but I’m struggling. I feel like I’m slowly drowning in this marriage.” Dr. John Delony’s response was blunt: “You’re not in a marriage. You’re a caretaker.” He told the man that after years of living without intimacy, he had to confront the reality of his situation. “You have to either fully accept that this is the life you’re choosing or decide that you’re leaving.” The hard truth: Compassion for a spouse’s trauma and health struggles is important, but so is acknowledging your own needs. Sometimes the hardest decision isn’t figuring out how to fix the relationship it’s honestly deciding whether you’re willing to live with what may never change.show more

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My Girlfriend Gave Me An HIV; Not Sure Where To Go From Here ( Should We Stay Together?) Caller (Tim):so my question is, my girlfriend gave me a... a quite serious STD, and my parents found out about this. They are now against our relationship saying that it's a way that God is showing that this relationship was not meant to be. Um, I've been fighting this like against my parents. And my question is, has... is there too much that has happened for this relationship to work? Uh, or am I trying too hard to make it work? Dr. John Delony: Bro, there's a lot going on here, man. Whole lot. Um, before I dig in, let's... let me just... let's just have a conversation so I can get to know you for a second. Is that cool? Caller: Okay, yeah. Dr. John Delony: Um, you sound a little bit nervous. Are you nervous, or is this just weird? Or, I realize you're calling a stranger being like, "Yeah, I got an STI from this woman that I love." This whole thing's kind of weird. Caller: Well, no. This is basically the first person outside of this situation that I've talked to, so... Dr. John Delony: Gotcha. Well, dude, I'm... I'm grateful for the trust. It sounds like there's a lot, lot going on here. Um, tell me about you. How old are you? What do you do for a living? All that kind of stuff. Caller: Uh, 27. Um, uh, going to... uh, studying nursing. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: And, uh, just about to graduate here. Dr. John Delony: So, congratulations on that. Um, do you live at home? Caller: No, I don't. Dr. John Delony: Okay. So, what kind of STI did you get? Caller: Uh, HIV. Dr. John Delony: Okay. So, you've got HIV. Okay, so I was wondering if this was... The... my first question was why in the world do your parents know? Um, if I'm 27, the last people on planet Earth I would call and tell I have an STI is my parents. But, um, HIV is super serious. What is your, um, health prognosis? Caller: it's... so, I guess the situation gets a little bit more difficult because, my dad does computer diagnostics, and he was able to accidentally kind of find out I have this, and so I am... Dr. John Delony: Accidentally kind of? What does that mean? Caller: Meaning he wasn't expecting it. He wasn't looking for it. It was just kind of came up when, uh, he was doing the... I regularly do checkups. He's a... a doctor. Dr. John Delony: Oh, so he's a doctor at the place where you went to get checked out, and he discovered through the computer system that his son has HIV? Caller: Yes. it's a... alternative medicine that he does, and so it's... it's a very different kind from modern medicine, so it's just the way that he found out. Um, I just go to my dad for all his, checkups. Dr. John Delony: Yeah. What a mess. Okay, so tell me about this person that you're dating. Caller: Um, so... um... I guess what... uh, what would you like to know about her? Dr. John Delony: Well, just tell me about her. Caller: Well, uh, she's a... she's a nurse. Um, and, uh, Illinois, and, um... This is the second, uh, serious relationship she's had. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: Uh, for me, it's... um, maybe the first serious relationship for me. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: Um, and so, she's... I mean, she grew up in a Christian family. She's... um... Dr. John Delony: Did she knowingly... knowingly give you HIV? Caller: No, she didn't know about it. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Is she the first person you've ever slept with? Caller: Yes. Dr. John Delony: Okay. How long have y'all been together?

