Men, This is why you should never talk deep with a Woman ‼️‼️

If your girl is like this, then she’s the wrong gorl for you. Ever since I met mine, we have connected on every level, in every way. Talking about deep topics is how you form a soul bond, not anything bad at all. It grows both of you closer.

Men. Please don’t listen to this bs. And make sure you & your girl ARE on the same page when it comes to politics, finances, & expectations. This is TERRIBLE advice.

This guy has been in the friendzone so many times he is traumatized

Never ever do any of this. BE AUTHENTIC. Flow, build, create.

Only ugly girls care about your feelings. He’s talking about fine bitches and he’s 100% on the money. You literally can’t relax or let your hair down with them. Any moment of vulnerability is a sign of weakness. You can’t even chill and let them comfort you. It’s a sad reality.

This might be true for certain women but definitely not the majority.

Counter-opinion; men should stop listening to dating advice from men that aren't happily married. All you get is lessons from people that never figured it out.

What this says to me is that this man can't handle being the equal of a woman. This man can't embrace authenticity and vulnerability and prefers faking fine and simulated peace to the messiness of real life.

Seems like an advice that is valid only with narcissistic women. The kicker is that there are nowadays a lot of narcissists wearing skirts, bras, makeup.

This man seems damaged. He even looks sad. What he described is the female escort/male client relationship. Men: follow this dude’s advice if you want to be single until you die. 100% promise you no woman wants to marry a man like this.

I totally disagree with this as a general rule cause it depends on the type of girl in question. For Shallow minded dumb girls, yes this works. But for smart women 😂 the deep talks make them admire you especially if you don’t over do it and keep it fun in the process. I love smart women and that’s how I have been able to keep them in my life, most even get married and still call for advice on issues their men can’t help with. As a young man, follow this person’s advice at your own lose. Dumb women are easy to sleep with but the trouble they can come with can ruin you. Smart women are hard to sleep with but they can help your life in many ways. Choose wisely.

Simps be on the comment section saying bro is wrong. Go on and tell your woman your vulnerabilities and let’s see how it works out for you. You need to experience certain things to understand

Never mistake kindness for weakness‼️

I’m not the one to generalize but this is mostly true and it applies to a very good percentage of women But the thing is, they’ll come across this post and somehow make themselves the victim of it 😂😂

Hopefully young, impressionable men don't listen to this. Look, I've cried and opened up to my wife in the past. No, my marriage hasn't suffered. It's all about the woman you choose. If she's kind, supportive, and loyal, then she's not going to leave you or stop loving you 1/2

Yeah, this is complete bollocks. Probably some truth to it in the early stages of a relationship but, if you can't talk about anything beyond the superficial after that without her losing respect for you, you're with the wrong girl.

what is the point of a relationship according to this secular view? Idiotic

BS, obviously you don’t know what love is ❤️

Lies. Some of the best people I know are women, some of the best conversations I’ve had, have been with women. Stop creating incels, you don’t have a sleep or date every woman you talk to. Worrying to much about the finish instead of the start. Have deep conversations with them

Perhaps this is the male equivalent of women telling other women to cut their hair short.

This is not true

This just silly. Very silly. The idea that you should hide who you are or suppress yourself is phony and cowardly. Cowardice is definitely unattractive to this woman and I know I am not alone.

Not all women are like this, but there are women like this. Guys & Gals there can be two truths. it's okay... 🤣

I was a serial dater (self-described "relationship guy"). I'm old (but not fully used up as of yet). I'm just going to say: this is 100% true but only 97% of the time. There are good women, I know it, but I rarely found them. Those are the ones I kept. The ones I couldn't/wouldn't keep are the ones that couldn't handle those deep talks. And it was a majority of them. The reality is that EGO got in the way. They would think they knew better just cuz that's the way it made 'em feel. They'd say things like, "That's how I feel...I can't help how I feel!" and it was true: self-fulfilling prophecy. I wouldn't stay with anyone who talked like that because it's impossible to work with it. With my current, lovely wife, I don't talk deep. I tried...just as a test...and she couldn't do it, so I keep things fun and light for her. At least I'm old enough to know her limitations, but she'll never know mine (sadly).

This is some of the worst advices I have ever heard - I was waiting for him to reveal it was satire or a joke …

Do this for dating, but never settle for a woman who isn’t your spiritual equal. Also, politics is not deep.

Guys, don't listen to this man. Somebody hurt him. I hope he gets over it one day and finds a real woman. Not whatever air-head puffball he's describing here.

This guy was hurt really bad...if u can't trust each other to talk about real stuff what's the point. U don't need to tell her every problem u have going on but deep conversations and connections are what this life is about

I disagree. Deep conversation is an aphrodisiac for women. You just have to show strength not weakness while you do it. If I talk about my traumatic childhood (when asked) and am stoic about it, not a problem. It builds respect not disdain. Just don't be a bitch about it!

True, but only in the early stage of a relationship. Later on, it’s normal to talk about such things openly. Still, never expose your fears,worries,or weaknesses, she’ll subconsciously start seeing you as a weak man, she’ll remember and use it against you later. Write this down.

This isn’t actually what happens in real life. I want to break it down for you. The key is showing vulnerability with strength at the same time. That means acknowledging your feelings and weaknesses without losing the sense of safety a woman needs. Women are constantly asking themselves: Are we safe? It’s not about disrespect or control—it’s about safety. If you show too much weakness without a plan, her defenses go up because she doesn’t feel safe, and she starts looking elsewhere for stability. The way to be honest and intimate with your wife without losing that safety or the respect that comes from it is simple: acknowledge your feelings but always follow it with action. For example, I’m feeling upset about this situation. I’m struggling. But here’s what I’m going to do. I’m going to fix it, I’m going to get through it, and we’re going to get through it together. By framing it like this, you’re saying, I’m human, I have challenges, but I am taking responsibility and leading us forward. That communicates both vulnerability and strength. This also activates the helper instinct in a woman. She doesn’t feel unsafe; she feels needed. She wants to support you because she knows you’re leading the way, not falling apart. Here’s the crucial part: action must accompany the problem. You can’t just vent and stay stuck. If you feel frustrated about your family, for instance, follow it with, I’m going to distance myself from this negativity. I’m going to figure out how to manage my emotions. Here’s my plan. Then she responds naturally, Okay, what can I do to help? That’s how you engage her emotionally and practically. She feels useful, respected, and safe all at the same time. Think of it like this. Don’t present a problem without a solution. Ideally, have at least three possible ways to handle it before you speak. Then present it to her as, Here’s the problem. Here are three solutions I’m considering. Let’s figure out the best path together. This allows her to emotionally sort through it, which is her natural skill, and collaborate with you. You lead, you problem-solve, and you move forward together. That’s how intimacy, respect, and partnership actually work in marriage. Women have an instinct to survive and protect themselves from instability so you can’t trigger that unintentionally because the problem is that society has women so wound up with instability economically, socially emotionally. They’re very scared already. It’s the climate and environment we live in if we lived in a more economically secure environment. I think women would be less jumpy, but because we are living in the times that we’re living in this is the best way to deal with it

This is the most retarded take I have ever seen. If you do what he is saying, you will never be taken seriously.

If you’re intelligent you’ll enslave a woman’s soul by talking about these stuff, how could you let a woman out deep you as a man, it’s a chance to make a woman feel like you’re a prophet, a mind reader and a satan himself and they love the temptation from satan

Keep God centered in the relationship and share your thoughts and emotions but stay true to you….simple!

Around her talk about drama - supply her a wave of emotions. Keep it this way with her. Go deep on your goals