MY 9 MINUTE RESPONSE:

well no, aside from the fact that some of your takes here are correct, you as a white person have no right to say that it’s fine for white people to choose ethnic names. if you are white and your name after transitioning is fucking “tsuki” i’m gonna think ur ridiculous.

@GR0UNDZER0IRL

that’s not an excuse in the slightest😭

White trans person having a dog shit opinion on appropriating ethnic names, fork found in kitchen.

If I knew this was gonna blow up the way it did I would’ve cut that part out tbh, it’s off topic and doesn’t add much to the conversation. I just wanted to counter *ALL* of the points, as that’s the thesis of the video. I don’t have a strong opinion on this.

Ngl its weird for u as a yt person to discard the cultural significance of names. Also blaming other trans people for the genocidal laws that are being put out is fucking ridiculous.

“We run the risk of being murdered” Yeah, so by not saying anything you increase risk and result 10x

Didn’t blame a victim anywhere in my response.

To clarify I’ve ALWAYS been a woman, I just meant pre-transition

transmeds are weird for thinking people are somehow less trans or less correct for not undergoing hrt and its so stupid genuinely whether you disclose if your trans to your partner isnt my concern idrgaf but can we not pull dumb friendly fire over this shit

yes you have the risk of being murdered because again you entered a relationship didnt disclose that and no shit anyone would be pissed when you LIED about something to deceive this is your fault dude

>no culture has ownership over a name >poc have european names something tells me that you dont have many friends or even acquaintances that are Native American?

youre dumb as fuck

Too be clear. Hiding something about your identify or lying when you know it’ll change consent of a person IS RAPE!! You would be and are a rapist

Trans rights!! But you need to disclose that you’re trans. If someone will murder you for being trans, maybe don’t date them? Why would you keep such a secret from someone ur dating? Most men want to have kids. Not disclosing info that may make them decline consent is predatory

I agree w most… but it is super culturally insensitive to use names that dont align w ur own culture like that shit is Weird… & It is important to disclose that ur trans to partners for ur OWN safety i don’t think everyone is owed an explanation but u can’t NOT ten toes down

Already if you’re worried about getting murdered from telling the person you’re suppose to love your trans I feel you shouldn’t be with that person anyway

You do realize that c!s women worry about getting murdered from men, and they still date men. The only realize you’d think it was different for trans women is if you’re transphobic. Because you can never know WHO will respond with violence. Shocking you don’t get this.

I don’t think it’s different if you’re worried about someone murdering you shouldn’t be with them man,woman,trans whatever

Women are worried about this no matter how nice the man is… why don’t you get this? The solution isn’t “never date men”

Where am I saying this no no woman I’ve talk to has ever said or implied they’re worried about being killed by they’re partner you’re just lying and for what

I’ve seen about 28492938483 tweets on this app that would disprove this

Ok yeah this is twitter there’s bots and psychos that proves nothing

Do you know why every response to legitimate logic is a 9 minute psychological profile? It’s because you’re trying to convince yourself that what you’re saying is true by rationalizing them as inherently wrong based on how you view them and their opinion

girl you missed hard with your cultural names take

Well said! He sounds no different from a cys person (based on his argument). "You need to disclose that you're trans" how about you hold cys people accaountable for proving themselves to be safe and worth disclosing for in the first place??

Theres literally been trans people killed bc they haven’t disclosed their identity, there was a big case in the UK, where a trans woman was sued for not disclosing it. are u wanting more killed or sued?

In my opinion, please tell me if my tone seems rude or offensive! But i would like to know if my partner is trans its not a deal breaker or a problem i just wanna know! My girlfriend is a trans women and she told me when we started seeing eachother and weve been steady for 3yrs

You’re fine lol dw

old pin:

I agree with the first part but the disclosing thing no. You should tell them if you have any seriousness with the individual. Its in the same ball park of telling someone you have kids, bpd, mania, a serious body condition etc etc. trans women are women yes-

I think your overblowing the “have to” bit. Because is if your preop you kinda have to disclose that (No it doesn’t make you a rapist if you don’t but it makes you out to be a asshole) for reasons ive already stated. Post op you should it would be smarter, safer & better to do