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Saving Myself For Marriage Was A waste. Caller (Anna): ...how can I help the bitterness and resentment that's growing in me towards my husband, I feel like he's ruining sx for me. Dr. John Delony: How is he ruining sex for you? Caller: Okay, so background... I grew up... Dr. John Delony: (laughing) You were like, "Okay, let's do this." Caller: (laughs) I grew up very religious. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: Very religious. No fun things in the bedroom until marriage. Dr. John Delony: Okay, so you didn't sleep with anybody else until you got married. Caller: Correct. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller: I met my husband now, husband at 27, married at 30. So a long time. A long time. Dr. John Delony: Awesome. Caller: And while I absolutely adore him and I think he is a wonderful wonderful person when we got married, it was... it just was not at all... Dr. John Delony: What you had built it up to be? Caller: Yes, and it still isn't. I feel like... and I've... I've talked to him about it, and my thing is... our honeymoon felt like a vacation. It didn't feel like a honeymoon. Dr. John Delony: What does that mean? What does that mean? Caller: That means that I had to initiate a lot of the time. That means that he initiated maybe once in the whole honeymoon. And I feel like he was more concerned about looking pool-time and, you know, sightseeing than he was with the point of the honeymoon, in my opinion. Dr. John Delony: Okay. Caller (Anna): And that carried when we got home, of course, that carried on. It only kind of became a little bit more stagnant. And that aggression, that lust, that passion isn't there. And I've had to initiate a lot, way more than I really want to. And I don't feel desired anymore. And this is going to sound so stupid, but... Dr. John Delony: Nothing you're saying is stupid. Caller (Anna): I've been having these thoughts where it's like, if this was what it was going to be, I could have been having fun in my twenties. Dr. John Delony: Sure. That's not stupid at all, not even a tiny bit. Caller (Anna): Okay. Dr. John Delony: Don't beat yourself up about that. Caller (Anna): What was the point? What was the point if I was just going to have a regular, normal, boring marital sx life, then I could have had fun while I had time, you know? And as horrible as that sounds, it's how I feel, you know? Dr. John Delony: I don't think it sounds horrible. I don't think it sounds horrible, it makes sense. But I think there's something deeper than this. Tell me if I'm crazy, okay?

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So the discourse around this Dave Ramsey clip is so mixed up that I’ve just decided to upload the whole thing. In the full context of the call, the caller makes it perfectly obvious that: 1. She has been with this man, whom she is now living with, for six years. 2. She is a nurse and can make her own money. 3. She has been out of school for two years, and in that time she has paid off $70,000 of the debt. In the course of the call, Dave never suggests that this man should have to pay for that debt. Indeed, he actively suggests that she leave him, which guarantees he will not pay for the debt. Dave also all but says that, because of her career choice, the caller will be able to pay for the debt on her own, even if she has to take extra hours. All Dave is saying—and this should have been obvious from the original clip—is that the two are not aligned on money and debt at all. It is also clear that Dave thinks the man is stringing her along, which he is. So they simply should not be married at all, because this is a fundamental failure in the relationship. I myself would add that, at this late stage in the relationship, if you do not trust a woman financially, you should simply not be with that woman. And that is perfectly fine. But what you do not do is drag her along for six years when she obviously wants to get married, and then put another two or three years of financial hoops in front of her so that maybe you will propose. It is a waste of everybody’s time.

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CTrefugees

135,314 次观看 • 2 个月前

A man called John Delony after discovering his wife had been having an affair for over 6 years. Caller: “I’m just wondering if my marriage can move forward after my wife’s affair of over six years. It was with somebody who claimed to be my best friend… and several of my other friends.” John Delony: “How long have y’all been married?” Caller: “We’ve been married since 2016.” John Delony: “So she’s been having an affair almost the whole time?” Caller: “Yeah… emotionally it started in 2018, and it didn’t get physical until late 2019.” John Delony: “Do you have kids?” Caller: “Yeah… I had them tested shortly after we found out.” John Delony: “So y’all have been treading water for a year now?” Caller: “She says she’s really remorseful. She wants to try again. I feel like I don’t know who she is, I can’t trust anything she says.” John Delony: “Both of those things are true. You’re not crazy.” Caller: “I just found out another one of my really good buddies was involved too.” John Delony: “Your wife and this guy too?” Caller: “Yeah.” John Delony: “Good God, dude.” Caller: “I stopped digging because I didn’t want any more names… but they just keep coming out.” John Delony: “Your wife slept with your friends. Friends, plural. You had to get your children tested because of your wife’s lack of integrity.”

A man called John Delony after discovering his wife had been having an affair for over 6 years. Caller: “I’m just wondering if my marriage can move forward after my wife’s affair of over six years. It was with somebody who claimed to be my best friend… and several of my other friends.” John Delony: “How long have y’all been married?” Caller: “We’ve been married since 2016.” John Delony: “So she’s been having an affair almost the whole time?” Caller: “Yeah… emotionally it started in 2018, and it didn’t get physical until late 2019.” John Delony: “Do you have kids?” Caller: “Yeah… I had them tested shortly after we found out.” John Delony: “So y’all have been treading water for a year now?” Caller: “She says she’s really remorseful. She wants to try again. I feel like I don’t know who she is, I can’t trust anything she says.” John Delony: “Both of those things are true. You’re not crazy.” Caller: “I just found out another one of my really good buddies was involved too.” John Delony: “Your wife and this guy too?” Caller: “Yeah.” John Delony: “Good God, dude.” Caller: “I stopped digging because I didn’t want any more names… but they just keep coming out.” John Delony: “Your wife slept with your friends. Friends, plural. You had to get your children tested because of your wife’s lack of integrity.”

