“Monogamy is not working. We are pretending” — Okey Bakassi

Speak for yourself sir

He has some valid points.

In the Nigerian economy? How can one afford to be polygamous? What will happen to the seeds from that union? Even in financially buoyant societies, people can't adequately distribute themselves among multiple wives or women. E.g. Nick Cannon. How will each child become a well-rounded human being? Polygamy might be the nature of man. But in our present time, it is economically, psychologically and mentally disastrous to man, woman and offspring. A man that chooses nature “(polygamy)” over reality will be punished by reality. May God help us.

True Men want quantity Women want quality Fact is that most men staying monogamous because they do not have the resources or money to do it, but deep down they want it and that is why most men have side chicks For, Women they want the best man that can give them everything

Me no fit marry one wife sha

Am not a fan of monogamy, we all know our customs and traditions monogamy is not one of it. We should stick to what have been working for our fathers and forefathers.

Seriously monogamy no too make sense. E de make the women feel entitled and also the men too. Make woman de marry two husband and man de marry two wives. Una go see changes.

If you are not rich ,I repeat,If you are not rich . Do not involve yourself in polygamy. Even those rich polygamous guys don't find it easy. One is difficult to handle talkless of 2,3 or 4. Most women by natural instinct don't really like themselves and are easily jealous, they don't enjoy sharing the same man . They just pretend they do .

Nooo Women too should have more than one husband