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My public speaking tips -Practice practice practice (Present it 10000 times until you know it in your sleep) -No sugar or caffeine the day of the presentation -Remember “your body and mind are separate entities” (Physical nerves symptoms do not stop your rational brain - you know the presentation)...

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