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160,237 次观看 • 1 个月前

I’ve spent a lot, Marriage is not for kids, I’m not a kid. With what I’ve gone through in life and what I’m worth now, I think like a 30 years old man. I want to be the youngest married man in the world. The first person that bought my wedding cloth is TG OMORI then Gehgeh too.

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I’ve spent a lot, Marriage is not for kids, I’m not a kid. With what I’ve gone through in life and what I’m worth now, I think like a 30 years old man. I want to be the youngest married man in the world. The first person that bought my wedding cloth is TG OMORI then Gehgeh too.

Oyindamola🙄

100,857 次观看 • 1 个月前

A man asked John Delony if he should stay friends with the man who slept with his wife. Caller: “Is it worth trying to preserve my friendship with the man who slept with my wife?” John Delony: “God, no. No. Tell me what you’re thinking through.” Caller: “This is someone that I’ve known since high school.” John Delony: “Yeah… but he slept with your wife.” Caller: “She initiated.” John Delony: “Yeah… but he slept with your wife.” Caller: “I got home early from work. His car was in my driveway. I walked into my bedroom… they were both in their underwear. My wife is not wanting to patch things up. We’re in the middle of the divorce.” John Delony: “Don’t sacrifice your integrity and your character for grief. Your wife has abandoned you and left you.” John Delony: “She embarrassed you in your own home, in your own bed. Your best friend humiliated you.” John Delony: “He revealed himself as somebody you didn’t know him to be. And you trusted him with everything.”

A man asked John Delony if he should stay friends with the man who slept with his wife. Caller: “Is it worth trying to preserve my friendship with the man who slept with my wife?” John Delony: “God, no. No. Tell me what you’re thinking through.” Caller: “This is someone that I’ve known since high school.” John Delony: “Yeah… but he slept with your wife.” Caller: “She initiated.” John Delony: “Yeah… but he slept with your wife.” Caller: “I got home early from work. His car was in my driveway. I walked into my bedroom… they were both in their underwear. My wife is not wanting to patch things up. We’re in the middle of the divorce.” John Delony: “Don’t sacrifice your integrity and your character for grief. Your wife has abandoned you and left you.” John Delony: “She embarrassed you in your own home, in your own bed. Your best friend humiliated you.” John Delony: “He revealed himself as somebody you didn’t know him to be. And you trusted him with everything.”

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40,468 次观看 • 1 个月前

John Delony says the first conversation can determine whether you lose your child. Caller: I recently found out my daughter… she’s 15… and I found out she and her friend are dating. My husband and I are Christians, and I’m trying to figure out how to talk to her… what boundaries to set. John Delony: How did you find out they were dating? Caller: She was texting her girlfriend on my phone… she forgot to delete the messages. John Delony: Good for you for being a parent that checks your kid’s phone. You’re a parent. John Delony: Here’s the first thing. If your 15-year-old had a boyfriend, you wouldn’t let him spend the night. Caller: Right. John Delony: So that world ends immediately. Caller: We put a stop to the sleepovers immediately. John Delony: But I want her to know the sleepovers are not ending because you’re gay. John Delony: They’re ending because you’re dating somebody. I wouldn’t let you have any partner over here. John Delony: Then we get to the faith part of this. John Delony: I cannot count the number of parents who’ve come to me and said, “I would do anything to have that first conversation back…” John Delony: “I didn’t just give them my opinion on their sexuality… I lost my kid.” Caller: We haven’t talked to her yet. I was waiting until I talked to you. John Delony: The first and most important thing I’d tell any parent is this… John Delony: “You are my daughter, and I will love you till the end of time.”

John Delony says the first conversation can determine whether you lose your child. Caller: I recently found out my daughter… she’s 15… and I found out she and her friend are dating. My husband and I are Christians, and I’m trying to figure out how to talk to her… what boundaries to set. John Delony: How did you find out they were dating? Caller: She was texting her girlfriend on my phone… she forgot to delete the messages. John Delony: Good for you for being a parent that checks your kid’s phone. You’re a parent. John Delony: Here’s the first thing. If your 15-year-old had a boyfriend, you wouldn’t let him spend the night. Caller: Right. John Delony: So that world ends immediately. Caller: We put a stop to the sleepovers immediately. John Delony: But I want her to know the sleepovers are not ending because you’re gay. John Delony: They’re ending because you’re dating somebody. I wouldn’t let you have any partner over here. John Delony: Then we get to the faith part of this. John Delony: I cannot count the number of parents who’ve come to me and said, “I would do anything to have that first conversation back…” John Delony: “I didn’t just give them my opinion on their sexuality… I lost my kid.” Caller: We haven’t talked to her yet. I was waiting until I talked to you. John Delony: The first and most important thing I’d tell any parent is this… John Delony: “You are my daughter, and I will love you till the end of time.”

