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Most marriage problems don’t suddenly appear overnight. They often begin as “small issues” that get repeatedly ignored until they become impossible to hide. But there’s another red flag worth discussing: turning every relationship disagreement into public content and asking strangers online to referee it. Social media can give you... show more

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LORD HOKAGE🇦🇺2 months ago

Very valid reason to call off the wedding.

Adams IBN Sadiq Adeika.2 months ago

My dear you took a very brilliant step not just good but brilliant one. That mentality is a very dangerous one and such family are really could be very toxic when you disagreed with them on their stance. Weldon dear, that's if this story is real. Which ever thou.

MAI2 months ago

This girl ran away from evil 👿, women, watch the statements from ur in-laws and boyfriends most times

Chinedum2 months ago

Nne you did the right thing. Leave and move on.

J. Olawole Aliu2 months ago

Run sister…. Run for your life Their family believe is more important than you and your life

Izu Onwunali2 months ago

Ashawo work never tire you. Go back to the street where you belong.

Motionz Samzy 🇳🇬2 months ago

Omo u get bad mouth oo lol

always truth2 months ago

The girls decision is very right

TalkSense with BBO🇬🇧🇳🇬2 months ago

I'll always advice ladies, if you dont want your marital palava to have memorial, watch what they say and belief especially their mothers.

Kindle Obi2 months ago

If a man opens his mouth to say he will deny his wife consent for CS in a live or death situation, it is a legitimate position that the woman runs from that relationship. Don't die from someone else's ignorance, and of course lack of love.

ikem ikem2 months ago

Leave the mother in-law out of this matter na her man be the wahala

Myk egbe2 months ago

You took the right decision. That is a family that might have some very strick funny beliefs and traditions. They might even go against blood transfusion,if they see CS as a no no. Again the guy's mother is over beating and just too controlling. Thank goodness she showed it.

James Jackson2 months ago

My sister your decision is the best ever. It's better to walk away from religious people. God will give you another man better than the one you left

Henry_K2 months ago

You’re not ready for marriage! I’m very happy for the young man, he just escaped unstable woman.

Samuel Ighalo2 months ago

Sister, I think you did the right thing.

livingstone20182 months ago

There's something she's hiding, she never talk the main problem 😭.

Chimamazin’2 months ago

Her mistake was changing her church to please her boyfriend’s mother. She should have known that the woman is troublesome.

HORLAX TEMMY2 months ago

The issue to me is not the cs but how archaic the family you intended going is

JusTaz2 months ago

Na men. She’s right to run. What if she had to do it through CS? Lazy ppl give birth through CS? He’s ready to be a single dad

papas beauty2 months ago

You ve already positioned urself on d eventualities of wife-mother-Inlaw war. From d very 1st time u stored in your memories the church opinion from your mother-Inlaw is the moment you started doubting the family. Then ur friends you seek advice from helped you to end it all.

DataSenseHQ2 months ago

She thought she ran for CS discussion but he actually ran for a family where the grandparent call the shots in each nuclear family

Crystal Pearls2 months ago

You took the right decision. It’s beyond giving birth through CS, they have other sets of beliefs they’ve not talked about that’s going to mess the marriage up and it’s going to be only you against their entire family.

Boogle2 months ago

Somebody wishing and praying for you never to born through CS is not a bad prayer

GIU2 months ago

How did Catholic or no catholic get involved in this? 😂🤣

Leo2 months ago

Valid reason tbh

Jeff2 months ago

NNE, u have all the rights in the world to walk away biko. We're talking about your health, your body, Ur trauma, your pain, your body and more for God's sake. It's in your place to decide how you wanna birth your child as a woman... God will give you your own man who will stay

Charles Plaisance2 months ago

Thislady God bless her. She was with an asshole who did not look at her with human eyes or understanding. Run away as fast and far as you can.

Ese Irhe-ken2 months ago

Thank you for taking the right step. God just saved you from a terrible family.

Rivkah2 months ago

Especially now that he has told you, if you go back, you have agreed to their terms and conditions i.e natural birth or death..

Kanayo Onye Nkuzi2 months ago

You’re not ready for marriage. Never heard marriage scattered cos of CS. Are you a doctor that you should be doscuong birthing methods.

Emmanuel Ikwuji2 months ago

It's okay to call off the wedding based on your narration as there was clearly a threat to your life. But why were you OK calling the name of the Catholic Church but were careful to hide the name of the pentecostal Church you attend!?

FredchinVibes2 months ago

I support her 100% They crossed the line when they made it a law. so should it come to that, it's her life of normal birth. babe, run.

Da mcCoy2 months ago

Stories that never happened

Kay handsome2 months ago

Thank God u didn't marry him. Nigerians and marriage like say na heaven goals. Illiterate family. CS na sin for Bible..?? 😳 Marry family were people are enlightened n wise oh noh be all this religious fools.

BIG MEC🤴2 months ago

😂 omo from the beginning seems like the mother is controlling the guy Which kind dirty controlling mindset is that What sort of believe is that kwanu… Imagine big issues oh chim…

I’m Ogadi2 months ago

The woman is the looser because the guy man don fuck am a lot. I don’t care if a woman leaves my life so far say I don knack am Wetin no good. Omo my prayer na make u comot and make a new Toto enter asap 😞

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