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Minnesota HC PJ Fleck - The difference between Happiness vs Joy within a Football Program - Happiness = Circumstances dictate behavior - Joy = Never letting circumstances dictate behavior

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Rick Darlington1 year ago

Priceless wisdom right here!

Goldie and Goodie1 year ago

Some High School Texas coaches might get paid more than PJ.

Mark🏈Vruno1 year ago

Great stuff, @Coach_Fleck! SO glad you didn’t say “elite!” 😆 Go, Kaneland Knights, Robert Spillane and Ridgewood Rebels!

Ruggers1 year ago

PJ is a gift to all of us

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