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27,620 次观看 • 25 天前

Larssen says he “learned to fly” and that people have told him: “I’ve done that [too]. I’ve been able to fly.” For him, flying was “a manifestation” and “a reward you’re not asking for” and “a tribute to… opening your mind.” He says “when you’re flying, you’re spiritually open,” in “a different state of consciousness than you are when you’re just praying.” If this is ‘real’ the way he describes, then the line between mysticism, altered states, and reality is operational. Can consciousness literally change the rules of the world? Episode out now.

Larssen says he “learned to fly” and that people have told him: “I’ve done that [too]. I’ve been able to fly.” For him, flying was “a manifestation” and “a reward you’re not asking for” and “a tribute to… opening your mind.” He says “when you’re flying, you’re spiritually open,” in “a different state of consciousness than you are when you’re just praying.” If this is ‘real’ the way he describes, then the line between mysticism, altered states, and reality is operational. Can consciousness literally change the rules of the world? Episode out now.

American Alchemy

67,636 次观看 • 5 个月前

I’m grateful and thankful for all the lessons 2025 taught me, thankful for all of you. Never in a million years did I think exposing the truth would save a life, to the person who wrote this: I’m thankful that you are here with us and so many others who have been struggling through these years please stay strong, you’re loved and not alone. Let’s make 2026 kickass!

I’m grateful and thankful for all the lessons 2025 taught me, thankful for all of you. Never in a million years did I think exposing the truth would save a life, to the person who wrote this: I’m thankful that you are here with us and so many others who have been struggling through these years please stay strong, you’re loved and not alone. Let’s make 2026 kickass!

TruthSeeker01011

22,997 次观看 • 7 个月前

This is the reality of that non virgin you want to get married to and be treating like an egg. Other men had their turns with her for years, leaving their dna inside of her and marking their territory. Whereas there's you going to kneel down to propose to her, then spending millions on her bride price and marriage lists, and after that, you must have to provide for her for the rest of your life and never fail in your financial responsibility as a husband. But remember, the day you face financial issues is the day she'll leave you for another man, but mind you, you won't still escape the Okafor's law during your years of marriage. Any of her exes can still have her anytime they want because they know her mumu button. All it will take is just a text or a call away. Settle for a non virgin at your own peril!

This is the reality of that non virgin you want to get married to and be treating like an egg. Other men had their turns with her for years, leaving their dna inside of her and marking their territory. Whereas there's you going to kneel down to propose to her, then spending millions on her bride price and marriage lists, and after that, you must have to provide for her for the rest of your life and never fail in your financial responsibility as a husband. But remember, the day you face financial issues is the day she'll leave you for another man, but mind you, you won't still escape the Okafor's law during your years of marriage. Any of her exes can still have her anytime they want because they know her mumu button. All it will take is just a text or a call away. Settle for a non virgin at your own peril!

KING CHIDI

20,584 次观看 • 11 天前

Woman who cheated on her husband and lied about it asks Dr. John Delony if she should finally come clean. Caller: “Two months ago, I slept with my gym trainer. I’ve been lying to my husband ever since, and I’ve even lied about it to our marriage counselor. We have two young children, and I’m terrified of what will happen to our family if I tell him the truth.” Dr. John Delony’s response was direct: “You already know the answer.” He argued that hiding the truth wasn’t protecting the marriage it was keeping the relationship built on a lie. “Relationships can’t survive big secrets. You need to tell him.” The hard truth: Confessing may have painful consequences, but continuing to build a marriage around a secret affair doesn’t give either person a real chance to make an honest decision about the future.

Woman who cheated on her husband and lied about it asks Dr. John Delony if she should finally come clean. Caller: “Two months ago, I slept with my gym trainer. I’ve been lying to my husband ever since, and I’ve even lied about it to our marriage counselor. We have two young children, and I’m terrified of what will happen to our family if I tell him the truth.” Dr. John Delony’s response was direct: “You already know the answer.” He argued that hiding the truth wasn’t protecting the marriage it was keeping the relationship built on a lie. “Relationships can’t survive big secrets. You need to tell him.” The hard truth: Confessing may have painful consequences, but continuing to build a marriage around a secret affair doesn’t give either person a real chance to make an honest decision about the future.

FΛME

66,987 次观看 • 8 天前