Men are so creative😭

"And secondly guys, I just don't want to change my surname" = "I don't want to marry her"

At the end of the day….”you my bm I won”

Men know exactly what they're doing sana🕊

I want to understand why his mom let him use his dad’s surname when they’re not married. Why didn’t his dad pay damages? This could’ve been avoided, yazi.

Thank you!!

Usile he’s just enjoying the Vat and sit and hiding behind deadbeat issues

Exactly

Helang if he said he doesn’t wanna change his surname why doesn’t he just NOT change it 😭🤣

He's making excuses nje qha😭

Usile lomntana bethuna, akamhle uCandy that time for yonke le mess.

Bro it's actually quite sad

“I know you guys are gonna come for me” Bwoahhhhh

He knows he's talking shit😭✋🏾

also who’s surname does the baby have if it’s THAT serious ?!😭

Apparently Candy's😭

@sindiisocool They aren’t married mos so that’s valid

@sindiisocool Did I say it was wrong?

She yawned immediately lmfao #bored

"Se bua masepa sose"😭🕊

Even Kwaito married Lizzy with the surname problem. This one simply doesn't want to shem.

Exactly

I thought he was different 🤡

Why would you think that?🤣

Because of the way he has been a present father and how he always reprimand his buddies when they speak ill of women🤡

Performative kabi😭

🤣🤣🤣

He met with his dad few months ago for the first time 😭thought we’ll be lobolaring around this time mos

Like what was the point?!😭

Yho, all I'm hearing is that he's not going to marry her😭😭😭

That's exactly what he's saying😭

😭🕊🕊

If he had the intention to lobola Candy with urgency, he would go through the entire admin of changing his surname through the system and documents. Or ask his dad to lobola him so he can rightfully use his dad’s surname… inxaki akafuni qha

Exactly!!

you guys don’t understand the problems that come with using the wrong surname

Then don't?😭 There are solutions to his "problem" he just doesn't want

@Katlehooo_ Mara Rati ? It’s not that easy especially if you’re a child caught up in between di ntwa tsa batswadi le malapa 😭

@ohyessratii he literally says in the video my parents aren’t married but I’m using my dads surname

@ItsKaytr Why use your dad's surname if your parents aren't married?

He can marry her, use a different surname. Go thata fa kae? Like Candy Steppa

He just doesn't want to😂

And it's too late 🤦‍♂️💀

Dude i even left a comment on their YouTube video because what ? 😭😭😂.i don't ever comment on YouTube vlogs

😭😭😭like this video made me cringe so hard. Who's he feeling like??

😭😭😭😂😂 i just took as maybe they don't know that it is not a must for the woman to change her surname

He's a Zulu man, so it kinda makes sense bc they actually take such serious...Zwelakhe's role on Kwa-Baba is A great example of DOD's situation... Y'all love being weird man

Every tribe takes surnames seriously first of all, this has nothing to do with being Zulu.

This is the second time he is addressing this and I sill don't get it😭😂 cause wareng geh?! Nna nekere Candy ae tlhoboge

Nah he’s actually being silly 🤣🤣🤣

Genuinely😭

He doesn't want to change the surname but the surname issue is also the reason why he can't marry her. 💀 Men.. I want to marry its just... 💀💀 yoh!

😭😭😭 aww sana, so the child took her mother’s surname right?! Better be bc ngoku alot of kids are being given their father’s surnames w/out marrying the mother

Yes she did😭

Asoze bethuna😭😭😭

He is crying guys 😱😂u mst stop

😭😭😭anghleki

Ke utlwa excuse fela mo.

Exactly!!😭

Watch him marry his next girl within 6 months with no “surname” excuse🤞🏽😭

Ngl I lowkey get this 🙈

Okay doll

So, he’s using the correct surname but because the father didn’t pay damages - he can’t marry her? He’s mad

And women do and have done this surname admin with not much trouble after being married but because he’s a guy it has to be an eloborate stumbling block 🙃

Ke MaZulu ao.

Weeh if she believes these stories we wish her the best😭😭🤣

Eish i kinda get him because my brother is in the same predicament 😭😭😭

There's a solution btw

eish yah neh 😭

And deep down she knows he's bullshitting that's why she told him to answer the question😭

Unless he has plans to convince his father to do the right thang. Otherwise???

The boy is not ready for all that pressure and why the rush 😭 aii women in comments section

Not ready for what pressure? He literally has a child with her. He was ready for fatherhood but not marriage? Oh pls

It’s going to take him almost 7 months+ for surname, passport and plus he has to use his father’s surname and his mother will feel betrayed 🤯

But home affairs has nothing to do nesintu. He can do all that is supposed to be done culturally without changing his surname on his ID and ngesintu you can pay damages for you father if you're able or give him money to do so. You can tell he consulted his Midrand druggies

Apparently he consulted Father Patrick😭👍🏾