Like ether way pre or post it is 100% better to get it out. For multiple reasons 1 if they treat you differently then that means they treat all trans people differently. Why would l you want to be with someone who does that to you or others? 2 sexual orientation(pre op exclusive)

3 if they are a closet bigot and the find out later you’re at a way higher risk of harm harassment or worse as they could take it as a personal slight or see it as deception via withholding info, & they would then know more about your life home work etc. Unlike if you told them-

Off rip. That way they know nothing about your life family work home etc so forth. 4 yes trans women are women but your trans first unfortunately. There are medical things you can get that women cannot vice versa. On top of things we cannot do like have biological kids which-

Some people will want and thats totally understandable. And before you bring up adoption or doners some people aren’t comfortable doing that or wanting to adopt both which have their own issues. So it’s understandable people will wanna have it naturally or as natural as possible

And yes im away of the transplant research going on. But that has its own issues on top of being expensive. Bottom line is its smarter to just be open with who you are it saves, time, money, effort & your own safety. Rather that withholding information & giving half truths

why am i getting transmed bullshit on my timeline

mans level of dysphoria may not warrant HRT, fine; but if his level of dysphoria isnt enough to even care if hes misgendered, then what even is his transition? cuz if your trans experience has nothing to do with dysphoria then ur IMO just experimenting with gender

I was initially skeptical on where your argument was going yet all I see is your own hatred towards another person who is within the category of being trans, if I identify as my gender given at birth and dress in a non-conforming way to said gender it doesn’t make me not be mine

you seem like a terrible rude person who is unironically doing the blaire white "since your transition isn't strictly medical and gender conforming your invalid"

youre stupid and socially inept i think some of the points and leaps in logic are absolutely beyond me how you can rationalize.

Dude if you’re scared telling someone day 1 over text that you’re trans might get you murdered yet you think after fully having sex with him then he finds out himself and feels deceived you’re safer your reasoning skills suck. Btw why does a trans person NEED to take hormones?

So not disclosing what you are while looking for a relationship is fine. I'm sorry but no. That's just selfish to the highest degree. It happened to me I had a great conversation with a great person but I felt like they've been avoiding a topic close to them-

Also my old roommate was a transman, they haven’t taken pills or had surgery.. not bc they want to ‘change later on’ THEY CANT AFFORD IT 😭😭😭😭

When a transgender woman says: 'I identify as a woman.' It's fine and true, everyone is free to identify with any gender or be gender fluid. When transgender woman says: 'I am a woman.' It's a lie, because you are not and will never be a woman by sex. Sex is fixed, can't change.

Pretty accurate

Thank you :D

@BriannaWu I agreed with your vid but you do not need to hug and kiss Briana wu about it lmao

@BriannaWu ????????????????? I litterally just said thank you lmao

I never understood why people call themselves trans and never make the effort to transition. It’s also why I feel like I don’t fit in queer spaces.

If you have bottom surgery it’s a different story but if you are not you 100% should disclose

There’s a massive difference between “Should” and “have too” Should = it’s my opinion that it would be good for the trans women to disclosure Have too = you HAVE too or you’re an evil rapist, fuck your safety concerns.

First time disagreeing with a trans person. Some ppl just aren’t sexually attracted to trans ppl, doesn’t mean they’re transphobic, never has, never will. Except if they’re blatantly transphobic about it, it’s just their opinion and u should respect it yo.

she was right until the point at 5:04 if someone doenst see a difference in gender, links gender to apperance example: trans man identifies as a man but sees his breasts as masculine and not a woman thing then he prboably wouldnt have any dysphoria by his breasts

You 100% read male. So you not have to disclose.

Lmao I know you don’t even believe this

Dude I watched your video. You real 100% overweight teenage boy. And you know it.

@heyitsrosemulet 🤣🤣🤣 100% literally no-one would think this is a woman. Not even a masculine one.

@LukeLRPS Don’t lie to yourself I know you don’t even believe that LOL

i mean not disclosing is how you're gonna end up on a tshirt. not necessarily saying thats right, i think yall belong in padded rooms, not dead, but you're gonna roll the dice with every straight dude you hook up with and this vid will age like milk.