Many of you will relate…

This is great 👏🏼 Thank you for all of your content that hits close to home. Really helps to recognize what has been going on for many years

you ever listen to @solarheavy?

may this never find me; fuck that.

wow, this was almost identical to how i was dumped. caught me off guard because things weren’t communicated to me until it was too late. was told i was insecure and that i didn’t have to make things difficult. bummer.

Makes it sound like a “fully honest” avoidant is a narcissist underneath. Not sure I agree with that. But maybe there are different personality “overlays” atop the underlying difficulty forming an attachment.

Wow. Just...wow 🥺 May my intuition forever block and remove me and my heart from the hurtful things that are said and felt in silence.

Annd THIS is why I stayed in a miserable and abusive relationship for 7 years. Now that I've had time to process it and have gotten serious about getting better it's has become so obvious. Learning about this has made a lot click into place. My ex treated me terribly but I

Freakishly accurate. Happens no matter what I do or who I'm with. What can I (as avoidant) work on?

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Wouldn’t they kitchen sink first ?

100%.