Nice guys always finish last🤧🤧 this conversation around “nice guys” is way intricate than it is analyzed though. But i digress.

The earlier you understand as a MAN you don’t need to be MR NICE GUY rather be a KIND MAN. Women don’t know how to receive you being NICE to them. Be a KIND MAN not NICE MAN..

Long story short; she didn't love him. The end

The problem isn't exactly with being nice, but that most people are so traumatised they don't know what to do around such gestures. So we're all just inadvertently creating a society where toxicity becomes the new love language.

Took almost 2 minutes to say “I didn’t love him”

Reality is women like knowing they can blame the other person if and when things go wrong. Having someone who checks every box makes them have to be accountable for things and they hate that. You can be nice but just have to have something wrong they can point to

Nice guys finish last because they’re willing to compromise their morals and values to be “nice”. Women are great at sniffing this out. It’s better to stand up for what you believe in and be respected and rejected than be accommodating for MAYBE more female attention.

the weird thing about this nice guy palaver is that most times, it is analyzed or based off the emotions of the lady in question, and not just any lady but indomie generation or gen z or post gen z girls...ladies from millennial era or premillenials don't have this as a deal breaker, it might pop up but it's not an issue... And outside the love emotion, love is more than an emotion though, outside childbearing, I don't think that there is any thing that's beneficial enough to stand the test of time that is based off on emotions...so most times, there is no fixed goalpost concerning mr nice guy...but people don't talk about this and I think it's ridiculous to say...

She sums up a lot of women. He ticked all her boxes and still wasn’t good enough, this is why guys it’s got to be about us, we run this show and the girls follow. If you make it about the girl then you are always going to lose.

This is not about being nice, the guy who did this might have girls he didn't do this for . He loved you and u didn't love him back. It's simple as that